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 Sep 3 2004, 10:38 PM
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 Tina + Tommy  Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,575  |
one of my close friend (aka my ex) we talk to each other a lot. but lately he keeps bothering me about who i love and stuff cuz i put (i Love yUU) in my profile. i just put it there cuz i felt like it. but that didnt mean anything but he doesnt believe me. he keeps asking me and when i dont tell him he gets mad at me. im tired of this. and he tells his closest friend about it (hes also my ex). so now both of them keeps asking me. how am i gonna deal with this??? im getting realli tired and a big headache from this!! and i dont wanna stop talking to them cuz iLL Lose them as friends.
 
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Sep 3 2004, 10:48 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Well.
Tell him how you feel. Tell them that it bothers you when they question you. |
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Sep 3 2004, 10:49 PM
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mayb they arent over u yet and it bothers them that mayb theres another guy
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Sep 3 2004, 10:52 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
Yeah, I agree with ric3xboy. ONE of them still might like you. The other one probably just came in because the one that likes you told him to ask you.
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Sep 3 2004, 10:57 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
QUOTE(InTheMudHole @ Sep 3 2004, 11:48 PM) Well. Tell him how you feel. Tell them that it bothers you when they question you. yeah, i agree. tell him how you feel. |
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Sep 3 2004, 11:13 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
You know what? You shouldn't have you those 3 little words in your profile. Don't use "I Love You" so loosely. They probably think you might like somoene else and have a crush on you lol (your two ex's). Anyways, tell them you just put it there for fun. They should understand. Why are they makking a big deal out of it?
But I advise you not to use such words so loosely. |
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Sep 3 2004, 11:24 PM
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Tina + Tommy Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,575 |
QUOTE(Just_Dream @ Sep 3 2004, 11:13 PM) You know what? You shouldn't have you those 3 little words in your profile. Don't use "I Love You" so loosely. They probably think you might like somoene else and have a crush on you lol (your two ex's). Anyways, tell them you just put it there for fun. They should understand. Why are they makking a big deal out of it? But I advise you not to use such words so loosely. yea... i was just bored and put it there for fun. didnt kno it would make such a big deal tho. and telling them wont work. theyll just keep questioning. cant get them to stop unless i tell them! 
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Sep 4 2004, 05:07 PM
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 Master Debater Group: Member Posts: 1,066 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,719 |
try "i hate you". should balance it out, right?
yeah...and stop using "i love you" cause you're "bored". that's so lame. |
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Sep 4 2004, 05:38 PM
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i think this guy likes you again.. he sounds kinda idiotic... but if you wanna go for it.. go for it..
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Sep 5 2004, 08:03 PM
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sounds like he's waiting for the answer to be him. simply just say "don't bother me about it".
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Sep 5 2004, 08:06 PM
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IF i love you is so overly used then it barely has any meaning left. you shouldn't use those words just for the heck of it. I hate you is a complete different story
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Sep 5 2004, 08:17 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
QUOTE(Just_Dream @ Sep 3 2004, 11:13 PM) You know what? You shouldn't have you those 3 little words in your profile. Don't use "I Love You" so loosely. They probably think you might like somoene else and have a crush on you lol (your two ex's). Anyways, tell them you just put it there for fun. They should understand. Why are they makking a big deal out of it? But I advise you not to use such words so loosely. i agree  u shouldnt put it there.. and since u do, u should have a reason for it... and.. a reasonable reason lol
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Sep 5 2004, 09:13 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 875 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,841 |
QUOTE(Just_Dream @ Sep 3 2004, 11:13 PM) You know what? You shouldn't have you those 3 little words in your profile. Don't use "I Love You" so loosely. They probably think you might like somoene else and have a crush on you lol (your two ex's). Anyways, tell them you just put it there for fun. They should understand. Why are they makking a big deal out of it? But I advise you not to use such words so loosely. yeah i agree, and the words i love you shouldnt be abused nor used without a reason. let your exes know how you feel about them questioning you 
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Sep 7 2004, 12:05 PM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
yeah i think u should tell how u feel,and tell them u love then just not in tha way they r thinking, that u love them as close friends and nothing more.i think they still like you tho.
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Sep 7 2004, 01:40 PM
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 3,565, you n00bs ain't got nothin' on me. Group: Official Member Posts: 3,761 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,565 |
Forget him. Be like, dude, I'm not gonna say I love YOU because I don't. ANd I'm not gonna say who I love to YOU either!
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Sep 7 2004, 03:35 PM
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 Aznsorpor Group: Member Posts: 89 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,522 |
wow that is a pain... that gets annoying mayb you can talk to them about it.. or if they really dont believe you and keep annoying you .. u mite need to have to stop talking to them for a lil while.. even if it means losing them as friends.. cuz... if they wont understand you.. then u really cant do much about it.. its hard to deal with ppl like that.. or talk to another friend about it.. mayb they can talk to them for you..
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Sep 7 2004, 08:13 PM
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 i'm lala. girly girl. Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,888 |
tell them something...make it up...no just kidding...well dont worry too much about it...it will soon blow over...well that's what i would do...suit yourself...
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