what if.., i still like my ex..? Options

[lilmermaidariel]

i like my ex again but we broke up cause his friend told me he told him 2.. bc supposey all he wanted was sex from me.. evr tho he had never metioned sex to me..

but i like him again i turned down 2 othr guys cause they just didnt seem like they would
b like him..

i thought i loved him but i just dont know..

what do i do??
we barely talk now!
but i miss him... plz help me!

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[silver-rain]

well, i know exactly how you feel. my bf broke up with me, and i still have feelings for him, except he's ignoring me now, so i doubt we'll get back. but, maybe you should talk to him, and ask him about what his friend told you.

[islandkiss]

I know what you're going through.. but they aren't worth the pain and the suffering.

[sweetdreamsx3]

I think his friend likes you, so you guys broke up. Just talk to him and ask him what's going on. If he ignores you or something, well, hey, at least you tried.

[MeanBastard]

Wait wait wait. YOu broke up with him because his friends told you to?

[conster]

y would u break up wit him jus cuz of what HIS friends said? if they were ur friends i can consider..

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

if u guys really liked each other at the time, and u do still have feelings for him, maybe u should give it another try... its not that hard to figure out

[WhiteLotus*]

Get the story straight. Ask him yourself. His friends might be goofing around with you because they want the old him back.

[llpurpleskyll]

i think if the guy ever wants is to have sex with u. u should be able to tell in some ways. if he hadnt even mention a word about sex, u should talk to him about it and not just break up with him because someone else told u so.

[slurp]

wow, im somewhat in the same situation, i broke up with my ex and yeah i regret it and still have feelings for him but i broke up because i felt like to and not by listening to a friend, anyway you didnt have to break up automatically you could have consider what his friend said but if he didnt even mention sex it doesnt really look like all he wants is sex from you

[xoxspanky569]

Ok, i am a bit confused....well..

1. If you broke up with him because his friend told you to: I hate to say that it is probably over. That is an extremely stupid reason to break up with one, and if that is the reason you did, he probably doesn't want a relationship with you anymore...

2. You thought he wanted you only for sex OR his friend said he only wanted you for sex: Either way you should have straight up just TALKED to him, things get more confusing and more upsetting if you hear this and that from other people. The only source that you need to talk to is the guy, not his friend or his cousin or his friend's brother's friend's cousin. Geez.

3. Not every guy is going to be the same, and i would give those other guys a chance because they are obviously interested, you might get along with them and like them better than your ex.

4. If you barely talk to him anymore he probably doesn't want a relationship with you...find someone new who is interested.

Hope that helped....

[hybrid]

..... and how old are you again?
And his friend told him to break up with you? Maybe his friend likes you.

[MrTurtle]

aw i know exactly how you feel. its gonna hurt for now, but if all he wanted was sex, then give yourself time to get over him. time heals all wounds. it`ll get better, promise. you probably just still have feelings for him, but if you have to question if you loved him or not, then you probably dont.

[*hcosurfkid*]

The Question is.. Does he still like you? LoL.. If he does and if you are free, then ask the kid out!

[aznriceboi]

you broke up with him because your friend told you to? sometimes you have to think it though before you follow up on what your friends tell, not all the these they say is the best thing to do. my friend went out with this guy for awhile then they broke up, they went out again and broke up and this went on for a serval times. in my opinion i don't believe that once you break up, it'll be easy to get back together since the whole aspect of the trust and the things that associate with that is still there.

[eboarder2020]

Alot of people seem to know what your going through. I kinda am in the same situation as you as in i still like this girl but were not together kinda thing. Anyways you just gotta wait this out... Just be there for him if he needs it, and maybe call him every so often. Anyways take care and hope this helps

[Mick3Y]

Wait, his friend told him to break up with you and lhe listened! It looks like he likes his friend more then you...If you still like him, come and talk to him. Give it anther try.

- Tran -

[huney8o8]

i know exactly how u feel! i lyked my ex ever since we broke up...and i've rejected guyz before...cuz i still lyked him. and now we're going back out!! i think what u gotta do....is jus go talk 2 him! and u never know wat mite happen. find out how he feels....and if u want....tell him how u feel! well hope i helped!

[Saeglopur]

Hah that's a bit funny. Who broke up with who again?

[eternal_s]

since u said that i dont think u like him as much as u think u do...cus thats just stupid when u broke up with him cus his frd said so u follow wat i m sayin...