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 Aug 20 2004, 06:12 PM
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Posts: 143,865  Group: Member Posts: 146 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,685  |
I've been going out with my gf for 4 weeks now and I've fallen in love with her. But I never told her "I love you" yet. I'm just too scared to say it, what do I do?
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Aug 20 2004, 06:14 PM
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 Chinki Pinoy Group: Member Posts: 98 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,360 |
Do it with style
 if you cant say it, Give her a sign that you love her, Like... Give her a doll that says i love you when u squeez it (that was a sad story) or a note that says you love her... be creative  Anyways theres nothign to be scared... You know you only have one chance in life dont regret what u do!
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Aug 20 2004, 06:16 PM
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 michellee<33 Group: Member Posts: 72 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,302 |
do you love her? if you dont love her, then its okay if you're scared cause maybe you're not ready to step up in a relationship, which is normal. because although 4 weeks is long, its still short. its okay to be in love, and you should never be afraid to say it if that's what you feel. because if you dont say it and you do feel it, then she might just slip away thinking that you never felt in love.
follow your heart ‹3 |
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Aug 20 2004, 06:19 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Just say it.
She'll be pleased. Before you hang up on the phone, or as you're leaving after you've seen each other, just say "I love you.. *pause* bye." It's a wonderful thing to hear. She will love it. |
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Aug 20 2004, 06:36 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
wow loving someone within a month..
uhh just say it and kiss her? u can use the slow approach. say 143 *which is I love you but like in...number form* and slowly move on to I Love You |
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Aug 20 2004, 06:54 PM
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 wishing for SIMPLE LOVE with Jay Group: Member Posts: 708 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,601 |
I duno wut the relationship is like, but some girls may be freaked out when you say "I LOVE YOU" within a month..but she maybe pleased...just sit down with her..look deep into her eyes and just tell her how you really feel and tell her it's ok if she doesn't feel the same way yet..but make urself clear
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Aug 20 2004, 06:58 PM
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 original member. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,825 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,460 |
the secret is acting casual. When you talk to her online or somthing, and you have to go, just go like "Oh, I g2g. Love ya!"
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Aug 20 2004, 08:14 PM
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 advanced newbie... S2 Group: Member Posts: 3,504 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 752 |
^ YEA!! what Val said. Dont be like my X and be all like... all... i ono too serious about it! Especially for the first time! I mean, EWWW
 its kind of gross when guys are too serious about it like they go:"___, i love you...." *long pause* "yea, i love you too." *pause.* *silence* ^ you see, that just totally feels wrong.  so do it when you have to hang up or something  like yea...  and dont make such a fuss over it. You know you love her, right? Then dont be scared because you're going to make hre happy by saying it
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Aug 20 2004, 08:35 PM
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wow 4 weeks. thats wow.. juss tell her straight up how yoo feel. yoo never knoe if she feels tha same way..
deng..4 weeks?? lol. sorry..it took me about uhhmm. 3 months. |
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Aug 20 2004, 08:40 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,624 |
i agree with val and xjjajeengx (grace..?)
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Aug 20 2004, 09:05 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
Tell her when you're ready because if you tell her and you're not ready, it'll be like...ruined..or something. 4 weeks is sooon, but that's sweet. :-D
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Aug 20 2004, 09:15 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
do you really love her? then just tell her, she'll like it.
QUOTE Before you hang up on the phone, or as you're leaving after you've seen each other, just say "I love you.. *pause* bye." yeah, that's what my ex did. it was sweet. |
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Aug 20 2004, 09:45 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
jus say it. to motivate urself, then think to urself "if i love her then i'll say it" or something like that. thats what i did with my bf
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Aug 20 2004, 10:07 PM
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 Tina + Tommy Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,575 |
4 weeks and ur already in love?
you can say it and then kiss her or you can kiss her and then say i love you. |
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Aug 20 2004, 11:01 PM
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I suggest you just say it. It took my boyfriend and I a year to say it and it sucked not saying it. So, if you really do love her, just say it. Just be like, <insert girl's name here>, I love you.
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Aug 21 2004, 02:07 AM
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fOreVer YoURs Group: Member Posts: 92 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,341 |
if u really love her u should do it...but if u dont then dont say it...4 days after me n my ex hooked up ....he wrote i *heart* you (with his hand on my arm)..it was too early...n he didnt mean it..n i new...n it hurt...so if u really truly love her..tell her...she'll appreciate it
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Aug 21 2004, 04:54 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
4 weeks iono if u should say that haha....i probally would but then im a dork so here...
saying i love u can do two things,make her feel really special or make her feel scared... If i were u....its only 4 months....so how about just while ur holding her or hugging her say "baby your really special to me" and just kiss her or something..... it basically means the same thing but less ..... "gasp" in it.. |
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Aug 21 2004, 12:54 PM
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dont say i love you.
i am a girl. boys said i love you to me when i loved them. but than we broke up. and.. i thought we loved each other. but it wasn't love. never say i love you until you're engaged. tell her she's special, beautiful, amazing, anything but you love her. cus if this relationship ends. ure gonna wonder why u ever said it. and its gonna hurt more. |
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Aug 21 2004, 06:19 PM
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 StyroMan Group: Member Posts: 153 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,573 |
i c wut u mean. tell her she's the most special girl in your life and that you never ever want to lose her.
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Aug 21 2004, 07:44 PM
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Posts: 143,865 Group: Member Posts: 146 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,685 |
Hmmm...I think I'm just gonna say "You're very special to me..." as for now. OMG 4 weeks, you guys are right, it is too early to say it. Gosh im so stupid!
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Aug 21 2004, 08:36 PM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
Personally....i think you should wait it out..girls really get scared when you express your feelings to early...
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Aug 21 2004, 08:42 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Hm.
My boyfriend and I started with a simple "luv ya" in the emails. Then to "love yah" in the emails and phone and in person. Then to "I love you" in the emails and phone and in person. Every once in a while, we say something like "I love you so much" or "I love you more than anything." We started the "love yahs" about a month into the relationship. I liked it. Chances are, she'll like it. I kind of doubt she'll be creeped out about it.. but maybe she will. You just never know.. |
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