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 Oct 7 2004, 09:08 PM
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okay so me and these 3 other girls have been best friends for two years. elise the athlete, michelle the serious and shy, and kate the comedian. well anywho a few months ago michelle got a boyfriend and her and elise (her bestest pal) have been having troubles. and it seems like michelle is always blowing us off for him and she's not always being honest with us and it completly sucks. and like were all drifting apart and we're not friends like we used to be. and i just miss it. and kate's just trying to make it funny but it's sad. it's just so sad. how can i help fix it?
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Oct 7 2004, 09:16 PM
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well then they arent ur friends anymore... find new friends
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Oct 7 2004, 09:19 PM
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but i want my old friends! i just want to fix it...
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Oct 7 2004, 09:59 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
No you don't. You want new friends.
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Oct 8 2004, 01:27 AM
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 I'm Cat. Gotta problem with that? Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,845 |
u cant expect ppl to be with u for all ur lyf.... ppl change and things change.... u gotta sumtimes let go to those things that u love very much
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Oct 8 2004, 03:58 PM
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but can't we just like work it out?
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Oct 8 2004, 04:37 PM
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Get your friends together and have a "get together".
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Oct 8 2004, 05:19 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
eh, if you really want to fix it, get all of them together and tell them how you feel, and try to set aside some time for each other. otherwise, find new friends, because stuff like that happens.
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Oct 8 2004, 10:04 PM
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you guys have much better ideas then the ones who were like NO! no more friends for you...
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Oct 8 2004, 10:15 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
mayb she wants to spend more time with da boyfriend...but i duno. that kinda happened to me lik 2 weeks ago. my friend came out and told me. mayb u shuld 2
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Oct 8 2004, 10:45 PM
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 *rawr baby* Group: Member Posts: 821 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,941 |
Then she doesn't really care for you guys if she chooses her BF over you guys when he won't be her Bf for long.
Maybe you should ive her time and when her heart is broken she'll be crying to you guys. |
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Oct 8 2004, 10:50 PM
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yeah and we like told her how much it bothers us and she's all like. well i'll just break up with him but then, my heart will have gone through a paper shreader, and i will be hostile... so annoying
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Oct 8 2004, 11:32 PM
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They were never freinds then. If you really think they care for you, talk to them. get them together
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Oct 9 2004, 01:32 AM
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Heh...oh well?
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Oct 9 2004, 08:44 AM
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well why don't you just find new friends or sth. i mean its lyf, face reality
if not mayb jus ask michelle why shes not hanging out with you guys nemore or juss have a girls night out... and sort things out |
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Oct 9 2004, 09:11 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
just because 1 of ur friend catches a boyfriend and spends her time with him doesnt mean the worlds gonna end. Why not just build stronger relationships with the other 2 girls that u still have?
d to the uh |
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Oct 9 2004, 03:51 PM
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my friends are like that too.
they get a boyfriend.. and sorta.. drift away. boyz. THEY're the problem! hahahahahaha  yes i think you should get together with your friends ... they're important. |
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Oct 9 2004, 03:55 PM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
try telling her how you feel. she may not realizes she`s been drifting so much because she`s been preoccupied with a boyfriend. however, a real friend would learn to balance time between both friends and their partner.. so if she chooses not to change just let her be .. you will make more friends so don`t get too upset. it`ll happen. you never know what it`s like until you`re in a relationship too and you see how it is with your time as well .. you always have to put yourself into the other`s shoes ..
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Oct 9 2004, 04:46 PM
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Talk to her about it, its not exactly a hugeeeee problem, we can fix it.
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Oct 9 2004, 07:03 PM
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 白人看不懂 !!!! Group: Member Posts: 3,838 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,824 |
have classes with her more.
Not having classes w/ my best friend made me drift away from her. =/ Sad thing =( |
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Oct 9 2004, 07:06 PM
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QUOTE(atpx @ Oct 9 2004, 7:03 PM) have classes with her more. Not having classes w/ my best friend made me drift away from her. =/ Sad thing =( we have all of our classes together because we're in the accelerated group. |
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Oct 9 2004, 11:46 PM
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 it's what i believe in. Group: Member Posts: 187 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,523 |
then tell them that you guys all need to talk. i mean when that girl gets her heart broken by her boyfriend.. who is she gonna run to? her bathroom mirror?? but that really sucks that she left you guys for her bf. if that was me i would be so pissed and straighten her out
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Oct 9 2004, 11:58 PM
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just know this- NOTHING is worth LOSING a friend(s)... i know from experience
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Oct 10 2004, 01:40 AM
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020405<3 Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 45,729 |
talk to them, tell them what you think, tell them you think that your friendships are drifting apart, they might not realize it, but maybe after you discuss it they will. be nice though, michelle might think you want her to break up with her boy friend and -___- yeahh just be nice, be calm, you'll fix it somehow.
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Oct 10 2004, 03:29 PM
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 aiko Nakamura at your service Group: Member Posts: 1,518 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,144 |
everything happens for a reason right?
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Oct 10 2004, 04:34 PM
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 aka babiebubblez03 :o) Group: Member Posts: 203 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,478 |
theres nothing you can do.. thats the "perks" of growing up. lol. not necessarily a perk, but it happens. as long as you guys are there for her, then when she breaks up with him, then she will see who her real friends are. ya know? But everything is really out of your control... and if it gets to the point where you have to make new friends.. then dont be afraid to let go of the old ones... friends will always come and go... i graduated, and now i am not friends with hardly anybody.. its insane, but its the way life goes!
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