i like her but..., what do i do? Options

[xmagicked]

ok i like this girl, and shes goign out with this guy whos pretty much my friend and well eyah we are friends we hangout all da time, adn the girl i like likes me, and shes still goign out with that guy, and she likes me a lot, what do i do in my position? i like her...

[Oreo_bro]

this should belong in relationships.

and if you like her you will realize that how you feel is not neccesarily wrong, but dont act apon those feelings. In otherwords, she is dating some one already, and hes your friend, you dont want to mess up there realtionship and friendship do you? Dont tell your friend either, just tell her that yes you do like her but you dont want her cheating on your friend, just be friends for now. if she breaks up then go for her, but otherwise dont be an ass and mess up the relationship of your friend who is in love just cause u "like" her.

[LittleLulu]

k that girll.....she shud clear things up cuz right now its like ur friend is being played..so u shud talk to her n tell her smthn like

"um.. hey u know... abt us... i dont want to ruin the relationship u guys have... but if u like me..n not him then its not fair to him...all im sayin is... i hope u can mak u mind n chose one of us... i dont wanna hurt him but i reli like u..."

.....um.. smthn like that.... all im sayin is that she needs to clear things up n...well u need to let her kno that/

[< Random >]

this should belong in relationships.

and if you like her you will realize that how you feel is not neccesarily wrong, but dont act apon those feelings. In otherwords, she is dating some one already, and hes your friend, you dont want to mess up there realtionship and friendship do you? Dont tell your friend either, just tell her that yes you do like her but you dont want her cheating on your friend, just be friends for now. if she breaks up then go for her, but otherwise dont be an ass and mess up the relationship of your friend who is in love just cause u "like" her.

This doesn't have to be in relationships... Maybe he is just asking for a guy's opinion...

And you may want to make sure that is ok with your friend first if they do break up that you go out with her... He may stop talking to you or something, and that would not be good... Specially if he is a really good friend...

So what I suggest is basically telling the girl that nothing between the two of you could be done until:
1)They break up.
2)Your friend doesn't mind the two of you going out.
3)You are sure that you actually want to go out with her even though you see that she likes people behind other people's backs...

[Oreo_bro]

i think it does since its relationship issues but i can see ur point.

yes listen to random about the friend thing after they break *IF htye break*. Its a sort of unwritten rule, mostly used by girls, but people dont normally go around dating the ex of there best friend or good friend, its just not..right. I mean how would u feel if some chick dumps u and then ur buddy is walkin around kissin on your girl? or how do u think she would feel if your friend broke up with her then u guys started going out but u hang with your friend should she would always see him?

yeah..make sure its okay with BOTH of them before u do anything..and make sure its after they break

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

wait for them to break up b4 u do anything. i know ur thinkng to urself .. psh yea rite. but itll be worth it

[kiSHBall]

why is that girl still going out with your friend, then?!
even if she doesnt like you.
she's going out with a guy she dont even like.
so before she gets to you, she should break it off with your friend first..
or else hes gona get hurt
you.. u should just be patient and wait. for now.

[melmigs]

Haha, I thought the thread meant "I like her butt." But then I read the whole thing. Hah. Ha. Ok, sorry.

[Too Asian To DIE]

if she really did lyk u then she prolly dumped her current bf.... unfornately she is still going with him so i guess she just considers u as a friend and nutthin else