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 Aug 20 2004, 02:37 PM
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 O.o  Group: Member Posts: 50 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,419  |
do you think its inappropriate for a guy to reject a girl because they are "fat" or "overweight"
 i do.. PS: this didnt happen to me.. lol EDIT: oopz there was a typo there. so i changed it. sry ppl lol |
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Aug 20 2004, 02:43 PM
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 and they say imitation is flattering Group: Member Posts: 1,337 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,269 |
It's never okay to reject a person solely on their looks.
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Aug 20 2004, 02:43 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 37 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,148 |
i agree too many guy care to much of thier appearance. Even if sum are wierd or wacko sumtimes. But in reality it matters but most important is the PERSONALITY ALL THE WAY.
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Aug 20 2004, 02:52 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
Well, I think it's rude. It'll ruin the girl's self-esteem and make them feel less as good a person. If the guy rejects her because of her weight, then he's an ass.
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Aug 20 2004, 02:54 PM
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 something more Group: Member Posts: 2,468 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,808 |
i think its not right to do that. A guy that does that for me is a jerk.
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Aug 20 2004, 03:10 PM
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 Losers rule =D Group: Member Posts: 407 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,592 |
any guy that rejects a girl because of her looks is a jerk. end of story.
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Aug 20 2004, 03:12 PM
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 cheeky Group: Member Posts: 537 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,686 |
i agree with everyone, a guy rejecting a girl because of her looks is purely wrong. jerk, shallow, and selfish.
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Aug 20 2004, 03:16 PM
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QUOTE(xsweetdreams12x @ Aug 20 2004, 2:52 PM) Well, I think it's rude. It'll ruin the girl's self-esteem and make them feel less as good a person. If the guy rejects her because of her weight, then he's an ass. i def. AGREE! that is so tru i am somewhat over wieght and i have low-self-esteem b.c. of most guys ... they r rly rude and dont wanna get to know the girls personality ... its all bout the looks ... n that aint right |
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Aug 20 2004, 03:58 PM
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 Look its... Group: Official Member Posts: 5,817 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,767 |
QUOTE(Thradrien_Blake @ Aug 20 2004, 1:43 PM) It's never okay to reject a person solely on their looks. =) you said it. if you dont liek them cuz of body, then shame on you |
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Aug 20 2004, 04:23 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
i think its wrong to reject some1 jus cuz of their looks
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Aug 20 2004, 04:38 PM
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yeah thats definitely wrong. anything like that based only on looks, is bad. looks aren't the most important thing. its personality.
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Aug 20 2004, 04:56 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
yehh thats sooo shallow!!! please sometimes the hottest girls can be total losers! yet they dont know that...
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Aug 20 2004, 05:58 PM
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 Soft drinks are my high Group: Member Posts: 157 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,149 |
That is sooooo not nice. It makes a girl feel bad about herself. It should be about her personality & the way she treats people. NEVER about her looks.
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Aug 20 2004, 08:09 PM
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 B & B Group: Member Posts: 187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,204 |
Of course not. Those guys are shallow bastards. Uggh.
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Aug 20 2004, 08:16 PM
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 crushed. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,432 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,026 |
that is soo messed up for any guy do to that...EVER
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Aug 20 2004, 08:17 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,505 |
i think it's wrong.that person could be really great but u don't like them how they look. that's shallow.
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Aug 20 2004, 08:19 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
tht is really...cold..
i would kick the dude in the weiner if he didnt go out with me because i was *overweight* |
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Aug 20 2004, 09:18 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
that's not right. it's really shallow, judging someone purely on their looks. bleh- sometimes overweight girls have better personalities than really skinny girls.
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Aug 20 2004, 09:35 PM
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 I don`t need your attitude Group: Member Posts: 31 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,927 |
Hate it wen it happen cuz she could be the one but he wouldn't noe cuz he didn't to noe her cuz of the way she looks n its just wrong...
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Aug 20 2004, 09:51 PM
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 Tina + Tommy Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,575 |
that must means lots of guys are jerks. i think it is wrong and that its messed up.
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Aug 20 2004, 11:04 PM
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It wouldn't be 'wrong', just shallow.
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Aug 21 2004, 04:43 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 166 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,879 |
that sucks. people base so much on looks these days.
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Aug 21 2004, 04:57 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
honestly i dont really see "wrong" about it, i just find it kinda shallow.....
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Aug 21 2004, 05:43 AM
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 GREEENROCKS Group: Member Posts: 1,393 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,624 |
well it's their loss to reject someone who might be a little chubby or whatevers..but a great person. good for them. they don't deserve it.
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Aug 21 2004, 08:48 AM
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 dudeee! Group: Member Posts: 873 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,897 |
it is VERY inappropriate for guys to reject a girl just because of their physical appearance... it's whats inside that matters not the outside!!!!! apprently, guys are too stupid to understand that... grr..
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Aug 22 2004, 09:53 PM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
i dont think its rite because gurls come in all shapes and sizes and every guy cant have the barbie look so they should adjust
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Aug 22 2004, 10:01 PM
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that`s tru.. sometimes guys can be so shallow.. and all they care about is the girls apperance well mostly some of the guys no offense hehe =P ..
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Aug 22 2004, 11:22 PM
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its wrong, and its shallow, but there will always be guys like that.....
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Aug 22 2004, 11:58 PM
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you all said it!! lol shallow, it is.
dayumm.. if u dont like a girl, it shudnt be about the way she looks. how can that even get in the way, really? |
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Aug 22 2004, 11:59 PM
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 aint the world lovely? Group: Member Posts: 228 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,602 |
yup i think thats one of the lowest things a guy could do
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Sep 21 2004, 06:06 PM
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 stephanie .. Group: Member Posts: 1,965 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,529 |
yeah it is...it's better to judge people on their inner beauty
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Sep 21 2004, 06:14 PM
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 poochi Group: Member Posts: 71 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,935 |
Not only does it ruin a girl's self-esteem, it ruins her whole view of herself. That's why so many girls make themselves puke after they eat or don't eat at all these days. It's incredibly unhealthy, and so many people don't realize these effects. I know I used to get made fun of for being fat or chubby, but now I've lost weight and been healthier. I'm not stick thin, but I know I look and feel healthy but sometimes I do feel like I'm still fat. It's because of that past of being made fun of and rejected because of my size.
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Sep 21 2004, 08:36 PM
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 it's our chemistry Group: Member Posts: 1,151 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,775 |
It's wrong and all, yes. It's also cruel and shallow...
But girls can be just as mean- sometimes meaner. |
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Sep 21 2004, 10:04 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
its wrong. its wuts inside that matters
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Oct 21 2004, 05:07 PM
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 DDR bunny! Group: Member Posts: 222 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,620 |
QUOTE(sheepy @ Sep 21 2004, 10:04 PM) its wrong. its wuts inside that matters i agree...inside matter the most |
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Oct 21 2004, 05:10 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 382 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,179 |
yeah it is very inapproiate for us guys to reject a girl cause of overweight or anything even looks to me looks are just a bonus im really looking for a personality and (P.S My weiner is very sensitive please don't kick me in da weiner )
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Oct 21 2004, 05:12 PM
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 vertically challenged Group: Member Posts: 181 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,342 |
It IS wrong to base a relationship on the physical appearances. It brings down a girl's self confidence especially right after she worked up the confidence TO ask them out in the first place.
However.. if the girl never actually talk to the guy or got to know the guy first before asking him out, then isn't she being quite shallow too? I mean, she's liking the guy based on looks and what she SEES is his personality, when she's never actually got to know that personality herself. There's two ways to look at everything I guess and Im one of those annoying people who just like to point them out.. |
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Oct 21 2004, 06:40 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
i think it is wrong but who knows they're guys
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Oct 21 2004, 06:41 PM
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 Lauren loves YOU. Group: Member Posts: 2,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,793 |
of course it's wrong. not just for guys but for girls, too. let's face it, we all do it. most relationships are started with a PHYSICAL attraction, which is just as important as an emotional connection in the beginning.
we're all guilty. don't blame it on the guys. |
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Oct 21 2004, 06:45 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 734 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,507 |
Well, yes I think it's very inappropriate! I mean, looks isn't everything and the guy might make the girl becoming anerexic and stuff. It's really wrong when that kind of stuff happens. Sometimes, the people that are not as pretty as others have the most beautiful personality. And some of the prettiest people have the ugliest personality.
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Oct 21 2004, 06:50 PM
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 .::sweet on you::. Group: Member Posts: 509 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,753 |
shallow ...but okay....damn I'm mean
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Oct 21 2004, 07:13 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
I hate that. When boys think you're overweight and they just don't like you, despite that you just mite be a perfect inner person. If they don't like you because of your physical appearence, he's so not worth it. A guy should like you for who you are, not what you are.
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Nov 11 2004, 01:16 PM
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Mad Rooney Group: Member Posts: 365 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,418 |
well not exactly inappropriate... y'know... everyone has perferences
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Nov 11 2004, 07:40 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
i think that's wrong. whoever does that are bastards.
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Nov 12 2004, 07:13 PM
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 I do it so good, I don't need nobody else! Group: Member Posts: 644 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,752 |
i hate it when taht happens, it shouldnt be about looks..
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