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| *thesweetescape* |
 Aug 30 2004, 06:39 PM
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Okay, I have a new boyfriend and he's a really great guy. Everything is going really well except whenever I'm with him and I'm quiet for more than 10 seconds he says "What's the matter?". It's driving me nuts. I'm not sure how to take it...if I really act like something is the matter or if he's just nervous. Has anybody ever had anything like this happen?
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Aug 30 2004, 06:42 PM
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 This bitch better work!  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
yeah it happens to me alot with my family. but i am just say, "if there is something wrong, i will either tell you or you will just know." and they were like, "okay
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| *FreeStickers* |
Aug 30 2004, 06:43 PM
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Yeah, my boyfriend does that all the time. Even on the phone, if I'm quiet for just a little while he'll think something's wrong. Dont worry too much about it, but if it REALLY bothers you, just tell him to stop.
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Aug 30 2004, 07:51 PM
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hahaha i think that's sweet =)). maybe he's just uptight and needs time to get used to it? i dont think it's anything to worry about.
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Aug 30 2004, 07:52 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
Lol, my boyfriend that that to me on Saturday. "You look so sad. What's wrong?" I'm like "Nothing's wrong." A few minutes later, he asks that again. Argh. LOL. Anyhoo, he just cares. :P
Just tell him you're thinking or something. 
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Aug 30 2004, 07:52 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Hehe. Maybe he's nervous about the whole situation and wants to make sure he didn't screw anything up.
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Aug 30 2004, 07:53 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
Everyone should reply "your the matter"
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Aug 30 2004, 09:06 PM
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 anti-friendly Group: Member Posts: 181 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,973 |
lmao, that happened to me and i told him to stop worshipping me. appearantly that only worked for a day.
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Aug 30 2004, 09:21 PM
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thats messed up...guess you cant stop talking
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Aug 30 2004, 09:24 PM
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 who again? Group: Member Posts: 555 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,458 |
eh have no clue.
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Aug 30 2004, 09:25 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,520 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 200 |
QUOTE(Devastation @ Aug 30 2004, 8:24 PM) eh have no clue. then why post? man.
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Aug 30 2004, 09:30 PM
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 Day's Nearly Over Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,553 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,183 |
Aww, honestly, he's just looking out for you. He just loves you. He cares.
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Aug 30 2004, 10:35 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
well if it bothers u then why dont u talk? or do something to keep urselves busy ~_~
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| *thesweetescape* |
Aug 30 2004, 10:41 PM
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I know he cares and that's why i know that's part of why he says it but he also always goes "what's up?" i just think he doesn't know what else to say and thinks we should be talking nonstop haha...i'm just not that kind of a girl where i talk 24/7
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Aug 31 2004, 02:49 AM
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 Until the end of time... Group: Member Posts: 456 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 460 |
he's probably just trying to keep a convo going or trying to make sure he's not boring u in anyway lol, kno what i mean?
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Aug 31 2004, 12:18 PM
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 cellar door Group: Member Posts: 85 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,513 |
QUOTE(th5418 @ Aug 30 2004, 7:53 PM) Everyone should reply "your the matter" That wasn't even English. Stop trying so hard to piss people off. You're not very good at it. Anyways, back on topic. I think he's just concerned that when you're quiet, you're not having fun. You should be happy that he cares that much to know what you're thinking. |
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Aug 31 2004, 12:59 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
oh, my ex was always like that. eh, he probably just cares about you.
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| *CEP* |
Aug 31 2004, 01:02 PM
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Next time, say that you saw him with another girl the day before.
 That should confuse the crap out of him.- Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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Aug 31 2004, 01:07 PM
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 03.21.00 <3 LaTe 637 Group: Member Posts: 744 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,890 |
LOL, I do that sometimes with my boyfriend... it's probably because you are being quite... I know that my boyfriend gets quiet sometimes and sometimes it's because he's mad or whatever.. and thats the reason why when he's quiet I ask him "what's wrong" because I think that he's mad...
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Sep 2 2004, 02:22 AM
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 Wife of Legolas Group: Member Posts: 1,290 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,190 |
oh come on, having a sensitive boyfriend (not oversensitive cause i suppose from the facts you've given he's not)
is a very very good thing and people should be content! *cough* excuse my over-reacting
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Sep 2 2004, 02:42 AM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
jus tell him to stop askin haha and assure him ur fine lol
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Sep 2 2004, 10:31 AM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
tht happens alot with me and my dad.
when im not excited about something and just talkin plain, my dads like "whats ur problem?" and im like "nothing.." and my dad gets all mad cause i dont tell him my "problem"
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Sep 2 2004, 10:43 AM
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 lemme me b wit u... Group: Member Posts: 22 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,798 |
QUOTE(CEP @ Aug 31 2004, 1:02 PM) Next time, say that you saw him with another girl the day before. That should confuse the crap out of him.- Chinkieeyedpnoi hahaha tats funny lol n e way i dont think u should worry bout ur bf for sayin tat......he jus cares about u like all da otha peoples been sayin....
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Sep 2 2004, 02:50 PM
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 i'm lala. girly girl. Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,888 |
i do the same thing...but i dont know why i say that...but bleh...
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Sep 2 2004, 04:26 PM
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 ...jUs CaLL mE tEe... Group: Member Posts: 62 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,234 |
that happens with me to! whenever i'm around him i get super quiet.....especially on the phone! hez always askin me if sumthens wrong! either that, or he tells me to talk! i dunno wat it is...but i know how u feel!
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Sep 9 2004, 01:16 AM
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 Aznsorpor Group: Member Posts: 89 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,522 |
i had this experience a few times.. i guess it's not really something to stress yourself about.. it shouldnt really bother you... like maybe he jus like cares too much for rite now.. since u ppl are new in the relationship.. also.. maybe he wants to keep a convo going.. or show you that he cares..
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