Is it just me ..., or are guys extremely secretive? |
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Is it just me ..., or are guys extremely secretive? |
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![]() ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 ![]() |
Yes, they are.
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![]() Can't have the hand without the cock. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,481 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,622 ![]() |
lol, yeah most are, they`re big like that, or "dont care"
and sometimes... the ones that are open .. turn out to become a stalker. ![]() |
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#3
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![]() stephanie .. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,965 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,529 ![]() |
no, i think guys are pretty open about everything...
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#4
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![]() High Voltage!∞ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 ![]() |
well, it depends on the guy
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![]() LiLaZnGurL ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 969 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,072 ![]() |
i agree wit da top but most like i duno like if i ask who u like they r like i duno its soo annoying
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#6
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![]() vertically challenged ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 181 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,342 ![]() |
Depends on what subject. Most of them if they like a girl, or think theyre hot, they would blab it all out. But if its on subjects like problems with family, friends, relationships they seem to be more secretive about it. Thats just how it s with my guy friends. Iono about other guys..
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*wind&fire* |
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guys just cannot be clbuttifiend into one group... they arenot all like what uve depicted...
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![]() hi. call me linda. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 ![]() |
yeah, guys are so secretive sometimes, and other times, they're so open. it's annoying.
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#9
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,102 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,162 ![]() |
about things like their social lives, sports, etc. they never shut up.
and about personal problems, it's one of the hardest things to get them to say anything. |
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questions make me blue. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 ![]() |
guys can`t make up their minds. they`re so...uhhh...what`s the word? indecisive?
they don`t realize it. and if they do, they deny it. ![]() |
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![]() Tina + Tommy ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,575 ![]() |
i would say half half. half of them just keeps everything to themselves, emotions problems, just bout everything. but then some are just so open. their willing to share everything with almost everyone.
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#12
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![]() John 3:16 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,029 ![]() |
Its pretty much half and half. Some are just OPEN ABOUT EVERYTHING and some are just duhh out of it.
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#13
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,541 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,332 ![]() |
Some guys are. My guy friends are open to me in topics such as their puberty issues (I'm not kidding), family life, and all that manly stuff. But, when I ask them about their relationships with girls, their minds just completely shut off. They never want to talk about girls.
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*stephinika* |
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#14
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hmm depends on the guy. most of my really good guy friends and my boyfriend open up to me a lot. i guess it just depends on your relationship with the guy and them y'know?
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![]() F**k me Beautiful ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 ![]() |
really depends on their personality.... im very open, i have nothing to hide .
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#16
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![]() I can't believe its not "Ryan" ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 ![]() |
Some guys are pretty secretive, but not all guys are like that! I myself am pretty open with everything that I do.
But, alot of girls that I know are pretty secretive, but its a part of what makes us human... |
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*AngelicEyz00* |
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Most of them just don't like to show it
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#18
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![]() Bubble ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 341 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,405 ![]() |
Most guys can compartmentalize too... like they can push everything that is in their way aside so that they can focus on the thing that they need to focus on. For girls, its a little harder because we tend to stew more over things rather than just letting it go or coming back to it later. And also... guys know when to say things and when not to... LOL.
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Mad Rooney ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 365 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,418 ![]() |
haha i reckon you cant generalise all guys as secretive..
different people have different personality~! ^_^ |
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#20
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Gackt's Wife ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 411 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,549 ![]() |
QUOTE(CuTeSEXYnHOT @ Oct 3 2004, 7:00 PM) no, i think guys are pretty open about everything... ![]() yea i agree!!! cuz my bf... like you could ask him anything and he'd give you an honest answer... or mabey its just him? |
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#21
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 227 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 58,035 ![]() |
QUOTE well, it depends on the guy some are secretive & some are really open agree lol |
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![]() DDR bunny! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 222 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,620 ![]() |
well depends..
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![]() i need an sn change. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 ![]() |
i disagree.
some are pretty open about nething and then there are some that keep themselves quiet till the day they die |
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#24
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There is a light that never goes out.... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,044 ![]() |
We don't always talk cause we think you wont love us. Or at least thats my reason.
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![]() ...and this is me.. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 ![]() |
Guys will think one thing and do another..many say that girls are complicated..not really..guys are. girls will cry, guys wont. easy as that.
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#26
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![]() it's our chemistry ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,151 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,775 ![]() |
Well, I don't think it's just you. I think most guys are pretty secretive, but only because they don't share their feelings as a daily ritual, like us girls. But then, some guys are just an open book, even when they're trying to hide. =]
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#27
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![]() hardcore procrastinator =] ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 186 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,340 ![]() |
my guys friends, i dunno what to think of them
they have secrets or whatever and hint about them, they KNOW they're making me super-curious then i beg them to tell me... a day later they tell... >.< |
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*Weird addiction* |
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#28
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they certainly r,my bf is so secretive stimes i think hes cheating on me but i trust him so....yeah they r
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#29
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![]() LOVE ME ;] ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 118 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,829 ![]() |
mostly depending on the person. but most of the guys i meet are secretive.. but i have met a few who are open
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#30
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![]() You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 ![]() |
for me i think it depends on the guy, but it also depends on how close you are to them
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#31
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![]() Tennis is my verb ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 177 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,126 ![]() |
Yeah. My brother never tells me anything about what's going on in his life. We never talk about anything like that.
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#32
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 59,957 ![]() |
Guys are not really all secretive, sum of u girls think tat guys need to be more open and start the conversation, but there are also guys lik me just sitting there waitting to be open to sum1. there are sum guys u just gotta dig deeper. but there are sum girl I noe seem pretty secretive to me.
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#33
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![]() yan lin♥ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 ![]() |
generally they are. not to be stereotypical or anything but guys who are open (that i've known) are usually gay..
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