Brother and sister relationships, I just need help pls! |
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 Sep 9 2004, 04:14 PM
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 Maggot Rocker  Group: Member Posts: 396 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,016  |
 Okay I just need to get some type of help cause this cr@p as been bugging me for such a long time its starting to get annoying...um its like this my sister is 24 and I'm 18 but the part that sucks about all this...is that we got in a fight last week and she told me that she was never proud of me...even tho she knows I came over drinking and Cutting...but she still wont give me any cerdit for any of that....so I'm starting to think I'm not good for her...and I want to know what to do cause she is like my only type of family I have anymore so if any one wants to help out pls comment 
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Sep 9 2004, 04:23 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 693 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,017 |
people say certain things that they don't meant to say when get into an agrument, same thing with my parents. they say things and that none of them wanted to say. its just somethign that happens. you shouldn't worry about it. im sure your sister didn't mean what she say.
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Sep 9 2004, 05:06 PM
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 smiling hurts Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,630 |
Yea she probably didnt mean any of that., Just forget abou the entire thing
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Sep 9 2004, 05:11 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Hopefully she didn't mean it.
I'm sure she didn't. :D People just say whatever comes to mind in those situations. Maybe tell her how it made you feel. Or just brush it off and pretend like it never happened. :D |
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Sep 9 2004, 05:34 PM
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Maggot Rocker Group: Member Posts: 396 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,016 |
Thanks everybody I don't know if she means it or not but I guess it can't hurt to talk to her.
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Sep 9 2004, 09:13 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
QUOTE(JasonAkAWolf @ Sep 9 2004, 5:34 PM) Thanks everybody I don't know if she means it or not but I guess it can't hurt to talk to her. seems like ur feeling better  dont worry be happy and shes ur sister just talk it out with her =) im sure she'll overcome, like most girls do
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Sep 10 2004, 01:18 PM
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Maggot Rocker Group: Member Posts: 396 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,016 |
QUOTE(conster @ Sep 9 2004, 9:13 PM) seems like ur feeling better dont worry be happy and shes ur sister just talk it out with her =) im sure she'll overcome, like most girls do haha you don't know my sister very well she likes to carry stuff on and on and on and on......we talked it didn't go over too well tho but oh well I guess 
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Sep 10 2004, 02:23 PM
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 i'm lala. girly girl. Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,888 |
dont worry. later on it will cool off.
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Sep 10 2004, 04:26 PM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
hmm just like my friend alyssa... she's like that too...she's like 17 and alyssa's sister is stefani 21...
i found out that stefani had a busy life and needed comfort and need help...she didn't want to her others just help herself cause she needs a humongous help... she wants to cry and yell...you see she has so much madness in her and just wana be mean. well i dont think she's mean to her friends cause they are prolly helping her..heh so it must be ur sister's problem... even tho u help her out she's prolly be gona grumpy... well wat my friend did the same...she tried to her out cause i told alyssa y her sister acts like this and alyssa tried to help her problems but then stefani refused it... so alyssa cried cause she was so sad that her relationship with her sister is not going well...that she went to her sister while crying saying "i wish my relationship with you is good. i don't know what i should i do. if it's your problem. i would love to help you and if it's my problem that you're mad at..just tell me then i'll change" and stefani was sad about it too saying how stupid stefani was to her sister, alyssa...so their relationship got better^^;; |
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Sep 11 2004, 02:30 AM
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 because i'm worth it Group: Member Posts: 990 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,643 |
maybe she was in a bad moon :]
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Sep 11 2004, 11:58 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
QUOTE(lilxroxy @ Sep 11 2004, 2:30 AM) maybe she was in a bad moon :] Bad moon. lol You guys are family. I know that she would never mean something like that even if you say it. There are plenty of times when I said some things that I wish I could take back, but it's like....too late you know? So yeah...she probably didn't mean it. Maybe you should tell her what you told us here. Let her know your side of your feelings too. Talk it out and you'll feel better instead of walking back and forth, wondering if she meant it or not. |
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