my friend is thinking about committing suicide Options

[satisfied-tom]

my friend is thinking about committing suicide. oh crap i hope she dosent. im so scared right now. what should i do so she dosent commit suicide?

[xox Qt LuVZ xox]

Stop her. Phone her, plan to talk to her soon in person. If she avoids you, go over to her house and just suprise her. Tell her that she'll miss out on so much, and that you, all her other friends, and family really need her. Reassure her... tell her that there are so many people going through what she is... Get someone for her to talk to.

[faithin_felix]

you should....commit suicide first! then she won't know how much her friends would miss her. therefore, she won't commit suicide anymore. HAHA =D but it's going to take your life.

[*krnxswat*]

Talk to her. Tell her people care about her. That people lover her. That you lover her.

[xiNxlOvexO4]

Stop her.  Phone her, plan to talk to her soon in person.  If she avoids you, go over to her house and just suprise her.  Tell her that she'll miss out on so much, and that you, all her other friends, and family really need her.  Reassure her... tell her that there are so many people going through what she is... Get someone for her to talk to.

Exactly .. I was gonna commit suicide .. But I was scared .. I thought how my family and friends would be like when I die .. Tell her parents or a counseler (sp?) or anyone, just let her not commit suicide ..

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

tell her her parents, she probally will be pist off at u, but do u think her life is worth more than a few weaks of the cold shoulder?

[*stephinika*]

yeah talk to her plenty and try to tell someone you guys can trust and who can do something - counselors, parents, etc. - just try your best to get her to change her mind.

[sweetxsimplicity]

You should talk to a counselor or her parents or your parents that she's going to commit suicide, it's a serious thing and you shouldn't try to stop her yourself.

[brooker0che]

you should....commit suicide first! then she won't know how much her friends would miss her. therefore, she won't commit suicide anymore. HAHA =D but it's going to take your life.

dude thats not something you joke about.

[jennifish]

tell her that you care. then tell someone like a trustable teacher or a parent. look out for her.

[*Fallen_Fairy*]

iff she is in immediate danger call 911, if not then talk her out of it

[iheartsimba]

theres are 3 options going on.

either

1- She's just hoping for attention

2- She's a liar and just thought it would be funny to tell you that and see whatr happens.

3- She really is

So I guess you won't know which option it is until if she actually does it. I mean you cn just sit back, wait and see. If shes determinded about committing suicide, she will and theres probably know way you can stop her. The bet you can input in it is to talk to her. Tell her how it owuld affect everyone around her if sh was gone. And suicide isnt the answer.

[*Expresseggroll*]

theres are 3 options going on.

either

1- She's just hoping for attention

2- She's a liar and just thought it would be funny to tell you that and see whatr happens.

3- She really is

So I guess you won't know which option it is until if she actually does it. I mean you cn just sit back, wait and see. If shes determinded about committing suicide, she will and theres probably know way you can stop her. The bet you can input in it is to talk to her. Tell her how it owuld affect everyone around her if sh was gone. And suicide isnt the answer.

Wow, ur smart...


There's something called seaking "professional Help". I wouldn't "sit back" and see what happens.

You never know, because statistics show people who mention killing them selves are thoughts of crying out loud. Prime example, the kids in Columbine High School

[*tweeak*]

dude thats not something you joke about.

or maybe it is. laughter can be the best medicine sometimes. when things get too serious, they only get worse

[mouse_3k]

dont allow her to do it..Call 911 on her if u have to. go over to her house, spend time with her, ask her whats wrong etc.

just dont allow her to do such thing..

[lisaaaaaaa]

try ur BEST to talk her out of it. take her out somewhere special (if u can), or bring back good memories, and look out for her.

[shawty_redd]

wow thats um...shocking. try to talk to them. let them know that you are there for them and that you are willing to help.

[Too Asian To DIE]

you should....commit suicide first! then she won't know how much her friends would miss her. therefore, she won't commit suicide anymore. HAHA =D but it's going to take your life.

ur mean....

try to get help asap be4 ur friend really does commit suicide.... try figure out y does she wanna commit suicide..... if its a problem then help her until its all good..... i hope that she doesnt.....

i wanted to commit suicide but then i thought that lyf was too good to just give up...... friends, guys, everything.....

[silver-rain]

Yeah, i think you should talk to her. let her know that you're there for her

[LiLEthiopian]

yea..u should talk to her..tell her how she's not gonna gain anything by taking her life.

i had a friend ..i'm not gonna say names..but she always talks about depression and suicidal stuff..at first i was worried and what not.but the more she did it..the more obvious it became that it was an act just to get attention.

[royalfreshness]

I think that everyone has thuoght about suicide before... i dounf out that my friend he once thought about actually doing it but she didnt and i'm happy she didnt.

you really really really need to talk to her about it.

[inthemudhole]

Sheesh.
Talk to her.
Talk to her parents if she won't listen.
TALK TO PEOPLE that love her and care about her (and talk to her, too).
She needs to be stopped..

[betrayedbytheduc...]

if you talked to her and she hasn't listened, then let her go for it. killing yourself when you're maybe 30-40 makes more sense.

[jaeman]

Everyone's mentioned the number one thing you should do, talk to her.
If she won't listen to you, talk to her parents and her parents might talk to her.
Tell her friends or the people that she deeply loves, then they might talk to her also.
If all these people came and talked to me, and showed how much they cared about me.
I know I wouldn't go through with it.

[roxybabe]

you should....commit suicide first! then she won't know how much her friends would miss her. therefore, she won't commit suicide anymore. HAHA =D but it's going to take your life.

thatz not realli that funi at all u fagget

newas just talk to her and tell her how much u need her and stuff

[nyctophiliac]

just try talking to her and look at other topics before you post one that's like exactly the same
Steph

[hiddenkoncept]

everyone's already said most things. erm... i'm not trying to be mean... but unless you have already seen signs that she might commit suicide (not just her telling you she might) she'e probably doing it for attention. because... i hope you know that suicide takes planning... A LOT of planning... and it doesn't always work - even if you slit ur wrists, someone could find you. if you take pills - you might not take enough. if you jump off of a building - you might not have jumped from high enough. etc. etc. fyi: if ur friend TOLD you that she/he's gonna commit suicide. probably not gonna happen... i'm sorry if i sound all cynical and heartless, but i hate it when people do this. "i'm so scared, my friend's gonna commit suicide!" people who commit suicide don't just up and decide "ooh! i hate my life right now! i'm gonna commit suicide! yay!" NO. they DON'T do that. they'll show SIGNS of doing it - like making tiny comments that they'll later deny they ever said. you'll SEE THE SIGNS whatever they are. remember: SUICIDE TAKES A LOT OF PLANNING. and sometimes, it STILL doesn't come out right.