Anger Options

[sweetdreamsx3]

I'm not so sure if this thing belongs in here. There's this girl at my school. Her name is Alex and her other friend's name is Alyx. By their same names, but different spellings, you might already figure out they stick close together.

Anyhoo, I really want to pick up my chair and throw it at their faces, but I can't exactly do it on school property. She doesn't exactly piss me off, but whenever I think about my situation with her, I just really want to stab her (with a mechanical pencil). I've done it before and yes, I know I'm violent.

Well, anyhoo, question is, how do you deal with your anger? Do you have to turn to violence? Or are you a nice, innocent, little angel?

[Revolt]

I say beat the hell out of her. I've had plenty of experience with fights at school, nothing ever happens.

[casssy]

I say beat the hell out of her. I've had plenty of experience with fights at school, nothing ever happens.

do it and video tape it so we can all laugh our asses off

[leeeza702]

How do I deal with anger... hmmm... Most of the time I just stay quiet and cool down... but I don't know what I would do if I got really mad, that never happened.. so who knows...??

[*corizzle20*]

to deal with anger i just go to sleep and when i wake up, im not that mad anymore.

[silver-rain]

well, if i get angry and my family or really close friends, then i go psycho. i act all b!tchy and i'm yelling and crazy, it's not a pretty site. but sometimes, i just cool down and try not to let it bother me and let it pass.

[DevilDeathDemon]

just got 1 phrase when i got nutz....

ALL HELL BREAKS LOOSE!!!

[tsohg]

i go exercise =]

[sweetdreamsx3]

to deal with anger i just go to sleep and when i wake up, im not that mad anymore.

Lol, I would usually do that, but then I'll just end up getting annoyed seeing her stupid @$$ again. I would like to throw my chair at her, but some of my friends sit in front of her, so sadly, I can't do that.

[Revolt]

Throw your entire desk at her.

[initial-seven]

get a blow-up hammer and smack the crap out of them.....it acctually hurts

[slurp]

take anger management classes or just wait afterschool and fcuk her up, she cant hide in their all day long

[sweetdreamsx3]

Throw your entire desk at her.

YES I SHALL!!!!

take anger management classes or just wait afterschool and fcuk her up, she cant hide in their all day long

Yes, I'm beginning to think I need anger management classes. Argh, but then again, no. Why should I take a class when I can lash out all my anger on her? I'm innocent.

[aznriceboi]

Anyhoo, I really want to pick up my chair and throw it at their faces, but I can't exactly do it on school property. She doesn't exactly piss me off, but whenever I think about my situation with her, I just really want to stab her (with a mechanical pencil). I've done it before and yes, I know I'm violent.

haha, but who says you can't? just pick up your chair and on her way out of class throw it at her. then while shes on the the ground stab her with your mechanical pencil. violence is always the answer. yes i know im a bad influence on cb...

[Revolt]

Anger management is a joke, let that anger out! It's no good to keep it bottled up. Violence solves everything.

World War I, World War II, etc.

[sweetdreamsx3]

haha, but who says you can't? just pick up your chair and on her way out of class throw it at her. then while shes on the the ground stab her with your mechanical pencil. violence is always the answer. yes i know im a bad influence on cb...

Lol, yes I agree. Violence is always the answer. That's what I tell all my friends. :P Seems like we have something in common. Ahaha. :P

[Revolt]

It might be more amusing to just all out kick her ass.

Girl fights are always better than guy fights. Guys push and punch a bit, but girls go all out... biting, kicking, screaming, scratching, pulling hair... good stuff!

Beat her down!

[jo3]

yea...violence is the answer....if ur immature

if the problem's fixable, why don't u try talking w/ her? some of my friends who had grudges towards other ppl grew some balls and confronted the other person (with a calm attitude), and now they're all cool w/ each other

sometimes its good to settle down, don't think about it, maybe take a nap. but suppression might lead to u not being able to keep ur anger inside anymore, and you might explode. if its not that serious, then sleep it off. if not, then talk to them, but if they refuse to listen, then screw them. u're better than them anyways

[Revolt]

Diplomacy does not always work. Violence does. Kill your enemy and they won't be there to enrage you anymore.

[shawty_redd]

^^ i agree. girl fights are better

anyways about ur problem
ya violence is the only solution

[jo3]

Diplomacy does not always work. Violence does. Kill your enemy and they won't be there to enrage you anymore.

if this is a serious comment, then u should go and kill some people. i'll go visit you right before you're lethally injected

[Revolt]

Killing them is a bit too extreme, but letting them know who's boss doesn't hurt (well, it might hurt them, but that's perfectly okay).

[jo3]

no trust me...violence is not the way

u'll end up bringing ur guy friends, and they'll bring their guy friends, and then the guys will start hating each other when they don't even know each other

but if u really think u can start a fight w/o bringing anyone else in, then go ahead

[inthemudhole]

Hm.
I yell.
Sometimes throw sh1t.
Err, bust out with the "cats" <--reference to something else.
Listen to heavy metal.
Write poetry.
*shrug*
And all that good stuff.

[*CEP*]

I vent out on some n00b in the chatroom.
That or I keep it bottled in, THEN vent out on a friend.
Either one results in the other party feeling bad.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

[sweetdreamsx3]

yea...violence is the answer....if ur immature

Whoohoo! Forever immature! <33 I'll grow up when I throw my chair at her.

[PuRrFeCt GhErRl ...]

I'm not so sure if this thing belongs in here. There's this girl at my school. Her name is Alex and her other friend's name is Alyx. By their same names, but different spellings, you might already figure out they stick close together.

Anyhoo, I really want to pick up my chair and throw it at their faces, but I can't exactly do it on school property. She doesn't exactly piss me off, but whenever I think about my situation with her, I just really want to stab her (with a mechanical pencil). I've done it before and yes, I know I'm violent.

Well, anyhoo, question is, how do you deal with your anger? Do you have to turn to violence? Or are you a nice, innocent, little angel?

How is that violent?

[xx angelbabu xx]

well, i first try to hold it in.. if that doesnt work, i vent to my other friends.. and if that doesnt work, i blow up at the girl that im pissed off at.. hehe

[sweetdreamsx3]

How is that violent?

You don't think throwing a chair at someone violent? Wow, what do you think violent is then? Stabbing someone with a mechanical pencil? Did that three times. w00t. haha Hmm...what else did I do? I'm not sure. You'll have to ask my friends you dumbass.

[vehvih]

War freaks.

[waccoon]

I punch walls. Try it sometime.

[sweetdreamsx3]

I don't want to punch my walls. I shall go out and punch other people's homes. Ruin it. LOL :D Thanks for the advice waccoon!

[kirbymuixo]

I usually keep it inside of me, but when there's too much pressure and anger, then -pop- I explode like a can of soda when you open it after shaking it up.

[sweetdreamsx3]

Omg. >.< That should be how I describe myself. *Pop* *explodes* Ehhhh Grrs.

[defjam_gangsta]

Greetings!!

yeah!! i know i've commented abt tat one but hey. it's all good rite?! imma a peace loving one but someone did cross da line once wit me and things got pretty ugly. luckily there were ppl surrounding us and they broke us up. as inda fight lah. but for me, it's all good. best part was, his girlfriend apologies to me and made him apologies to me as well. after tat, i dun know how he managed to keep his face inda public. imagine tat. a hen-pecked boyfriend!! tat's funny!!

CHEERS CB!!

[mouse_3k]

oooh violent, oh yes. ^^

its fun to make the enemy take a *closer* look on the street crub

[juliar]

I rant on my xanga.
Just like I just did. =)

[sweetdreamsx3]

I rant on my xanga.
Just like I just did. =)

Yeah, I do that too, but sometimes I have the urge to stab someone again or throw a chair at someone.

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

um i listen to music, think about the situation, find reason... haha well honestly i dont get pissed off alot,but there are people who get on my nerves and sometimes the gloves do come off, but not on campus

[iced__cappucino]

Tell her to Effing Eff of and go to anger management. aha im soo joking on the management. uhmm..get a hammer and everytime you think of exploding nail a nail into like a fence. then when u run out of nails see if you havnt lost your temper. for each day you DONT lose it take out a nail. eh might work. got it off an e-mail..sound like its help-y though. (=

[sushiluva]

i don't vent to people because i don't think it's other people's responsiblility to deal with my bitching. if i vent to them, then i'm just basically looking for sympathy, which is pathetic -- to me anyway. so i don't tell people my problems because they'll just say "ohh it's ok" when we all know i'm screwed to begin with. i stay alone when i'm angry and eventually fall asleep.

[tofumonzter]

hahah. i'll goo chew gum. hhahh.
you have to say stuff when you chew. die. die. your stupid gum. die. die...

[*CJ1*]

I eat chocolate. Afterwards, I excercise. That way, I won't get fat after all the times I get mad.

[conster]

i eat wen i get angry

[angel-roh]

i'm a nice innocent angel the one over here hehe well i was violence girl before but not like wat u said... i just smack ppls in their back and push them away from me...hehe i was tomboy muahaha rofl hehe anyways yeah...but i controlled it by volunteering in the children hospital which changed almost all my life.

[*lolita kitty*]

i cry.. im kind of a sensitive person...

[XxmisspreciousxX]

im usually sensitive aswell

[acidbreeze]

I go into a mad rage until I cry. Then still try to beat people up.

[*lolita kitty*]

im usually sensitive aswell

its ok.. were all family up in here.. i knoe how you feel

[LiNHy POO]

yehh sometimes i will cry, but usually i juss walk away....

[inthemudhole]

Depends on what made me angry.
I'll usually listen to more heavy metal than usual.. uhm, write suicidal poetry. (No, I'm not suicidal, I just write it..

[sweetdreamsx3]

If I'm really really frustrated or mad, I tend to cry. Yes, I'm also sensitive but I also turn to violence. If I see a mechanical pencil near me, I'll stab you. Gotta release your anger sometimes, and it's the person who made you mad. Unless it's my friends, then I would have to walk away and cool down..

I love my friends. I won't ever hurt them..not on purpose anyway

[Flaunted]

i talk to someone about it.
or write it all down and burn it.

[sweetdreamsx3]

Tell her to Effing Eff of and go to anger management. aha im soo joking on the management. uhmm..get a hammer and everytime you think of exploding nail a nail into like a fence. then when u run out of nails see if you havnt lost your temper. for each day you DONT lose it take out a nail. eh might work. got it off an e-mail..sound like its help-y though. (=

The teacher is always there and I need to find the right time when everyone quiets down. Then when she says a word, I can pwn her. :D

"Hey linda, what's your grade?"
"Obviously higher than yours."
*hahahahha*

I wanted to throw my entire desk at her today like Revolt suggested. Yes, I shall bring a hammer to school shouldn't I? Just chunk it at her face. Pick it up again and chunk it at her other friend's face too. w00t.

[*lolita kitty*]

do it and video tape it so we can all laugh our asses off

rofl.. that would be funny..

[amanduhsayz]

well i tell some guy to beat that person up for me teehee

[sweetdreamsx3]

Lol, why tell someone else to beat that person up for you? Wouldn't you rather do it yourself so you can feel the freedom? LMAO. Sounds retarded, but wouldn't you rather do it yourself so you can let go? Or are you like....small? I mean, like...weak? Iono..haha it's all good. :D

[six]

i turn green and run around the neighborhood half naked.

[SteveObscure]

Holding it in isn't a good thing though. It can lead to much worse ways of anger such as snapping and going crazy on someone. This would be me.

[SteveObscure]

Don't hold it in, if you do for a bit, then when she ends up pissing you off in your face, you might end up slapping her all mean and nasty. I don't know if this is what you want to do or not. But be careful, you could end up assing her out! HEH HEH!

[Gypsy Eyes]

just got 1 phrase when i got nutz....

ALL HELL BREAKS LOOSE!!!

the same here...

and i also write about it on my xanga

[sharerolling]

I would throw something around like a squeeze pillow. And I would throw a tantrum. But depends who it is. Sometimes if its serious, I'll cry.

[sheepy]

i listen to music :]

[FLIPxADDICTION]

beat something up.. people... pillows... anyhing..

i dont "beat" stuff i just throw them to the ground

[fallenang3l211]

i put a nifty hole in my wall one night. what i do depends on how mad/sad i am, and what its about

[slurp]

i hide and cry and afterwards..eat

[Just_Dream]

Most of the time, I hide my anger and keep it stored up in my mind until I expldoe and yea I can go pretty crazy. I sometimes end up yelling at my boyfriend. In fact, alot of times i vent my anger out on him, when he did nothing. It's family problems or school and I end up yelling at him. I feel so terrible about it but it happens. I wish I could take back all those times I yell at him while letting my anger out. I feel terrible Other times I just shout or go to my pillow and scream. Once in a while I might cry it out.

[sweetdreamsx3]

I sometimes end up yelling at my boyfriend. In fact, alot of times i vent my anger out on him, when he did nothing. It's family problems or school and I end up yelling at him. I feel so terrible about it but it happens. I wish I could take back all those times I yell at him while letting my anger out. I feel terrible Other times I just shout or go to my pillow and scream. Once in a while I might cry it out.

Same here! And he's like "What did I do?" And all I can do is continue to yell at him. It's okay. You and I can relate. lols

[JoelyMoleyLoVeR]

i write in my journal and i dont talk to anyone and i tear up something in my room. and sometimes i just yell at anyone thats near me and if i get mad enough i will cry.

[*tweeak*]

i dont see your problem...but anyway, i hit. or claw. or subtley kick

[sushiluva]

do you play baseball?? perhaps invest in a bat. will that make you feel better?? i think i would. if not use it, have the satisfaction that you have one to use if necessary.

[sweetdreamsx3]

do you play baseball?? perhaps invest in a bat. will that make you feel better?? i think i would. if not use it, have the satisfaction that you have one to use if necessary.

Nope, I don't play baseball, but my brother does have a few metal bats around...I would love to take one to school and just smash it in her head. Just to hear the cracking sound...

No, wait. That's going too far. >.<

[sunissed14127]

i usually listen to loud music then scream and cuss and no one can hear me....or i write in my journal....or i write in my xanga =]

[madRooney]

i'd hide my violence... not necessary...

[sweetdreamsx3]

i'd hide my violence... not necessary...

Hiding? Then what do you do to release your anger? I can't hide my anger. I just cry it all out. *shrugs*

[rainnydaiis]

hmmm u cry it all out.. more like it beat it out into someone else... =P

[ohBrian]

i scream and work out .. i take all my anger on something that i wouldnt wanna do to kill times.. just work myself out until i get knock out

[*jooleeah*]

Usually I'll try to keep it in...but most of the time that never happens haha =P sometimes i'll vent it out on a friend but that usually gets the friend mad or me or something >< but yeaaah...i try to keep it in.

[pbear]

I steam quietly, then vent to a friend.
Or, I scream and yell and slam doors.

[sweetdreamsx3]

hmmm u cry it all out.. more like it beat it out into someone else... =P

Nah, I cry it all out when I can't take this shit anymore.

[rainnydaiis]

Nah, I cry it all out when I can't take this shit anymore.

oo i see... guess your not all that violent =P

[sweetdreamsx3]

so you hate them because their names are alike..??

No, not because of that, but their attitudes towards me. I don't even know Alyx and she never got to know me either, but since they both have the same names, they have like the same brains and whatever now. So if Alex is rude to me, Alyx would be rude to me also. And I don't do anything in front of teachers because I am an "angel". hahaha

Hating them because they have the same names is stupid. I have nothing against Alyx, but since she has something against me now (when I didn't even do jack shiet to her), I dislike her strongly now along with Alex.

But Alyx is stupid. She couldn't handle the AP class so her stupid ass dropped out. What a dumbass. *shrugs* Nothing bad has happened so far.....I'm waiting for Alex to "bop" me in the face and when she does...yeah...That's all you need to know.

[vivieeeen]

hehe.. yea... i love waiting till that one moment

then all my anger gushes out and i give such a passionate speech she cries and everyone applauds

[*side note... dogs go mad, people get angry...

[FALLENstar009]

Throw your entire desk at her.

If that doesn't work...yell things and then throw the desk along with a chair. And when she's helpless on the ground THEN you can stab her ^-^.....That was really violet but ok

[captivatedheart]

with guys, i tend to go violent on them.. but otherwise i scream and complain like crazy.

[smile4me]

have you seen lilo and stitch? i grab a pillow and scream into it. =D it works.
but i also...er...use guy friends as punching bags..if they allow. heh. ^.^;;
if its an angry situation with others...i tend to get passive when i'm angry. its weird.

[bellpepper]

ANger whoosh where can I start. Well most of the time I vent to my friends or I got listen to a good song. Or if i have i problem with some person I go talk to them in person so i can straigten things out. I have to deal with anger ALOT.
hope ur situationn gets better.

[sweetxsimplicity]

I'm an innocent angel.

[jambaJUICE]

oh yes. i noe how that is. my name is stephanie, and theres two other girls in my class named stephanies. pisses the shit out of me when one of the stephanies get all immature.. and keep saying "which one" or "stop talking to urself".. i just want to get pencil and stab her.

but..

uhm i have stress balls. and paper. if not then i do the abcs in sign language. lol (yes thats my answer to most things... keeps me calm)

[faithin_felix]

i'd go play some killing game and kill everyone!

[*stephinika*]

mm yeah i vent to myself in my head. pent up anger. its interesting when i explode.

[lauleen]

Erm, I have different techniques on how to deal with my anger every now and then. For now, it's just getting out of the house and taking a little walk, down to the park and watch the kids do weird stuff, like poke the grass.



Anyway, it's quite relaxing. Or alternatively, you could use the old 'scream-into-the-pillow' trick.

[Redhdchic]

I scream as loud as i can into a pillow......or i go and attack my punching bad for a few minutes