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 Sep 4 2004, 07:21 PM
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te quiero  Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678  |
last friday this guy asked me if i wanted to go to his school's homecoming with him (he goes to a different high school). i don't really know him THAT well... but i said "sure". then yesterday, i was talking to my friend who goes to the same school and she's all like "so, you're going out with *bob* now?". and i'm like... "no.. i'm going to homecoming with him, thats all". so then i find out he's telling everyone that i'm his girlfriend. i ask my friend if he sounded serious about it and she was like... "he's been happier this week than ever, its weird".
so now i'm not too sure if i want to go to homecoming with him anymore... i dont know if there was a misunderstanding or what, but i'm trying to think of a way to comfront him about this, b/c he's REALLY nice... and i dont want to hurt him or anything. |
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Sep 4 2004, 07:26 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
haha that sucks. u should tell him so he can quit while hes ahead lol...
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Sep 4 2004, 07:27 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Tell him after the dance thingy.. or before, whichever you prefer, but I think you should tell him about how you feel.
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Sep 4 2004, 08:51 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
.......Hahaha.
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Sep 4 2004, 11:34 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
QUOTE(th5418 @ Sep 4 2004, 8:51 PM) .......Hahaha. =/ not funny.  
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| *RiC3xBoy* |
Sep 5 2004, 12:19 AM
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tell him in person ur not his girlfriend
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Sep 5 2004, 09:54 AM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
yeah, you should tell him how you feel.
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Sep 5 2004, 10:21 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 215 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 26,920 |
haha sucks for you
jk just tell him how you feel about him |
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Sep 5 2004, 10:27 AM
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 im making a come back! woohoo Group: Member Posts: 395 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,819 |
sometimes certain guys can be like that.... just cuz ur going to do something with him he says that ur his gf.... my bestfriend is this girl and all my frens think were together and we go eeeewwww..... so just tell him after the dance so he wont kill himself lol.......... oh and make sure he doesnt make up stories that HE broke up with U when u guys were not together in the first place...
 get wad i mean?
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Sep 5 2004, 10:31 AM
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 Word. Group: Member Posts: 3,004 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,673 |
your just his date, not a girlfriend.. im taking my friend from a school from a diff school district and stuff to my HC and she is just my friend.. i've taken friends to dances forever... i never tough of it as being my girlfriend girlfriend.
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Sep 5 2004, 10:49 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
After the dance, just tell him about it? Or before. The later you tell him, he'll be sad or something...so you might as well tell him sooner.
It's been nice going to the dance as friends. :D |
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Sep 5 2004, 12:58 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 875 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,841 |
you can still go to homecoming with him, tell him afterwards or so?
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Sep 5 2004, 01:04 PM
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 i brake for hobbits Group: Member Posts: 105 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,766 |
awww thats kinda cute that he's really happy about asking you to homecoming...
 think about how you feel for him, and if you dont like him than i would tell him AFTER homecoming that you dont reallyy like him in a boyfriend-ish way.
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Sep 5 2004, 01:51 PM
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 t3h koolest guy in cB Group: Member Posts: 2,194 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 513 |
so dont go....
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Sep 5 2004, 02:13 PM
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Sep 5 2004, 03:29 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
Just tell him the truth
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Sep 5 2004, 03:50 PM
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 APPLE Group: Member Posts: 2,989 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,182 |
I feel sorry for the guy..Just go to his homecoming and after talk to him about this girlfrd thing, ok? Well that's what i would do.
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Sep 5 2004, 06:31 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
QUOTE(xSonia @ Sep 5 2004, 3:50 PM) I feel sorry for the guy..Just go to his homecoming and after talk to him about this girlfrd thing, ok? Well that's what i would do. yep talk to him after the homecoming is over |
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Sep 5 2004, 09:57 PM
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but what wrong wit him???? he might be a quality guy and hes prob been waiting for heeps long to ask you out...and it seems that hes heaps happy...y dont you see if it works out????
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Sep 5 2004, 10:01 PM
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 3,565, you n00bs ain't got nothin' on me. Group: Official Member Posts: 3,761 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,565 |
Don't be mean about it, just go up to him and ask him why he has been spreading things about you and him being a couple. And clear up any misunderstandings.
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Sep 5 2004, 10:13 PM
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 He ate it, I swear! Group: Member Posts: 659 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,075 |
Yeah, talk to him about it and say that you don't appreciate it. I would still go to homecoming with him.
You used Bob as your example name. 
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Sep 6 2004, 01:39 AM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
QUOTE(love[x) melissa,Sep 4 2004, 11:34 PM] =/ not funny. I was going to type "So you want to be MY girlfriend?!" |
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Sep 6 2004, 12:06 PM
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 ooo la la Group: Member Posts: 433 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,853 |
i think you should still go to homecomming with him because you did say yes, but just make it clear to him that you're not his girlfriend only his friend.
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Sep 6 2004, 12:44 PM
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 Sweet n' Sexy Group: Member Posts: 146 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,489 |
go to homecomming with him but explain AFTER hc that u arent going out in a nice manner
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Sep 6 2004, 01:39 PM
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yeah I think that you should tell him and say that you two arent going out
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Sep 6 2004, 04:27 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
QUOTE(th5418 @ Sep 6 2004, 1:39 AM) I was going to type "So you want to be MY girlfriend?!" of for sure. i've always wanted like an internet boyfriend. marry me now or else. |
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Sep 7 2004, 12:13 PM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
confront him in the nicest way possible....i would talk 2 him b4 the dance so u can get that outta the way
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Sep 7 2004, 03:44 PM
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 Aznsorpor Group: Member Posts: 89 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,522 |
talk to him.. or else confusion just gets worst and then in the end wen he feels even more serious about you and he falls deeper into the hole it would hurt him a lot more then ... than if you talk to him now.. make sure he knows that as of right now you two are just still friends.. but you don't know what can happen in the future.. and after you tell him that.. ask him if he still wants you to be his partner.. as a friend... i think that that would not be as hurtful as other things.. but it depends on ur own opinion..
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Sep 8 2004, 01:24 PM
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just tell him. its not that hard.
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Sep 8 2004, 02:13 PM
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 You be my sun & I'll moon you Group: Member Posts: 48 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,527 |
I think you should confront him about it. Not in like, a hasty way but pull him aside and ask, you know, what's going on and get things straight before the it becomes a bigger problem.
Maybe'll it'll disappoint him a bit but atleast you'll stop the false statements from spreading any further.
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Sep 8 2004, 06:30 PM
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 Alisha Group: Member Posts: 2,341 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,880 |
wow thats weird. well talk to him and ask him if he wants more out of u two going to homecoming =/
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