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 Sep 16 2004, 09:46 PM
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Posts: 143,865  Group: Member Posts: 146 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,685  |
Don't you just hate it when so many guys like your girlfriend. Ughh this pisses me off. Like today, some guy who my gf just met about 2 days ago hugged her randomly in front of my face. I go wtf and act natural. I told my gf if he does that again, ima say something in front of his face. Then my gf's friend told me that same guy was trying to hit on my gf during lunch period. Then I went balistic and told my gf the next time I see him around you, I'll beat the sh*t out of him. My gf says no because that's mean. WTH, have you guys been on this situation? Can you guys relate to this? Yes I know, I get jealous easily.
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| *RiC3xBoy* |
Sep 16 2004, 10:06 PM
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even though im as single my whole life, i also am a pretty jealous person, yes, its actually pretty hard to hold it on, but u just gotta trust ur girl, if he makes a move to make ur girl uncomfortable, it is ur duty, to beat his ass
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Sep 16 2004, 10:13 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 11 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,813 |
guys are always hugging my gf, I don't care if they do anymore
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Sep 16 2004, 10:34 PM
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dont freak out, trust me. I'm a girl, she will think you are an overprotective b*stard. Just chill out and relax. They are friends, friends do hug you know.
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Sep 16 2004, 10:53 PM
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Posts: 143,865 Group: Member Posts: 146 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,685 |
QUOTE(Gypsy Eyes @ Sep 16 2004, 7:34 PM) dont freak out, trust me. I'm a girl, she will think you are an overprotective b*stard. Just chill out and relax. They are friends, friends do hug you know. They only met 2 days ago. |
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Sep 16 2004, 10:56 PM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,025 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,051 |
QUOTE(Uh oh its Jay @ Sep 16 2004, 10:53 PM) They only met 2 days ago. so? its just a hug. trust me, from a girls point of view. its just showing a sign of simple friendship |
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Sep 16 2004, 10:59 PM
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 freedom Group: Member Posts: 844 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,358 |
Try not to get so jealous. It is just a hug. Think about it like this, they can hug her but you are her boyfriend and that means more than a hug. Girls don't like guys who get jealous about something as small as that. As long as its just a friendly hug than you shouldn't worry about it even if she did meet him two days ago.
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Sep 16 2004, 11:21 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
yea i know wut u mean , there are times where it gets irratating , but when ur walkin somewhere with ur girl and u see the guys stairin at her , u think to urself .. *yep... thats my girlfriend bitches*
You know if i were in ur situation and that guy kept poppin up, ide be just like u and beat the stuffing out of him , but sometimes the tyrant dominent man act just disgusses a girl ... so be civilized and be a jerk! lol *wtf be a jerk?* yep ... see him around, start making out with her and bam ! he knows shes taken and shes urs ....he'll feel like a loser and embarassed :O |
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Sep 16 2004, 11:44 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
its alright buddy i knoe how u feel
 and i think ur doing the right thing lol i dont think ur gf shoulda hugged the guy in the first place -_-
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| *stephinika* |
Sep 16 2004, 11:49 PM
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don't worry about it too much. its normal for girls to hug guys every once in awhile. its a friendly thing for girls to do. but remember, she's YOUR girlfriend so you shouldn't worry about all these guys. she is going out with you remember?
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Sep 16 2004, 11:50 PM
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 ThePinkPanda Group: Member Posts: 760 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,168 |
I have to agree with gypsy eyes and ladii_d on this one..
I hug guys all the time. No matter when I met them. Heck, I hug when I first meet someone. Unless your gf likes him. Well then, you're screwed. She'll break up with you if you tright to fight it off, she'll break up with you if you don't. Unless she isn't like that.. Which, most girls are.. |
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Sep 17 2004, 01:26 AM
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Stalking Createblog... Group: Member Posts: 155 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,300 |
It's pretty natural. I wouldn't want someone to hug the person I currently like (though people do).
Wtv. I even get jealous when my best friend (a girl) gets hugged. And the weird thing is, I don't like giving or receiving hugs. It's a guy thing. Cheerie up. 
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Sep 17 2004, 10:34 AM
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 Aznsorpor Group: Member Posts: 89 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,522 |
dont over react.. maybe that guy is just an open person... if u do overreact.. and that guy is trying to break u ppl up... then he gets closer to his goal.. and u would just look like the wrong one.. as long as he doesnt go ne further than a hug then.. try to ignore.. but if more.. then... its a different story..
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Sep 17 2004, 12:43 PM
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don't let him get to u man. if he does, the beat the crap out of him anyways. that'll relieve ur stress.
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Sep 17 2004, 02:16 PM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
just chill...
they seem to be just friends so stop with the jealousy and paranoia, and back away before she dumps you from frustration of your overprotectiveness. but if that "guy friend she only met two days ago" is really getting on your nerves, have a man to man talk with him, or... beat the hell outta him..
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Sep 17 2004, 02:17 PM
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Watch her dump you.
I have a bf and everything, but if he ever does that..like being TOOOOO overprotective, I'mma wave byebye. Give her some space. You can't always be so clingy to her and beat the sh*t out of everyone that hugs her. Trust. If you love your gf that much, then trust her. |
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Sep 17 2004, 03:46 PM
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What if a girl hugged you? and she was ur friend? would u push her away and be like "b*tch, i have a girlfriend" ?
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Sep 17 2004, 05:20 PM
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 Miggy :) Group: Member Posts: 437 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,164 |
QUOTE(AzNxJenny91 @ Sep 17 2004, 4:46 PM) What if a girl hugged you? and she was ur friend? would u push her away and be like "b*tch, i have a girlfriend" ? Actually, I make my boyfriend do that. 
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Sep 17 2004, 05:39 PM
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 -:- Nothen But Dreams -:- Group: Member Posts: 82 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,146 |
yea my gf has like ALL guy frends...it used to really bug me since she likes giving hugs and hug em all...plus like 5 of them like her but it doesnt bug me nemore
you jus gotta think that she's with u and if they like her then they're jealous of u 
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Sep 17 2004, 07:06 PM
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 Sing to Me Group: Member Posts: 1,825 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,808 |
Just relax. You gotta trust your girl. I give and recieve a lot of hugs. They don't mean too much 'cause they are simple and friendly. Once I was walking with my ex guy and we were holding hands, I saw this guy I knew. I said hi and before I knew it he threw his arms around me and gave me a big squeeze. My ex was like
 and I was like mouthing sorry over the dude's shoulder. Yesh... weird... 
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Sep 17 2004, 07:16 PM
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well, what if that person doesn't know that your her boyfriend. try warning him or something, or maybe do something to her when he's around to make him jealous?? lol but ya today i found out that one of my best friends (girl) had a boyfriend and i hugged her right in front of her boyfriend the other day but i never knew so i guess he's probably pissed at me. but hugs aren't realy that big of a deal..i hug most of my friends that are girls..
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Sep 17 2004, 07:41 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,443 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,050 |
QUOTE(Gypsy Eyes @ Sep 16 2004, 10:56 PM) so? its just a hug. trust me, from a girls point of view. its just showing a sign of simple friendship yeah i shes rite but he might be hitting on her i think i will have to go with you and beat his ass lol well i give my bestfriend's gf hugs not often though yeah maybe its because its my best friend and i wouldnt hurt him and his gf is also my best friend lol yeah just cool down i guess and if he does something more then just a hhug or if he hugs her to much like every day or every 4 days then you got to do something .:tony:. |
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Sep 17 2004, 08:48 PM
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u shouldnt over react. u might get her angry. dont worry its just a hug. i know they've only known eachother for 2 days but that doesnt matter. if they do anything more then hugging, then u can go balistic
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Sep 18 2004, 10:34 AM
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Yeaps. don't overeacte. Trust me, you'll get dumped soon.
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Sep 18 2004, 10:36 AM
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Miggy :) Group: Member Posts: 437 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,164 |
QUOTE(penguin @ Sep 18 2004, 11:34 AM) Yeaps. don't overeacte. Trust me, you'll get dumped soon. Everyone is different. I wouldn't dump my boyfriend if he did that. I actually feel more loved when he does it. 
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Sep 18 2004, 10:36 AM
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SOS Brigade!! Group: Member Posts: 2,573 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,775 |
I say knock him out!!
PROTECT YOUR GIRL haha jp =P i can relate a lot |
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Sep 18 2004, 12:00 PM
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uh im a girl and im gona answer to this.
i love my boyfriend very much, and im friends with alot of guys and they always lik hugs from me when and when im not im around my boyfriend. we're just friends and thats all. but if this guy starts gettin fresh, beat his little ass up |
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Sep 23 2004, 03:21 PM
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 Dark Saga Group: Member Posts: 101 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,315 |
BOMB ON HIM!..
SHOW NO MERCY.. LET HIM KNOWS WHAT'S UP RAWR! |
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Oct 5 2004, 10:55 PM
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um... you know, the basis of a relationship is TRUST. if you don't trust ur gf, then ur OBVIOUSLY not meant to be together. girls are constantly kissing my bf on the cheeks or flirting with him, but i TRUST him to stay true to me.
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Oct 6 2004, 11:00 AM
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 it's what i believe in. Group: Member Posts: 187 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,523 |
wow. well it`s okay to be jealous and you DO have the right to feel that way `cause that`s your GF. [duhhhh!] but then again if you wanna have a realationship.. then you gotta have trust. how do you know your GF is ACTUALLY gonna go for that guy?? unless you don`t trust her or something. so go ask your girl if she would do such a thing.
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Oct 6 2004, 11:01 AM
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it's what i believe in. Group: Member Posts: 187 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,523 |
wow. well it`s okay to be jealous and you DO have the right to feel that way `cause that`s your GF. [duhhhh!] but then again if you wanna have a realationship.. then you gotta have trust. how do you know your GF is ACTUALLY gonna go for that guy?? unless you don`t trust her or something. so go ask your girl if she would do such a thing.
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Oct 6 2004, 02:08 PM
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 stephanie .. Group: Member Posts: 1,965 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,529 |
if lots of girls talk to my bf and stuff i get a little jealous and i'll tell him but it's not like they're touching him, etc.
 Steph
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Oct 6 2004, 09:25 PM
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don't beat him up but like don't ignore it either. just tell him to back the hell off.
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Oct 6 2004, 09:26 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
QUOTE(Gypsy Eyes @ Sep 16 2004, 10:56 PM) so? its just a hug. trust me, from a girls point of view. its just showing a sign of simple friendship exactly |
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Oct 6 2004, 09:29 PM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
i understand the jealousy.. it`s natural when you care about someone. however, don`t let it get you in trouble .. it`s not worth beating anyone up over it. if you trust her she wouldn`t do anything stupid so you don`t have to worry yanno. and it would never turn into something more than just a hug .. it`s a hug and she isn`t thinking of that other guy. so try a bit to be more insecure and have faith in your girl .. she wouldn`t do you wrong so there`s no reason to get heated when someone comes around .. there will always be someone else looking at the person you care about but if they are only looking at YOU .. then just be happy :)
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Oct 6 2004, 09:45 PM
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 lick me Group: Member Posts: 3,044 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,013 |
whoaa, so different from my recent boyfriend. Whenever someone else hit on me or whatever, he'd just say 'well Id understand why theyre hitting on you
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