I kNow I love Him, but I wanna be wit someone else... Options

[NoOna-BuG]

I know I'm in love wit somebody but I'm so used to havin more than one boyfriend. Ya know, just in case things dont work out? Wat should I do??

[bigbull]

hmm...i dont wanna butt all up in ur life lol..but id say go with the person you think you love. And see what comes from it. Just imagine how happy you could be with the one person you love. Instead of a few boyfriends for "just in case" reaons only...Its really nice just having one.

[WildGriffin]

you're used to having more then one boyfriend....?

I'm sorry, but that's fu*ked up. Get un-used to it, or else you won't ever be happy. If you can't pick one based on thier personality or character (which I imagine you can't), put their name's in a hat and draw. And have fun with whatever you think you're doing with relationships...

[kathystaa]

i agree with WildGriffin...Having feelings like that makes people wonder if you truly do love him. in this case if you're having mxed emotions, maybe stop and think before you make any sudden changes. do you truly love him? if you do why are you having feelings for someone other than him? its just my opinion, but i think one boyfriend is all anyone needs...not 2...or 3. just one...

[NoOna-BuG]

i know i've been makin wrong choices as far as relationships and things like that but it's hard for me to trust anyone so i keep "a spare". I really am deeply in love wit someone and don't wanna lose him but..im confused.. THANK U ALL!!

[inthemudhole]

you're used to having more then one boyfriend....?

I'm sorry, but that's fu*ked up. Get un-used to it, or else you won't ever be happy. If you can't pick one based on thier personality or character (which I imagine you can't), put their name's in a hat and draw. And have fun with whatever you think you're doing with relationships...

Lmfao. I agree.
-_-
You should only have one at a time.

[jazzydancer9]

you're so used to having more than one boyfriend??... pick one for god sake.. i would be surprised if more than two guys liked you anyone if you're going to be that slutty.. no offense or anything...

[DavidxN]

haha wut a player

[NoOna-BuG]

that slutty comment was mean..it's not like im havin sex wit all of em or anything..i just am used to havin more than one boyfriend...wats hard about that?

[pikimoo]

More than one boyfriend..? I'm sorry, but I hate girls like you. You having more than one boyfriend causes other girls to not have any. And that leads them to depression. And that could lead to suicide or something of the sort. Get one man. If you love him, stick with him. No backups.

[shawty_redd]

^^ i agree
girls that have more than one boyfriend makes guys not trust the true and honest ones cause they're afraid of being played

[MeanBastard]

Go. To. Hell.

[sweetdreamsx3]

.....Slut. You have everything good right now. You know what? Go ahead and go out with the other guy. I hope your current boyfriend finds out and dumps your ass. Then he moves on and forgets all about you because you chose to be a slut.

[*evdxgirl*]

Go. To. Hell.

Hahahahahahahahhahahahahahaa. HAHAHAHHAHAHAHA. You're so blunt; I love it.

...You won't have a good reputation if you're used to having more than one bf at a time.

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

quit being a hoe and stay with one bro

-edited-

if ur in love with him,then why do u doubt things wont work out,why do u have thoughts of having other relationships oO; ? u dont know wut love is,i suggest u go find a thread that explains love.

[mouse_3k]

I know I'm in love wit somebody but I'm so used to havin more than one boyfriend. Ya know, just in case things dont work out? Wat should I do??

wow u sound real shallow.

if u loved this guy, u wouldnt be havin doubts OR wanting to go with someone else now would u?? ppl like u make me so angry.."oh im not use to having one bf cause im just a pimpette like tht"

how about u just not go with NE one cause its obvious ur not ready for a REAL relationship..

HAHAH u in love with someone...thts funny..

i know i've been makin wrong choices as far as relationships and things like that but it's hard for me to trust anyone so i keep "a spare". I really am deeply in love wit someone and don't wanna lose him but..im confused.. THANK U ALL!!

u keep a *spare* bf??? wtf, boys isnt car tires...they are people which means they have freakin feelings!!! how would u feel if the one u love kept a *spare* gf on the side?

u dont deserve to be in a relationship right now..i say keep urself in a room without NE guys for a few yrs and just avoid relationships for a looong time..

[DavidxN]

im not seeing a problem here...shes dating 2 guys but not having sex, thats like having 2 really close friends that she just wants to get to know and hang out with, shes not banging them or using them, i bet shes in high school and just wants to find a good guy to be with

[Looow]

hahahaha s l u t

[betrayedbytheduc...]

it definitely shows that you're not commited.

[asdf]

2 bfs at the same time? whats wrong with that?!
man. look if your bf had two gfs at one time.

girls like you.. thats why we're called evil. stay one at a time!

[XoAzn_ElaineXo]

if u really love him u shouldn't be dating other guyz

[dani41790]

wtf ur used to having more than one bf?!?! im sorry but thats just realli messed. you shouldnt do that. its realli not fair to them and its just plain WRONG. if you realli do love him then you'de only stick to one guy. i realli dont believe you when you say that you love him because otherwise you wouldnt want to date another guy. psh people like you dissapoint me alot if you're gonna continue having more than one boyfriend then i realli dont think u deserve a boyfriend at all. how would you like it if you were a *spare girlfriend* for the guy you love? your two timing sluttyness is revolting

[inthemudhole]

More than one boyfriend..?  I'm sorry, but I hate girls like you. You having more than one boyfriend causes other girls to not have any. And that leads them to depression. And that could lead to suicide or something of the sort. Get one man. If you love him, stick with him. No backups.

I totally agree with you.

You shouldn't have a "spare" boyfriend.
Guys have feelings, too, y'know.
They don't want to be the "spare" or any other sh1t like that.
-_-

[conster]

y u gotta be so afraid for??

[me1issaaaa]

I totally agree with you.

You shouldn't have a "spare" boyfriend.
Guys have feelings, too, y'know.
They don't want to be the "spare" or any other sh1t like that.
-_-

exactly. couldn't have said it any better.
these are PEOPLE with feelings. you don't use ppl like that.. geez.i don't want to sound mean, i really don't, but it's pissing me off because you just don't do that. it doesn't work out that way. and THAT, my friend, is how ppl come to the conclusion that you are slutty. **i know it's not true, but that's what ppl will think.** and if you really do love the guy like you say you do, you should have no need for a so-called "backup".

[*x____duckii*]

that slutty comment was mean..it's not like im havin sex wit all of em or anything..i just am used to havin more than one boyfriend...wats hard about that?

Truth hurts, and yeah, you do seem like one. WTF, you say love him and then you have 'spare' bfs? That's seriously messed up sh*t there. How could you truly love him if you have other bfs?

[fallenang3l211]

maybe you don't love him as much as you think you do.

having more than one bf just makes you trashy. guys will think you're easy. I could NEVER have more than one bf. i dated two guys at the same time once, not two bfs. but thats as far as it went, and i didn't feel comfortable with it.

[fullmusicedmajor]

u cant have more then one husband...so get used to it ;)

[silver-rain]

if you really love him, you should only be with him.

[stealthllogic]

YOU SLUT!

[sunissed14127]

you're used to having more then one boyfriend....?

I'm sorry, but that's fu*ked up. Get un-used to it, or else you won't ever be happy. If you can't pick one based on thier personality or character (which I imagine you can't), put their name's in a hat and draw. And have fun with whatever you think you're doing with relationships...

^^ agreed!!

[aznsorpor]

if you want to be with someone else .. like truly want to be with someone else.. you cant do nething about it... you cant push yourself to be with someone that you dont want to be in a relationship with even if you know you love them.. do what your heart tells you.. and try not to keep the more than one boyfriend thing up.. cuz in life.. we all know that eventually that would back fire in your face.. i hope that i havent been offensive to you or anyone else..

[captured_serenit...]

i think you should do what you think is right...not what others think is right for you...

you have to think for yourself once in awhile..

[Just_Dream]

You say you love him, but if you truly did, you wouldn't think about dating another guy unless the person you loved didn't love you back and didn't want to be with you. If you feel like you're not getting enough out of the relationship, talk to your boyfriend about it. You should tell him rather than act like nothing happens because if he doesn't know, he can try to make you happy, and then eventually you two will break up.

And you shouldn't be thinking about other guys unless you don't really love the guy you're with

[ThisIsRonRon]

its ok though, i feel your pain, because im so used to having 2 gfs.. i feel BLEEPed up.. but hey. anyawys.. now that ive been stuck with one girl for a year.. you finally realize how stupid it is to have two bfs/gfs.. because if your truely love someone [or at least you think you do] then nothing should get in your way.