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 Oct 2 2004, 10:33 PM
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Ok, well, im 13, and my parents are strick about dating. BUt this guy, lets name him Steven, asked me out and i really liked him. But the night Steven asked me out, my dad talked to me and told me that if someone was to ask me out or like me, i would talk to him about it. I said ok. Then the next day i said yes to Steven. Then that night, my dad told me, out of nowhere, i shouldn't have a bf yet. So im like ok. So i'm kinda scared to tell my dad cuz he mite make me break up wit Steven, but i feel guilty for not telling him, and he can find out, cuz well he is a hacker. ok so ya....
WUT SHOULD I Do? help plz... and if i do tell my parents.. how do i tell them? ~NatHAshA |
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Oct 2 2004, 10:40 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
This probably isn't the best way to go, but I just wouldn't say anything.
I was in the same situation. I just kept it to myself. |
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Oct 2 2004, 10:41 PM
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 Want fries with that? Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,652 |
Date this guy when you're a little older. Don't betray your parents trust.
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Oct 2 2004, 10:46 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
haha brie, yeah, i did that too. either keep him a secret or tell your parents. if you really like him, then don't tell your parents, or try to explain to your parents how you feel.
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Oct 3 2004, 12:24 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
well wat id do is tell him that a guy asked me out but not sae i said yes. if he dun approve of it, then i will keep the relationship a secret. if he approves of it then yea watevas
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Oct 3 2004, 01:25 AM
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Mmm, do all you can to prove that you're mature and responsible enough to have a bf. Make sure your grades are okay, and hmmm, ask your dad if he could meet with Steven. Maybe he'll change his mind when he gets to know Steven.
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Oct 3 2004, 01:30 AM
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 i make my own destiny Group: Member Posts: 122 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,249 |
It's kinda your choice. If you want tell your dad about "Steven" then also tell your dad you care about this guy and promise him nothing will happen. My Dad told me to tell him If I ever got a girl pregnate because when you mess up you don't need someone on your @$$ about what you did wrong. You need help to figure out what to do because it's already going to be stressing making her pregnate, it's worse to have someone on your @$$ about it too. I'm going to say that to my Child, Teen, whenever I think he she needs to talk. I'm going to tell him(her) notto talk to mom cuz mom will just jump on their @$$ and that isn't going to be good.
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Oct 3 2004, 12:21 PM
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 stephanie .. Group: Member Posts: 1,965 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,529 |
my parents are like that too...if i ever get a boyfriend i just keep it to myself and tell my friends not to mention it to my parents or anything
 Steph
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Oct 3 2004, 12:22 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
cant u tell ur mom about it? mothers are easier to deal with and sometimes they can keep secrets.. sometimes..
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Oct 3 2004, 12:40 PM
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QUOTE(LadyXTor @ Oct 2 2004, 10:41 PM) Date this guy when you're a little older. Don't betray your parents trust. Usually I would keep it to myself, but after reading this...your parent's trust is better than anything...because if you lose it, they'll never trust you again. It'll take a LOT more for you to gain back their trust... |
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Oct 3 2004, 01:18 PM
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 lick me Group: Member Posts: 3,044 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,013 |
I think you should talk to Steven about it, and see what he thinks..
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Oct 3 2004, 01:29 PM
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QUOTE(conster @ Oct 3 2004, 12:22 PM) cant u tell ur mom about it? mothers are easier to deal with and sometimes they can keep secrets.. sometimes.. My MoM Doesnt live wit me.. os its kinda harder... and its harder cuz shes stricter about it and ya... |
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Oct 3 2004, 01:31 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 32 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,313 |
But like, if o doo tell my parents, how do i tell them?
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Oct 4 2004, 02:59 PM
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You either talk to your dad about it, or keep it away from him the best you can.
It's easier if your dad knows cuz then you don't have to worry about him finding out |
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