Whats wrong with you people? Options

[MeanBastard]

For those who need help with a relationship. Second, if you are not mature enough to solve problems in your own relationship, should you really be in one? Shows you cannot solve simple problems 99% of the time.

[sunissed14127]

well i come on here if i need to talk to some one about something and have no one else around me 2 talk to or i dont want to talk to anyone else around me about it. if u dont like the relationships section,then y do u even come in here and reply to ppls problems??

[MeanBastard]

then y do u even come in here and reply to ppls problems??

Must I answer that?

[sunissed14127]

it would help me understand y u come in here if u dont like it in here

[MeanBastard]

it would help me understand y u come in here if u dont like it in here

Human stupidity interests me.

[sunissed14127]

well im sure u have some of the same problems as someone here does.....so i guess ur calling urself stupid??? i bet u can relate to at least one person here

[*AngelicEyz00*]

haha...

dude, seriously though... sometimes people need to get stuff out of their chest, leave them be...

we have the relationships forum so people can ask for advice... don't scold them for it.... we all have our problems and this is a place for ppl to tell us about it and ask us for help or advice and whatnot

[MeanBastard]

Oh alright, first question answered. So, why do people venture into relationships they cannot handle?

[inthemudhole]

I somewhat agree.. but yet I kinda don't.
But a lot of the time.. some people can't think straight if the situation is bad enough.. so yeah.

Maybe they just want opinions.
I think it's leget.

[*tyedyefroggy*]

First off, the internet forums are there to chat with other people and hint the name "Relationships" as a forum. Second, it always helps to get a second (or in some cases a third) opinion about relationship situations.

If you have such a problem with this then why are you chatting in forums too? Your insecure comments dont help at all and maybe its best off if you dont reply at all.

[lurideyes]

Jesus, how can you bash the relationships section...by POSTING IN IT...do you expect peopel to agree with you or are you just trying to start stuff? and You don't have to act like "human stupidity" is limited to only those AROUND you. It's called HUMAN stupidity because all humans are plagued with it. So if you don't like something, I suggest next time you don't complain to the people who do, in their own forum no less.

They venture into relationships they can't handle because people are immature and can't think clearly, and they don't know their own limits. You said it yourself; human stupidity.

[*AngelicEyz00*]

Oh alright, first question answered. So, why do people venture into relationships they cannot handle?

because that, my friend, is because we are stupid

[MeanBastard]

First off, the <a href="http://www.ntsearch.com/search.php?q=internet&v=56">internet</a> forums are there to <a href="http://www.ntsearch.com/search.php?q=chat&v=56">chat</a> with other people and hint the name "Relationships" as a forum. Second, it always helps to get a second (or in some cases a third) opinion about relationship situations.

If you have such a problem with this then why are you chatting in forums too? Your insecure comments dont help at all and maybe its best off if you dont reply at all.

..What hte fudge?

[MeanBastard]

Jesus, how can you bash the relationships section...by POSTING IN IT...do you expect peopel to agree with you or are you just trying to start stuff? and You don't have to act like "human stupidity" is limited to only those AROUND you. It's called HUMAN stupidity because all humans are plagued with it. So if you don't like something, I suggest next time you don't complain to the people who do, in their own forum no less.

My enemy, this is not a debate. This is purely me asking questions which need answers. Suggestions are not appreciated.

[*AngelicEyz00*]

edit...

um, what was your question again?

[sunissed14127]

what's with all the tags??

i have no clue.......

[MeanBastard]

edit...

um, what was your question again?

Why do people venture into relationships they cannot handle? YOu answered, let someone else.

[*tyedyefroggy*]

whoa, i did not type those tags....that was crazy.....sorry bout that LoL

[sunissed14127]

Why do people venture into relationships they cannot handle? YOu answered, let someone else.

ppl can handle them....its just that ppl go thru twists and turns during the relationship...its normal for most couples to go thru dificult things...its what makes the relationship stronger in some cases

[mouse_3k]

i mostly come here to tell ppl my problems cause most of them listen...

but i kinda agree with you

[MeanBastard]

ppl can handle them....its just that ppl go thru twists and turns during the relationship...its normal for most couples to go thru dificult things...its what makes the relationship stronger in some cases

Well, from what I see the people asking for advice in these forums usually cannot handle it. They are on verges of tears. Thats not handling.

[lurideyes]

They can't handle it. that or the person they go out with can't and then once again, your "human stupidity" prevails in the fact that they should make better decisions in who they decide to get involved with. Keep in mind these are all silly middle skool relationships anyway. very few are serious.

[sunissed14127]

Well, from what I see the people asking for advice in these forums usually cannot handle it. They are on verges of tears. Thats not handling.

yeah,but they will most likely get thru it or get over it

[leeeza702]

I come here to give advice.. but I never come here to ask for advice.. I don't really like to ask for help when it comes to my relationship... because if I did.. I would never be able to solve me own problems... you should learn to solve your own problems... or something...

[MeanBastard]

They can't handle it. that or the person they go out with can't and then once again, your "human stupidity" prevails in the fact that they should make better decisions in who they decide to get involved with. Keep in mind these are all silly middle skool relationships anyway. very few are serious.

Then why the hell do stupid middle schoolers venture into relationships when they are so ignorant. Dumb..

[*AngelicEyz00*]

Then why the hell do stupid middle schoolers venture into relationships when they are so ignorant. Dumb..

Because they're "ignorant"

[lurideyes]

they are middle skoolers. Most of them are idiots and want to learn the hard way. They have to learn somehow. Middle skool is that in-between time where you are suddenly a teenager and you think you are hot sh*t so you have to go out and do all the "cool" things and talk and type in the "cool" way... by high skool they are finishing up their identity crisis. Around their junior year they shutup.

[sunissed14127]

Because they're "ignorant"

lol...im a middle skooler but i only go out with someone if i really like them....im picky i guess

[slurp]

everyone has problems if you dont wish to listen to them or give your advice then dont.

[MeanBastard]

everyone has problems if you dont wish to listen to them or give your advice then dont.

That doesnt even answer my question...

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

First of all i agree with th5418 , people who ask for advice for the smallest things that can be solved by a child shouldn't be in relationships in the first place.

hrm...Well..althought some threads are really dumb.... some people really do need advice... and this is the relationship forum... its the only appropriate place to post it =/

And yea....people are ignorant and dumb, what did u expect,and the people who post idiotic threads are like 12 lol..u cant really blame them...because they really are immature.

Oh, and middle schoolers venture into relationships they cant handle is because.... well #1 they are ignorant , #2 people have high expectations for relationshis , #3 haha they are just tryin to find someone fun to be with....

Yea like leeeza says i only post to give advice, i try to solve my own drama and problems and when i cant, i ask my friends who i know will give me great advice because they are experienced like moi but thats rare cuz i can solve em by myself.....

haha th548... i thought u were actually starting to give realistic advice in some of the threads haha, just got annoyed by how idiotic people are huh lol

[lurideyes]

once again, dreamguy hit it

[Spirited Away]

Why do people venture into relationships they cannot handle? YOu answered, let someone else.

Because what is the alternative of NOT being in a relationship?
Being ALONE.

Some people ENJOY being on the verge of tears if the cause of it is love. Of course I find that silly, but then again, I've never been in love.

[MeanBastard]

Because what is the alternative of NOT being in a relationship?
Being ALONE.

The alternative of not being in a relationship with an opposite member is being with friends. If not, then family..... I thought that was a given. But nevermind. You have given me a new meaning to ignorant.

[lurideyes]

th you are so right.... thats is to much of a BLACK and WHITE way of looking at things unin....

[MeanBastard]

th you are so right.... thats is to much of a BLACK and WHITE way of looking at things unin....

Tell me, how is that black and white?

[Spirited Away]

The alternative of not being in a relationship with an opposite member is being with friends. If not, then family..... I thought that was a given. But nevermind. You have given me a new meaning to ignorant.

HAHAHAAHAHHAHAHA, that made me laugh.

So, you're not going to marry or have a girlfriend/boyfriend for the rest of your life? More power to you.

By the way, GENIUS, it's call "a relationship" with friends and family, that means, you are IN a relationship with them...

Man, it seems you only know ONE perspective of "relationship"... that's kind of sad.

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

haha he seems to know a decent ammount of info on relationships, how is he not gonna have any relationships ;] ?

[MeanBastard]

HAHAHAAHAHHAHAHA, that made me laugh.

So, you're not going to marry or have a girlfriend/boyfriend for the rest of your life?  More power to you. 

What the hell? Relationship is one thing. Marriage is another.

By the way, GENIUS, it's call "a relationship" with friends and family, that means, you are IN a relationship with them...

Man, it seems you only know ONE perspective of "relationship"... that's kind of sad.

Maybe captian obvious hasen't come to your doorstep yet but I am talking about one with intimate partners.

[Spirited Away]

What the hell? Relationship is one thing. Marriage is another.

So you're saying that married couples do not have a relationship?


Pfft, now THAT'S ignorance.

Maybe captian obvious hasen't come to your doorstep yet but I am talking about one with intimate partners.

And what is wrong with complaining or needing help with your intimate partners? Are you saying that marriage counseling is a useless profession?

I see that "captian" oblivious is your best friend.

[MeanBastard]

So you're saying that married couples do not have a relationship?


Pfft, now THAT'S ignorance.

THey do, but what we are talking about is two different things. I'm not talking about marriage. Hell, we are even venturing off topic. On topic again.

[Spirited Away]

THey do, but what we are talking about is two different things. I'm not talking about marriage. Hell, we are even venturing off topic. On topic again.

How is it off topic, unless you DO NOT understand the meaning of relationship.

You're asking why people enter a relationship that they cannot handle. How stupid is that? How can ANYONE possibly know if they will be hurt? People get into a relationship to find someone who they can live with, so that means there is room for trial and error. Not every relationship works, and not every relationship doesn't work, but people WILL try to work out their problems, AND THAT'S THE WHOLE POINT.

[MeanBastard]

Because my current quesiton is

Then why the hell do stupid middle schoolers venture into relationships when they are so ignorant. Dumb..

[Spirited Away]

Because my current quesiton is


Then why the hell do stupid middle schoolers venture into relationships when they are so ignorant. Dumb..

And I answered that it's "trial and error" so that they will be wiser in later relationship.

Not all situations are the same, of course.

[MeanBastard]

Then what the hell was with this post.

QUOTE (th5418 @ Aug 29 2004, 5:31 PM)
Why do people venture into relationships they cannot handle? YOu answered, let someone else.

Because what is the alternative of NOT being in a relationship?
Being ALONE.

Some people ENJOY being on the verge of tears if the cause of it is love. Of course I find that silly, but then again, I've never been in love.

[Spirited Away]

Then what the hell was with this post.

Because if you do not have a relationship, you are alone, DUH? It may not be the case with YOU, but some kids tend to have a better relationship with their boyfriend/girlfriend/friend then with their family. You disregard the human condition, and that is the need to feel loved, not only from family but from peers. You may not need it, but that doesn't mean everyone else is the same as you.

[*CEP*]

Okay. Believe it or not. This has become a debate.
So.. Im moving it. kthnx.

- Moved to Interests>Debate -

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

[sporadic]

Why do people venture into relationships they cannot handle? YOu answered, let someone else.

Because it's the nature of humans to overlook flaws in themselves, including the inability to handle situations. That and ignorance.

[nas]

Most of them are insecure and believe they are in need of a significant other. A significant other provides a (supposedly) constant source of so-called "love," confidence, attention.. etc. that they believe friends nor family can provide. Other friends perhaps and the media contribute to the skewed aesthetic that relationships are a neccessity(at that age).

At a young age, hearts and minds alike wander. Feelings are quick to come and quick to fade, and due to such insecurities and (as posted before) ignorance, impulses are quick to jump at opportunity. << Therein lies the source of problems.

Don't mind the masses. Instead just sit back and laff.. and grab some popcorn if you must. Let them learn from their own mistakes.

[sikdragon]

they are middle skoolers. Most of them are idiots and want to learn the hard way. They have to learn somehow. Middle skool is that in-between time where you are suddenly a teenager and you think you are hot sh*t so you have to go out and do all the "cool" things and talk and type in the "cool" way... by high skool they are finishing up their identity crisis. Around their junior year they shutup.

I was hot sh*t in middle school, good times good times.

[ill_lil_girl]

Q: "Then why the hell do stupid middle schoolers venture into relationships when they are so ignorant. Dumb.."

A: Because there is only one REAL way to learn. The real way to lean what it is like to be in a relationship is to try it for yourself.

P.S. All of us have been middle schoolers. I don't think we were ALL ignorant.

[thesecretmodel]

Is this really a debate still or are we just throwing small flames at each other? Anyway, I personally believe kids in middle school shouldn't be dating - they've got no freakin' clue on how to handle that type of level with another person. Plus, it's just too young too fast.

And hey, don't h8 on my ignorance thx! We're all stupid at some point in time

[Looow]

gosh what's ur problem? you get on my nerves man

[*kryogenix*]

Then why the hell do stupid middle schoolers venture into relationships when they are so ignorant. Dumb..

AMEN. Man I remember kids getting into relationships in 4th grade. What's the point of dating? It's so two people can get to know one another and then get married. If you are with the same person you dated since 4th grade, good for you, but 9 times out of 10 you probably will break up. I hate how some people get into relationships just to show off, but they make everyone else's life hell when they break up and act suicidal.

[inthemudhole]

I totally agree with uninspiredfae and thradrien_blake.

[islandkiss]

I don't agree with you. some ppl just need to talk about their problems and they do need help at times. if you don't like it then don't respond to them.

[nas]

they make everyone else's life hell when they break up and act suicidal.

FCKING DRAMA QUEENS! For serious they need to shut the fck up. I don't listen to them anymore heh heh heh. It may sound cruel, but my friends don't come to me anymore for a talk when they break up and such. That's cause it's always the same story! And I warned them before.. dude you don't need this right now, or I think it's time to break up. But noO.

Of course that's not everyone though. There people I know that are mature enough and have a serious relationship, and respect to that.

[sunissed14127]

What the hell? Relationship is one thing. Marriage is another.

you have 2 have a relationshop b4 u get married

[MeanBastard]

you have 2 have a relationshop b4 u get married

But they are still two different things.

[Spirited Away]

But they are still two different things.

So a marriage is not a relationship to you? ... if not, then what on earth is it?

[inthemudhole]

Uhm.
How is marriage not a relationship..?

Any contact you have with a person is a relationship.
Even if they're acquaintances, that's still considered a relationship.

[*kryogenix*]

Q: "Then why the hell do stupid middle schoolers venture into relationships when they are so ignorant. Dumb.."

A: Because there is only one REAL way to learn. The real way to lean what it is like to be in a relationship is to try it for yourself.

P.S. All of us have been middle schoolers. I don't think we were ALL ignorant.

Hey, my friend wants to stick his hand in a blender, because he's curious and wants to know what will happen. I guess I should just let him, because that's the only way to learn. Awesome logic!

He's (or she, not sure) not mad at middle schoolers in general, he's mad at the ones who jump into relationships.

[Spirited Away]

He's (or she, not sure) not mad at middle schoolers in general, he's mad at the ones who jump into relationships.

I am as annoyed at that as he is, but adults jump into relationships, too, and adults can be all teary eyed and complain about their relationships as well, not just little kids.

I rather kids ask for advice than be ignorant of how to work out their problems, then be stressful and depressed about it... which could lead to more serious problems.

[F1R3B4T]

well obviously wen ppl begin a relationship, they dont realize how it can fly out of control. n yea most of the time its pretty damn obvious that it wont work out, they jus wanna push their luck

i completely agree with th5014, why do ppl post all that crap in the relationships forum about the simplest goddamn problems???
if u can't solve ur problem maybe its because:
1) its already gone beyond the control and u haf no hope of gettin bak
2) ur a complete dipstick

of course, some threads in the relationships forum is asking for tips or advice on stuff n i dont see how that could hurt

[Spirited Away]

i completely agree with th5014, why do ppl post all that crap in the relationships forum about the simplest goddamn problems???
if u can't solve ur problem maybe its because:
1) its already gone beyond the control and u haf no hope of gettin bak
2) ur a complete dipstick

So you seem to think that everyone on earth is emotionally stable, strong willed, and capable of handling their relationship problems?

Have you been in a relationship before?

1) Nothing's over until the fat lady sings. If everyone will just give up their love in a snap if the problem is too complicated then there would be more and more divorces and no one will work for love anymore. Why should you give up so easily on someone that could be "the one"?

2) Remember the proverbial "love is blind"?

[vivieeeen]

who's the fat lady? (just wondering)

i do agree with th5014. Simply because I believe that humans should only jump into a guy-girl relationship when they are ready. Mentally and physically.

like kryogenix said before, it's not morally correct to date when you're in 4th grade.

But that's not the real point is it. I believe what th5014's saying, is that people who are not ready to have a non-family relationship, should just simply NOT have one..

but i may be wrong

[Spirited Away]

Are you asking me to answer a proverbial statement?

Hmm, it's great that people are saying that one shouldn't jump into a relationship until they're ready... but who can tell you when exactly you are ready?

Pshh, at that rate, you'll wait for your whole life time, good luck people.

Love can be unexpected as winning the lottery. Are you going to wait to win the lottery by sitting on your ass all day or are you going to buy some tickets and wait for the results?