What would you prefer!, This is just for the ladies! |
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| *Fallen_Fairy* |
 Aug 30 2004, 10:29 PM
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Ok so let us assume you are involved with this guy.
Well after sometime of being involved with this guy you become involved with another guy. Here is what I am asking you. When breaking the news to your boyfriend that you are leaving him for someone else, would you rather have him be mad and throw a fit OR would you prefer for him to be all okay about it and say," if he makes you happy, I will forget your smile and your face and let you be with him."? Personally I would rather have him be mad and like throw me out as opposed to the other option. It would make the break-up "easier" in my opinion. I hope this is clear. What would you prefer? |
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Aug 30 2004, 10:33 PM
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" if he makes you happy, I will forget your smile and your face and let you be with him."
 I would feel so bad if he said that... lol I guess throwing a fit and such..
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Aug 30 2004, 10:37 PM
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 Tina + Tommy Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,575 |
i'd rather have himm be mad at me cuz then i think its better that way. i dunno how to explain it but id rahter have him be mad
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Aug 30 2004, 10:46 PM
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 Linny the dork. Group: Member Posts: 178 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,258 |
yupp i think it'd be better if he got all mad and stuff, because knowing myself i'd probably feel really guilty and stuff, i mean i would deserve it.
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Aug 30 2004, 10:49 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
I think this is a quesiton for everyone. If my girlfriend whom I was breaking up with said " if she makes you happy, I will forget your smile and your face and let you be with her." I would feel so fcuking bad.
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Aug 30 2004, 10:49 PM
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 hardcore procrastinator =] Group: Member Posts: 186 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,340 |
Yeah I would feel like I'd deserve it so I rather him be mad. And if he's willing to forget about me so quickly does that mean I never meant that much to him in the first place?
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Aug 30 2004, 10:51 PM
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 ...Hm? Group: Member Posts: 250 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 910 |
I'd say get angry at me. I mean I AM leaving him for some other guy, he has the right to female dog at me. And besides, it would break my heart if he said "If it makes you happy, I'll forget about your smile, your face and everything else."
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Aug 30 2004, 11:14 PM
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i would rather him get mad and throw a fit, but be able to control his temper. if not dont do anything crazy in front of me
to forget my smile and my face is pretty sad |
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Aug 31 2004, 10:51 AM
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 Effing classic. Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,183 |
i'd rather have him be really mad because if he said " if he makes you happy, I will forget your smile and your face and let you be with him." i would probably decided not to leave him...only a true gentleman and sensative guy would say that...
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Aug 31 2004, 12:38 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
i would prefer that he gets mad because if he says that he'll forget my smile, i'll feel really guilty.
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Aug 31 2004, 12:46 PM
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i wud prefer..," if he makes you happy, I will forget your smile and your face and let you be with him.".
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Sep 1 2004, 06:45 AM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
I'd rather have him throw a fit.. that way I'd feel less guilty.
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Sep 1 2004, 11:20 AM
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 i'm lala. girly girl. Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,888 |
QUOTE " if he makes you happy, I will forget your smile and your face and let you be with him." that's what i know my boyfriend would say to me if that ever happened...and i prefer it to be aggressive throwing out so i wouldnt need to deal with that... |
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Nov 21 2006, 06:13 PM
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I would rather him be angry at me.
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| *xcaitlinx* |
Nov 21 2006, 06:20 PM
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QUOTE(captured_serenity @ Sep 1 2004, 11:20 AM)  that's what i know my boyfriend would say to me if that ever happened...and i prefer it to be aggressive throwing out so i wouldnt need to deal with that... same here...and id prefer the other option for obvious reasons. i would never leave my boyfriend for another man so i dont have to worry about it haha. |
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| *a painefull euphoria* |
Nov 21 2006, 06:46 PM
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this has happend to me before.
but he knew my reasons. and knew he should have tryed harder to get close to me i basicly told him and he was like what ever makes you happpy but i will never stop loving you> and he kept his word, |
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Nov 21 2006, 07:07 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
I'd rather have him be mad because it doesn't seem all too real if he'd be calm about it. it'd make me think he'd go kill himself later or something
 He'd have a right to be mad at me.
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Nov 21 2006, 07:37 PM
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 Peggy. Group: Member Posts: 2,508 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 214,025 |
Same as everybody. I would rather get him mad.
I don't want to bear an overwhelming guilt. I would rather be a b*tch to him than to be dragging a guy on like that. |
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Nov 21 2006, 07:49 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 71 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,917 |
Ouch.
Tough, though it always depend on the people in the situation.. I gotta say give me the guy that would say such a line and mean it, I'd jump in his arms anyday. ~makes grabbing motions~  Hrmmm but the whole mad thing seems a lot better then feeling gosh darn guilty over the "awwwww"-ness of that line.  |
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| *Infinite.* |
Nov 22 2006, 12:42 AM
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Uhm, probably be kind of calm about it. I don't think I would ever do that anyway, I would feel horrible and probably wouldn't be able to bring myself to go out with the other guy.
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Nov 22 2006, 12:59 AM
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 in a matter of time Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,151 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 191,357 |
I'd rather he be mad.
If it was the other way around...man, talk about a guilt trip. |
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Nov 22 2006, 01:41 PM
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i would rather him get mad at me, rather than saying " if he makes you happy, I will forget your smile and your face and let you be with him." it makes me feel bad & want to just stay with him. =/
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Nov 22 2006, 04:21 PM
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 </3 Group: Member Posts: 1,113 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,746 |
I have to agree with mostly everyone else.
I'd feel so unbelievably guilty if he said that. =[ |
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