what should i do?, why are girls so f*in confusing? |
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 Sep 30 2004, 06:03 PM
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 i noticed your gangster, im pretty gangster myself  Group: Member Posts: 85 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,180  |
ok so i like this one girl [olivia] and weve already talked about it - she just doesnt see me like that yet im like the prototype for the kinda guy she wants. then theres brittany, where we both have feelings for eachother, but shes a sophmore, and since im a freshman, she doesnt wanna do that cause like theres awkwardness... i understand i just dont think its completely normal...
but i dunno, me and brittany have messed around and she doesnt wanna further it, that itd screw up the friendship. and with olivia i just cant figure out like whats oging on. ever since school started, we have no classes or like never get to hang out, and its just really sad. i dont reaslly know what to do... its probably not the biggest issue on the site but i didnt know what else to do so i decided to rely on my fellow createbloggers 
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Sep 30 2004, 06:05 PM
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SOS Brigade!! Group: Member Posts: 2,573 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,775 |
so what are you trying to say? what to do about it? i say the best thing to do is go for the older chick!! SCORE IT =P haha jp about that... umm if brittany finds it fine then ok. or if you really like olivia talk to her about it call her or something and yeah tell her how u feel...
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Sep 30 2004, 06:07 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 242 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,702 |
Girl's aren't confusing. Guys are just stupid jerks.
And you like Brittany, but then again you like Olivia? Maybe it's just me, but I don't get what you're trying to say. Are you trying to tell us who's better for you to go out with?? * confused * *Switches this around* Boys are so fcuking confusing. |
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Sep 30 2004, 06:21 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 |
QUOTE(penguin @ Sep 30 2004, 6:07 PM) Girl's aren't confusing. Guys are just stupid jerks. And you like Brittany, but then again you like Olivia? Maybe it's just me, but I don't get what you're trying to say. Are you trying to tell us who's better for you to go out with?? * confused * *Switches this around* Boys are so fcuking confusing. hahaha ok SOME guys ARE jerks/.... but not all of them... so um... cant completely agree wit u there....but i do think guys r confusing ahaha n e wayz... i agree wit rainydais...he's awesome  lol haha sorry if i aint much help... cuz like... what do *I* knoe??? im jus a 14 year old kid... 
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Sep 30 2004, 06:29 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
QUOTE(penguin @ Sep 30 2004, 3:07 PM) Girl's aren't confusing. Guys are just stupid jerks. And you like Brittany, but then again you like Olivia? Maybe it's just me, but I don't get what you're trying to say. Are you trying to tell us who's better for you to go out with?? * confused * *Switches this around* Boys are so fcuking confusing. erm....both sex are confusing lets just leave it as that. And no, hes asking why hes having a trouble hooking up with brittany, and why olivia doesnt like him even though he is her type of guy. Well first of all.... If brittany likes u, but is too chicken to show her affection because of 1 year of age difference, shes just too immature in my eyes, find someone thats not shallow and like people for who they are. Olivia... Maybe she just doesnt think ur boyfriend material.... Even if u are her preferable type of guy, doesnt mean she see automatically sees u in that type of way... You dont have any classes with her and cant talk to her....Loooks to me your making very little effort to try to win her over. Get her number off a friend or try to contact her some how, you gotta prove that u are her type...dont ask me how, u gotta learn buddy ~_~ same goes for britanny... try to convince her that age is nothing but a number, and why she should give u a shot... Honestly i suggest u find somebody else ;] |
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Sep 30 2004, 07:04 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
so who do you like what? well it doens't matter. none of them like you back off...
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Sep 30 2004, 07:08 PM
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F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
QUOTE(177emories @ Sep 30 2004, 4:04 PM) so who do you like what? well it doens't matter. none of them like you back off... next time read b4 u flame him, "britanny" likes he shes just afraid to show it in public, boo ya! |
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Sep 30 2004, 08:07 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
Try to ask Olivia for her phone number, if you don't have it, and then call her whenever you have time. It's important to keep contact with her, otherwise she might just end up forgetting about you. And this brittany girl.. Hmm.. are you sure she's ito you? Maybe you and her shouldn't have messed around.. and if she did like you enough to mess around with you, she SHOULDN'T let age get in the way. I'm sort of confsued because if she liked you back, she shouldn't be judgemental just because you're a freshman. Maybe Olivia likes someone else... Bleh this is confusing.. you are in a big pickle.
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Sep 30 2004, 10:29 PM
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u dont always to have to have a gf ya know?
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Oct 1 2004, 05:29 AM
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 have u lost ur mind? Group: Member Posts: 512 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,217 |
go wit both... or betta yet 3some it
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Oct 1 2004, 08:41 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 8 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,026 |
yea... girls are pretty confusing. not to generalize, but pretty much. mm.. i dunno bout ur situation in depth, but i dated a soph when i wuz a frosh, n it didn't work out...
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Oct 1 2004, 12:13 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 59 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,584 |
whatever, girls are confusing as hell... whenever i ask my gf if shes alright my reply 100% of the time is, "really?" perhaps im just being overbearing... i dunno... i swear, they tell you yes, but a huge magority of the time thats not the case. soo, how does this pertain to your problem? i have no idea, but i say the older chick. shes in the same grade as you right? that way if youre still going out when you graduate, youre sort of in sync. if you go out with the older chick, yeah, that is awkward. cus like, what if some other dood wants to claim your territory? tough situation. i say go with the girl youll see most. i tried going out with a girl from another school. we went out for a while, ther were a number of ussues working against us (crazy parents for one didnt help), so what would have worked itself out in a matter of a month or so took like 3 because we never saw eachother. it was bad. SO. my recommendation is to go after the girl youll have access to most. hope thsi helps!
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Oct 1 2004, 09:50 PM
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 Want fries with that? Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,652 |
Iono...i'm kinda confusing myself. ^^ But...yeah i'd go with brittany...love has no limits...i mean....go with her! you both like each other...age doesn't really make much of a difference, if you guys like each other...go for it!
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Oct 1 2004, 09:55 PM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
well go for the older chick and keep it on the DL and then it wont b so awkward! lol
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Oct 2 2004, 12:12 AM
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i noticed your gangster, im pretty gangster myself Group: Member Posts: 85 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,180 |
ok thanks but lemme update :
olivia and I do talk every night, i dunno if i forgot to mention that. its just that its a confusing thing with us. brittany and i went to the movies tonight and it was really cool hah and btw, im 14 too. but even though ivr become too experienced for my age and need to stop before things get bad, i need help just as much as the next person LittleLulu |
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Oct 2 2004, 12:22 AM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
lols wow.. so.. who u like more?? its bad to like... see 2girls at the same time especially wen u like both of them... well since im a girl, and if a guy likes me told me he also likes another girl ill consider his feelings not deep.. lol so i think u should stick to one girl =)
girls arent confusing, guys jus didnt take the time to figure it out =) |
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Oct 2 2004, 08:26 AM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
well i would say go for the one who actually returned the feelings, and maybe the first girl would think about it and see what she wants...plus you guys dont have a love manual either so ur just as confusing as we are!
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Oct 2 2004, 09:14 AM
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 stephanie .. Group: Member Posts: 1,965 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,529 |
QUOTE u dont always to have to have a gf ya know? yes i agree with this girl ^  Steph
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Oct 2 2004, 09:51 AM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
that brittany girl doesn't want a relationship, so i wouldn't try to have one with her. don't go for it if she's already said she doesn't want it.
i guess just go for olivia. or do what i did..write her a note telling her you like her and then run away. worked for me..
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