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 Mar 6 2004, 09:12 PM
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i've been going out with this boy for 3 years.. and i relly love him, but no one sees us together... *sigh*.. only sometimes people sees us together. we don't even talk that much. and i don't think so he is even going to vote for me for the 9th grade Vice prez, and i running against my friend wynette...
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| *krnxswat* |
Mar 6 2004, 10:35 PM
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So, what is your problem?
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Mar 6 2004, 10:42 PM
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 advanced newbie... S2 Group: Member Posts: 3,504 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 752 |
 and so? thass nice if you love each other...? er...?  no use for this topic? er? please continue... 
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| *CEP* |
Mar 6 2004, 10:53 PM
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Dont vote for him for the 9th Pres?
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Mar 7 2004, 01:32 AM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
um.. its been 3years and it doesnt look like u two are going out and u two rarely talk.... wow.. lol if im u... well its been 3years and thats pretty long.. i value time of being together so ill stick wit him for a while.. until i feel that its really not worht being wit him if he doesnt act like a bf.? i think a bf should like... wen he knows that u two dont talk much he should try to get his chance to talk to u as much as possible... if nto then hes not a good bf and u should jus find a better one?
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Mar 7 2004, 11:08 PM
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cb=bullshit. Group: Member Posts: 1,783 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,793 |
this... confused me...
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Mar 8 2004, 10:52 PM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
QUOTE(vrents_wife @ Mar 6 2004, 9:12 PM) i've been going out with this boy for 3 years.. and i relly love him, but no one sees us together... *sigh*.. only sometimes people sees us together. we don't even talk that much. and i don't think so he is even going to vote for me for the 9th grade Vice prez, and i running against my friend wynette... seems to me that y0u d0n't seem t0 really have that much 0f a cl0se relati0nship with 0ne an0ther .. i understand that the extended am0unt 0f time y0u've been t0gether with him may have caused y0ur attachment. but 0ther than that, h0w d0 y0u keep things go0d between the b0th 0f y0u if y0u hardly spend time with each 0ther? y0u sh0uld talk things 0ut with him and c0me t0 s0me idea as t0 h0w y0u keep y0ur relati0nship str0ng..c0mmunicati0n is 0ne 0f the keys t0 a successful relati0nship.. |
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Mar 9 2004, 11:32 PM
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jsut say i love u
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| *jimmyjackiechan* |
Mar 10 2004, 12:02 AM
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this sounds liek a platonic relationship rather than an intimate one~
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Mar 10 2004, 12:46 AM
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 LuShuZxLaNa Group: Member Posts: 606 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,854 |
QUOTE(phanaticalazn21 @ Mar 9 2004, 11:32 PM) jsut say i love u wth is this topic about?! okay not trying to be rude but. Your level of the word is completely different froma person that's older. You are a bit too young for it, because your maturity level havent been developed. Love is undescribable, its truly azmazing. Some people say you don't really know what love is the fact that once you are older, and wiser. You respect people different, rather than you were only 5. Its the same thing with love, theres levels to it. Like, for a wife to not see her husband for 5 yrs, and she stays loyal to him. And once he comes back, everything is the same, nothins changed because their love "level" is way beyond what you'd define it.
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Mar 10 2004, 01:15 AM
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 i'll treat you like milk.. i'll do nothing but spoil you Group: Member Posts: 257 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 577 |
i dont mean to sound all rude and all but at your age i dont think you should worry about things like that.. you're only in 9th grade and prolly dont know the true meaning of love.. heck im 19 and ilove my gf with all my heart and soul but people still say im too young to know what it truly means..
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| *jimmyjackiechan* |
Mar 10 2004, 09:19 PM
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Hey, think of it like this, since every one is sayign u too young, and I think the same as well.
Every time u get hurt, u grow stronger alright? U gaining experience, and everytime u gain experience, it will go towards the real true love later (WAY LATER) in life. (Marriage and finding the right person) Hoep this helps, give us a response back on what u think~! |
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Mar 11 2004, 12:12 AM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
Are you SURE it's a relationship? 3 years? Um.. I'm amazed it lasted 3 years. Wow, voting for class president, huh? Um... okay.. well I dont' really have advice except, maybe you should consider having this guy as a friend because if you want anything more intimate, someone's got to take the first step. Have you even kissed him (besides the cheek!) yet? Cuase if not.. WOW...
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| *CEP* |
Mar 11 2004, 09:03 PM
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QUOTE Are you SURE it's a relationship? 3 years? Um.. I'm amazed it lasted 3 years. Wow, voting for class president, huh? Um... okay.. well I dont' really have advice except, maybe you should consider having this guy as a friend because if you want anything more intimate, someone's got to take the first step. Have you even kissed him (besides the cheek!) yet? Cuase if not.. WOW... *snickers* They hugged. HAHA - Chinkieeydpnoi |
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Mar 11 2004, 10:12 PM
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 Perfectly Flawed Group: Member Posts: 1,913 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,652 |
ya, love seems to only be an illusion.
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Mar 12 2004, 09:34 AM
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 the one and only Group: Member Posts: 138 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,559 |
If he isn't talking to you, maybe he's trying to let you know he is losing interest. Not necessarily the deal, I just know that when guys are at that age that can be what they do when they aren't feeling it any more. And also, you are only in ninth grade, which means you guys have been together since sixth or seventh? Myaby you should both get out there and see what else is there for you. I am not trying to say that you are too young for love or anything like that, but I am saying that at your age, you should maybe be more concerned with things like your family, friends, and school.
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Mar 17 2004, 11:20 PM
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 i am a smoe Group: Member Posts: 119 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,009 |
Well, I dont really get the problem...
but uh, a conclusion I kinda drew from your situation is that you might not have broken up yet because you guys dont hang out that much, and you didnt have a lot of actual time to get to ... annoy each other. Why not talk to him about it, and not us? And about the love thing.... you're in 9th grade. So unless you're absolutly sure that you love this guy, I suggest you really think about your relationship with him. |
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Mar 18 2004, 11:24 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,823 |
im lost
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