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[jambaJUICE]

its true, i have no friends...

let me tell you something about my school life.. its long, dont read if u dont want to, im just yeah..

okay, my school consists of grades k - 8 one teacher per class. but as u reach "junior high 6-8" you "switch classes".. which is bascially switching among 3 teachers. and i`ve been at this school since K, and so has the majority of my classmates.

and they all put me down, and used to make fun of me, still do, i just laugh at it, but u noe it hurts still, and now over the years its built up.

and before they used to come to me for advice, and then suddenly they don`t anymore. and if they do, i dont give it to them, i just say, figure it out urself, or tough.

and now they blame everything on me, get mad at me for no apparent reason.

so im just a silent b_tch now. i used to be loud, and i used to laugh a lot.. now i just dont..

and all my "gal pals" still talk to me, and act all nice, and always say sorrie, and balh blah blah but on the down low.. they rag on me, and talk smack about me. and since im NOT athletic, im pretty weak, and im SLOW. so they beat me up from time to time. and they always brag on my arse. and if i get better grades, they go shut up foo, f_cking nerd, or thats BS.. when i didnt even say anything.

and i still go out to places with them, and party.. but its not the same since we`re older now, and u`d think they`d have stopped doing that sh_t. but.. w/e

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[hellzlilkit]

its obvious, dont talk to them at all. dont party with them or anything. and you should at least go to a fitness gym or something and build up on working out. tell an adult whats happening. something like this happened to me once. i'm sort of ashamed of it, but i'll say it. i was close to being raped by a bunch of girls who used to be my friends(they are bisexuals) but they ddin't get to. they only beatm e up. some cops were around so they stopped it. i told all the adults i could've and i was moved to a different school. now i dont have much friends but i like the lone time. i dont have those b*tchy friends anymore.

[PinkTrash]

Aww thats so sad =[ Obviously you dont go to a cool school Just remember, being popular or having friends for the few years of childhood, may not matter when you are older, because you get better grades, and will get further than most of them, and be popular for the rest of your life, standing these few years are worth it. But if you just cant stand them, I advise you to tell them harshhhly to shut the f_ck up x]

[jambaJUICE]

mm .. true, but i go to a catholic school, and theres only about 12 girls in my class. and true it is that im in denial, but i accept it. and they dont actually "hurt" me, they just.. hurt me. i dont tell adults things because im not like that. im not exactly "open" anymore. and they`re stronger than me because i can never really hurt them, because im "weak," and plus i think lowly of myself, since i was always teased growing up. and i condition at night.

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and my school is extremely gay, and i do tell them to shut the eff up, which is exactly why they beat me up. and im not popular, nor do i care about being popular.

[kbgirly]

just dont party or go out with them then they wont be talkin smack about you anymore, they'll lose interest and they'll find someone else

friends...it takes time
true friends...takes longer time

[PingPong]

socialize wit chur own people.. people that have ur interest if there is any at ur school. yea i agree workout at the gym.. it builds up ur.. umm personality? iono.. i remember it builds self confidence or watever haha i forgot.. health class

[jambaJUICE]

blah someone close this

[177emories]

wow you look older in your pictures... you should really not look so down on yourself... if you do that ppl can see it and knwo that your weak... you gotta built up more self esteem!

[babyxyelloe]

/= make new friends. you can dooooo it

[nyctophiliac]

aww that's really sad maybe just become friends with the boys or something
Steph

[someflipguy]

Lets be friends!

[lojay]

Um.. maybe you could express your thoughts and emotions through words? I know.. that sounds so incredibly gay, I apologize. But I myself do that, like whens oemthing is bothering me, I write a poem. You don't have to write a poem... you could write a song, or just scribble down words. I don't know, maybe it will relieve the stress they give you.. if they give you stress. I guess they give off this vibe of disliking you - then when they want somethien they come crawling back? That is so typical. I think that maybe you should attempt to be more open and just like mingle with new people and you might get new friends. Like... join a club or somethign and mingle.. what's the worst that could happen?

[jambaJUICE]

Um.. maybe you could express your thoughts and emotions through words? I know.. that sounds so incredibly gay, I apologize. But I myself do that, like whens oemthing is bothering me, I write a poem. You don't have to write a poem... you could write a song, or just scribble down words. I don't know, maybe it will relieve the stress they give you.. if they give you stress. I guess they give off this vibe of disliking you - then when they want somethien they come crawling back? That is so typical. I think that maybe you should attempt to be more open and just like mingle with new people and you might get new friends. Like... join a club or somethign and mingle.. what's the worst that could happen?

lol already do.. haha.

and we`re okay now. last year of being in NCS so mite as well pretend ri0te?! *cough* i mean..

and to steph, yeah i hang out with the guys more often than before now.

[rottencherries]

It's real sad, I mean, being friendless is he worst thing I can think of. I think you can just keep on being friendly to them, help them but show them that u don't really need them. And get good grades, so they'd think you're cool and stuff. Ya, so they won't talk about u behind ur back. Or u can make frds with diff graders, even boys.

[Oreo_bro]

your post made me cry cause it happended ot me too!

i will be your friend k? if u ever wanna talk on msn my thing is oreo_pride295@hotmail.com

dont ever loose hope, when u get in HS all those little kid remarks made byt hem will be immature

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

damn thats f**ked, i suggest making new friends, if not, show ur dominace... just unleash this person from within u know.... like b4.. someone makes a comment on u and u ge hurt and shut up... now someone makes a comment about u,u throw 1 back at them... PWNAGE! ... seriously dont ever let anyone insult u and get away with it ... But i know u were probally ranting more than giving advice so yea....

I know it sucks...just hang in there till u find better friends i guess

[travnewmatic]

yeah, that was borderline the situation i was in. never got physically abused, but i used to get verbally beaten every so often. its not fun. i know online isnt the same as in person, and i know that someone online doesnt have your back at school, but i think itd be pretty safe to say that 99% of the people on this board are fairly hospitable. i dont mean to speak for everybody here, especially since im a relative newcomer, but i think if you were to come to anybody on this board cuz you needed someone to talk to, you would get it. at least for me, as retarded as this sounds, youve got someone to talk to here...meaning me. being the dood that i am, guys like to jump in and fix things. they see a problem and they're all over it. im not sure if you want that. but, personally speaking, ill be your friend.

[xo b0o b0o]

WOW! that's some hard stuff! how long have you been dealing with this? goodness I dun even wanna start picturing how f**ked up all of that must feel. well, i suggest you drop them bitches and get some new cool ppl to hang out with. juss be yourself and your sure to have a connection with someone in your school. and what about cb? there are so many ppl here who you can be friends with...friendship doesn't always need to be a physical relationship. =]

[yeseulx3]

why do you hang out with them? i'd rather be an individual any day. they're just going to be the ones who ruin your school life.

[sweetdreamsx3]

Iono whats wrong with those girls because you seem like a really awesome person to be with...Hell..I'll love to be your friend. :D Move to Houston. haha

[royalfreshness]

When I was in elementary school I got picked everyday and I always cried which made it worse. But now I have friends and I don't see those kids anymore (I went to middle school and 9 th grade w/alot of them then I transferred.) I hope I become famous or very successful so they can think "Damn, I should have been nice to her."

[*Weird addiction*]

damn i feel so sorry for u....i really am.....just leave them alone,they will never be ur friend,try making new ones...i'lld love to be your friend,hope u dont mind....

[xquizit]

Believe it or not, I've been through that myself. That's why I haven't had any real female friends in years. All and I mean ALL my friends are male, and it's just better that way cuz they won't rag on you, and there is no such thing as competition with them as there is with girls. Girls can be rude, stuck up, shady, and just plain backstabbing bitches, to put it bluntly.

My suggestion to you. Ditch them. They're not true friends and there is no point in being friends with people who don't give you the respect you deserve.

I don't know how much of a social person you are, but you could start joining various clubs that interest you and make new friends that way. You know... out with the old, in with the new.

If you're not that social, then perhaps get into something that'll keep you busy and take your mind off these "friends". Try some dancing lessons, or learn to play an instrument, or something like that. I bet even without trying, you'll meet people that way.

Well, good luck to you girl. Remember, always respect yourself above anything else and demand the same respect from everyone else.

[aznplayaz]

go to another school and then make new friends there

[Nicolatofu]

Ok i am really fukin mad i have allready wrote this 2 times cuz my comps acting like a biotch!!!!!!!!! ok ne ways sounds like you have some biotches that need to be takin care of at your school! Maybe the reason they pick on you is because you don't show how much it bothers you. Next time they get a good grade call them a stupid nerd see how they like it! Make sure the point is clear that if they don't stop that $hit, you won't put up with it!! You seem like a cool girl, i'm sure you could make new friends easily! Besides, I'llbe your friend lol hope this helps!

[JasonAkAWolf]

Believe it or not, I've been through that myself. That's why I haven't had any real female friends in years. All and I mean ALL my friends are male, and it's just better that way cuz they won't rag on you, and there is no such thing as competition with them as there is with girls. Girls can be rude, stuck up, shady, and just plain backstabbing bitches, to put it bluntly.

My suggestion to you. Ditch them. They're not true friends and there is no point in being friends with people who don't give you the respect you deserve.

I don't know how much of a social person you are, but you could start joining various clubs that interest you and make new friends that way. You know... out with the old, in with the new.

If you're not that social, then perhaps get into something that'll keep you busy and take your mind off these "friends". Try some dancing lessons, or learn to play an instrument, or something like that. I bet even without trying, you'll meet people that way.

Well, good luck to you girl. Remember, always respect yourself above anything else and demand the same respect from everyone else.

^listen to her...she is right ;D