if you're a cutter.., click if you dare Options

[*jeanna*]

i feel like im some heroin addict when it comes to cutting. it is like someone trying to stop smoking. i gave my dad all my razors and told him and stuff.. and now i want them back like crazy [in secret], i found an exact-o knife.. and..
well i dont want the little girlies squeeling over it. so if you can relate to me check out my xanga
www.xanga.com/green_bracelet

[*autumn.*]

yeah way to make 2? 3? topics on this. awesome.

[MeanBastard]

Sexy. Now pick up the phone and call a teen help service.

[*AngelicEyz00*]

????

Jeanna, this is like the 3rd topic I've seen you make.

I'm gonna keep this one open, but that's keeping in mind that no more cutting topics be made.. kk

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

heh u made 3 topics on this....we all know cutting is hard to stop,well most of us, and u postin ur pictures in ur xanga and such is just making us feel pitty.... if u realize u cut so much why not try to stop comepletely.... u made ur dad give up smoking, and believe me thats really really hard to stop, and hes doing it for u so u can stop cutitng.....

You want pitty? I have none for you.

i have ALOT of pitty for your dad though, i cant imagine how worried he is to leave u alone at home,or let u out of the house, or when ur in the bathroom for too long, or when u feel depressed, You know why i feel that way for your dad? Because my sisters a cutter, and when she wants something she will eventually get it,because if my parents wont shell eventually hurt herself, so my parents are trapt at the momment.... and i sit there....just sitting there...listening to my mom cry and mumble how shes feeling so hopeless and such....and all i can do is listen. When ur cutting urself ur not helping urself, sure it directs the emotional pain into physical, but how long will that last? try to find something more productive and less dangerous to focus ur emotions on..... And just because ur hurting yourself, doesnt mean the people around u arent getting hurt as well.

I pitty your dad , that i do.

-edit-

I reread and i noticed i misread about the quiting smoking part.....well anyways, ignoring the smoking related comments ive said,i mean the rest

[mouse_3k]

I dont pity you..I dont really pity NE cutter unless they die from it. so dont blab about it all over the place. just sounds like u want attention cause u be posting the same topic everywhere..

[melface]

I dont pity you..I dont really pity NE cutter unless they die from it. so dont blab about it all over the place. just sounds like u want attention cause u be posting the same topic everywhere..

That's kind of heartless...


Jeanna, I'm sure you know that this is not healthy for you... That you need medical attention... I read in the other topic... about you having to tell your doctor... Good, I'm glad. But... are you suicidal? or are you just a masochist? Either way, you need the help.

[sporadic]

Cutters pretty much bring it upon themselves. But if you seriously are addicted to cutting, get help...

and you really don't need me to tell you that.

[dani41790]

wtf y do u keep making the same topic?!?! umm no offense or anything but from what ive seen on ur xanga, u need help. umm cutting is nothing u should be proud of either

[jambaJUICE]

Im getting really tired of seeing threads on "CUTTING"
And im pretty sure many others are as well.

So you might want to stop...

Oh yeah and heres the B&G HOTLINE -

1-800-448-3000

[interwoven.reali...]

pretty much you need to stop because I don't want to add you to my site of remembering dead teens

[*wind&fire*]

cutter cut because thats what they think they only have control over .... i pity them ... get help

[someflipguy]

dude this is scary!!!

[mouse_3k]

That's kind of heartless...

well now days, people only cut for attention and i hate tht. esp. when people post pics of themselves and tell other people to go *check it out*. idk..maybe it would be ok if it was at a Help Cutters website or somethin and posting pics to see the condition and all.

but with xanga and tell people out of a random place to see it..iurno..kinda sounds like..she wants attention..

[melface]

Maybe she just needs understanding...

[mouse_3k]

iurno, maybe?
o well

all i gotta say is cutting is bad..err stop. its wrong, call a hotline or ask a counsler for help if u really want to quit.

[islandkiss]

wtf?


how many threads did you make on this?


you're proud of cutting? that's wrong and that's pathetic.

[Just_Dream]

wtf?
you're proud of cutting? that's wrong and that's pathetic.

Personally, I would like to see you argue that point. No offense, but many of your posts degrading something don't have much to back it up.

Some people just need to cut because they can't deal with the emotional stress and pain. I'm not a cutter and I don't exactly know what their pain feels like, but they find a physical and emotional relief from all the stress and depression. Cutting is a symptom of depression (no sh*t, of course ). It may be wrong in your eyes, but to others, they feel the need to cut... They can't deal with some emotions... I agree with melface.. they do need help. But it's great that they are admitting that they want help, that they want to be able to overcome this problem. It's a sign that they want to get better.

So please, x3_kelly, don't say it's "wrong and pathetic" because anyone can cut themselves. We're not all perfect, so don't act like you're better than them because you don't cut.

Even if some seek for attention, they still need help. They must feel unloved or something has emotionally damaged them.

[177emories]

please stop cutting yourself!!! and talk to your friends when ur sad!!!

i saw your pictures and it makes me sooooooo sadddddd please don't do it anymore!!!! if you feel bad for any reason or if you need someone to talk to pleasseee feel free to write something in my xanga i wont ignore you it's mizJY @ xanga okies? please stop cutting yourself your such a pretty girl!!!! and i don't want to see things like this happening your better then that!

[LiLaZnGirL122]

okai gurl u need to throw away ur knifes like seriously i mean jus try and if u really cant talk ot ur ffrds rite ur feelings in a notebook go to counsiling jus stop cutting urself and throw away ur knife

[*tweeak*]

didnt this topic get closed??

[*[2]Nekked*]

didnt this topic get closed??

no but the other 3 duplicates were.

[islandkiss]

Personally, I would like to see you argue that point. No offense, but many of your posts degrading something don't have much to back it up.

Some people just need to cut because they can't deal with the emotional stress and pain. I'm not a cutter and I don't exactly know what their pain feels like, but they find a physical and emotional relief from all the stress and depression. Cutting is a symptom of depression (no sh*t, of course ). It may be wrong in your eyes, but to others, they feel the need to cut... They can't deal with some emotions... I agree with melface.. they do need help. But it's great that they are admitting that they want help, that they want to be able to overcome this problem. It's a sign that they want to get better.

So please, x3_kelly, don't say it's "wrong and pathetic" because anyone can cut themselves. We're not all perfect, so don't act like you're better than them because you don't cut.

Even if some seek for attention, they still need help. They must feel unloved or something has emotionally damaged them.

she made a pointless thread.. she cuts and she's proud of it. what's pissing me off is that she sounds like she craves attention. << THAT'S wrong and pathetic.

I'm not trying to sound like I'm, quote unquote, "better than them just because I don't cut"



I understand that people cut because it's a cry for help. I FIND CUTTING WRONG. it can often, unintentionally, lead to stitches, hospitilization and infections. some people that cut have no intentions of permanently hurting themselves and suicide is less likely since cutting some how relieves their pain.

[*jeanna*]

you guys wouldn't want to know why i started cutting. i'll make it short so people dont get bored or think im proud of it. my mom mentally and physically abused me, i have no friends in my junior year of highschool or since i started h.s, my parents got a divorce [which was a good thing], living with two of my sister who were complete and utter bitches and even told me "WE ARENT EQUAL SO STOP TALKING TO ME." and i said, "wow, you must have never read or heard of the consititution..." you see what i mean. and now my 22 year old sister emily has taken all the stuff i told her from my deepest darkest secrets and told my mom and now my mom calls my dad saying all the stuff i told my sister. i have 4 sisters and i never talk to them or would ever again. i dont think it helped having a person i would talk to 24/7 who was a cutter before me. i'm not proud of cutting.. and therefore i have stopped after 6 months. i have no grandparents left.. no one to turn to but my best online friend who lives in maryland . i never talk to people and i have been on 5 anti-depressants since may. prozac and klonopin arent helping so tonight maybe i can get that changed [dr. appointment]. being ugly and being sexually harassed isnt a fun way to live. i just wanted to clear up the whole part of me being "proud" of cutting. it's in my past now, and i hope people can understand that if your life has been going down the hell hole and there is nothing there to pull you out, you reach for anything to tell you are human like everyone else. it wasnt a fun thing and yet again i may say, i am not proud of being a cutter nor should anyone be.
just close the topic, i have had to tell my "life story" about a million times to all the therapists and physcologists and i dont think it would help my aliby by repeating it again.

[inthemudhole]

Yeah. I've cut before.
More than once..
It's not something that I talk about openly.
I rarely talk about it.
I don't want people to think I just do it for attention, because I don't.
I have my reasons, but I don't exactly care to share them with you right now. They're a bit personal.

Yeah, but anyway.

I'm sick of people bashing on cutters as a whole person.
There are many people out there that have legetimate reasons for what they do.
Sure. It's not the best way to handle it, I guess. But it gets them through the day.
Most aren't suicidal. Most just.. have issues, and they feel this is the only way to get rid of their issues, or whatever the reason.

Yeah. A lot of cutters do it for attention.. where they only scrape at themselves for a bit of attention.
I don't feel bad for them.
If they're telling everyone about what they do, then I have no sympathy for them. They brought that upon themselves.

I do have sympathy for those who actually have issues in life. Who actually have been through something heart-wrenching.
Yes. I know. It's not the best way to express what you're feeling, but it's better than them resorting to suicide, right?

[shrug]

[mouse_3k]

being ugly and being sexually harassed isnt a fun way to live.

damn i know how tht is. i get sexually harrassed everyday. somehow, ur life is like mine with the no friends thing and ugly and sexual harrassment and abuse and jinx.


hmm when i use to cut alot, i go to this website. its facetheissue.com or something. u can try tht if u like.

[lilxroxy]

:\

i`ll be yur friend if that can make you stopping hurting yurself.

smile. :]

[krispy_kreme333]

I'm sick of people bashing on cutters as a whole person.
There are many people out there that have legetimate reasons for what they do.
Sure. It's not the best way to handle it, I guess. But it gets them through the day.
Most aren't suicidal. Most just.. have issues, and they feel this is the only way to get rid of their issues, or whatever the reason.

Yeah. A lot of cutters do it for attention.. where they only scrape at themselves for a bit of attention.
I don't feel bad for them.
If they're telling everyone about what they do, then I have no sympathy for them. They brought that upon themselves.

I do have sympathy for those who actually have issues in life. Who actually have been through something heart-wrenching.
Yes. I know. It's not the best way to express what you're feeling, but it's better than them resorting to suicide, right?

i completly agree the people that r doin it 4 attention......they are wrong and should stop cuz they cant really get attention ne other way so ya but then there are people that have reall issues and have had shitty pasts but i completly understand where there comin from and why they do it

[krispy_kreme333]

well now days, people only cut for attention and i hate tht. esp. when people post pics of themselves and tell other people to go *check it out*. idk..maybe it would be ok if it was at a Help Cutters website or somethin and posting pics to see the condition and all.

but with xanga and tell people out of a random place to see it..iurno..kinda sounds like..she wants attention.. 

you need 2 stop judgin them and try and help them instead of just sayin oh that wrong and pathetic..... actually be there adn try 2 help!

[luckyxi3]

you need 2 stop judgin them and try and help them instead of just sayin oh that wrong and pathetic..... actually be there adn try 2 help!

yeah that`s right. you can`t just be going off and saying people who cut themselves are pathetic. i don`t think people have a right to say that especially when they haven`t walked in their shoes. so just help that person out and atleast not to judge that person by what she does. some people have issues that bother them a lot and just take them out on self mutilation.

[highly_evolved]

hm.. again i agree with everyone that people who do it for attention are just wrong. its not something people are proud of when they do it. most of the time they dont think that they will cut themselves till one day they have to. maybe they dont even have to they just dont know what else to do. Its hard to find help, its emabrrasing to tell people, you wonder weather they think your doing ot for attention. Everyone needs somone they ccan tlk to, who they can trust. its very very hard for some ppl to know who to trust and who would lsiten to them.

[Heathasm]

i cut when i was in the 8th grade because of things..i still have the scars
i've come close to doing it again recently but i hope i can get over that
i never took pictures or showed people my scars...even being that young...so i find it very very childish that you've resorted to that

[highly_evolved]

i cut when i was in the 8th grade because of things..i still have the scars
i've come close to doing it again recently but i hope i can get over that
i never took pictures or showed people my scars...even being that young...so i find it very very childish that you've resorted to that

i think the only reason that would be valid for somone to take pictures was to remind themselves of what would happen if they started again..

[Shattered_Hope]

cutting yurself shouldnt be an excuse for any problems.....three words....u need help.

[vivieeeen]

jeanna...



I know that there's probably nothing that people haven't said, but I should say...

I do know how you feel and why you're cutting and why you can't stop.

I sincerely recommend you to the facetheissue.com site. (if you don't enjoy going to clinics)

It helped me. I hope it can help you.

[I.Luff.Emo.Boys.]

heh u made 3 topics on this....we all know cutting is hard to stop,well most of us, and u postin ur pictures in ur xanga and such is just making us feel pitty.... if u realize u cut so much why not try to stop comepletely.... u made ur dad give up smoking, and believe me thats really really hard to stop, and hes doing it for u so u can stop cutitng.....

You want pitty? I have none for you.

i have ALOT of pitty for your dad though, i cant imagine how worried he is to leave u alone at home,or let u out of the house, or when ur in the bathroom for too long, or when u feel depressed, You know why i feel that way for your dad? Because my sisters a cutter, and when she wants something she will eventually get it,because if my parents wont shell eventually hurt herself, so my parents are trapt at the momment.... and i sit there....just sitting there...listening to my mom cry and mumble how shes feeling so hopeless and such....and all i can do is listen. When ur cutting urself ur not helping urself, sure it directs the emotional pain into physical, but how long will that last? try to find something more productive and less dangerous to focus ur emotions on..... And just because ur hurting yourself, doesnt mean the people around u arent getting hurt as well.

I pitty your dad , that i do.

-edit-

I reread and i noticed i misread about the quiting smoking part.....well anyways, ignoring the smoking related comments ive said,i mean the rest

i totally agree.

[mr_brigtside]

Maybe you should go get proffesional help!

[sheddingtears]

addicted to cutting?

imagine how your father feels.