perve problem...., help! Options

[sunissed14127]

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[lazy_little_one]

avoid him i dunno, but u should tell ur parents or sumeone

[bebebasa89]

do yu like him? i mean yu cant lead him on and say nothing..if yu dont like what hes doing tell him flat out. . .you wont look like a bitch. . yur jsut standing up for yurself. . and watch out if he tries to do more stuff to yu. . yu gotta tell someone or it might lead to something worse

[laylooo]

tell him to eff off!

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

tell his mom lol

[lazy_little_one]

ya tell his mom

[sunissed14127]

do yu like him? i mean yu cant lead him on and say nothing..if yu dont like what hes doing tell him flat out. . .you wont look like a bitch. . yur jsut standing up for yurself. . and watch out if he tries to do more stuff to yu. . yu gotta tell someone or it might lead to something worse

i dont like him....i tell him 2 stop all the time n he just keeps on doing it...and i ask his big bro to make him stop be he doesnt do **** about it

[lazy_little_one]

tell his mom, i mean, if he is doing that sort of stuff, it is almost like harassment? dont u think?

[Just AJ]

hey, your 12, right? I know this is wrong, since I know what it's like, but...
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.........just kick him. I think you know where . You can't get in trouble for it, you're 12, not a 20-year old kicking a baby in the b@ll$, so just do it, very unlikely that he'll try it again. And if he still wants you, he's a freak. lol

[lazy_little_one]

haha seriously

[vehvih]

if he does likes you, then where is the respect? you have talked to him about this issue lately haven't you?

[expoised]

hey, your 12, right? I know this is wrong, since I know what it's like, but...
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.........just kick him. I think you know where . You can't get in trouble for it, you're 12, not a 20-year old kicking a baby in the b@ll$, so just do it, very unlikely that he'll try it again. And if he still wants you, he's a freak. lol

i think she asked for advice that would make her seem NOT bitchy.. but i think that would solve the problem =]

but hey, if you want someone to piss off, there might be no choice but to act like a bitch. because whatever you do to finally get him to stop, he'll think you're a jackass for doing it. even if you tell his mother.

[lazy_little_one]

^^yea imean, if u dont like him, then whats wrong with being a bitch, just tell him to eff off [unless u like him] then thats a different story.

[aznbabiicutie]

i agree with the kicking and if he still continues..haha..buy pepperspray...hahaha..lols..anyways..hopefully he will stop because its consider sexual harrarsment (i think i spelled it wrong) if he says/does anything to you that you feel uncomfortable with..stupid perves

[Fashionista225]

Yea..you need to make it completely clear that you don't like it. If he continues....hit him. Preferably hard......in the face. lol

[tootsie_kiddo]

o GOD i hate guyz lyk dat!!! i kno ppl lyk dat... and i jsut go, "UR SUCH A FRIGGIN PERV GET AWAAAAAAAAYYY!!!!" infront of his and my friendz
and i tell all of my friendz wat he tries to do to me... and we all avoid him haha

[imm]

melissa,Aug 13 2004, 11:38 AM] i think she asked for advice that would make her seem NOT bitchy.. but i think that would solve the problem =]

but hey, if you want someone to piss off, there might be no choice but to act like a bitch. because whatever you do to finally get him to stop, he'll think you're a jackass for doing it. even if you tell his mother.

Yeah. Always works.

[*tyedyefroggy*]

try to stay away from him and tell someone before it continues....

[inthemudhole]

Eek.
I'd be creeped out. ^_^
Tell his mom, haha, or your mom.. or better yet.. both.

[xx angelbabu xx]

SLAP HIM! PUNCH HIM! KICK HIM! do whatever you can to hurt him!! hahaha...

..or tell your mom...

[mouse_3k]

dude, tell ur mom. she will obviously tell his mom and he will get a major spanking.

either tht or kick this small little weiner. make him cry and laugh.

[xsweetdreams12x]

Tell him to eff off. Then ignore him.

Yep, there's a guy at my school who used to like me. He poked like every girl in the stomach. He tried to do it to me, so I bitched on him.

[mouse_3k]

yah lots of guys use to grab my butt and boobs... it stopped after going out wit my current bf for like a month or two. u know wht i did to make them stop? i kicked their freakin weiner

im so mean..but it isnt for those pervs! its for my bf..lol

[mai_z]

slap him, then tell his mommy

[laur3nw]

tell an adult and try to stay away from him as much as you can

[slurp]

kick, punch, pinch his doink till he stops, you should really do something about it before he continutes and gets used to it

[ichiban]

hahah... just kick him... stick him in a garbage can. tell his mommyyy

[juliar]

Tell a parent. That's sexual harrassment, and he's a dickhead for doing that.

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

haha tell him if he touches u again ur gonna go grab a pair of scissors and cut his balls off

[Eternally_Yours]

that used to happen to me. just tell him off. if it doesnt work. kick em where it hurts!

[LiLaZnGirL122]

ooOo B**tch SLAP HIMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMm u go Gurl!!! HAha after u go do that c if he does it again if he does do it again =p den tell his bro to beat him up or sumthing or tell him mom!!

[*x____duckii*]

You should go tell someone. Fast. That's sexual harrasment. If they don't listen to you, just try to beat him up until he understands. Seriously. He can't treat you like that no matter what.

[lilxroxy]

i dont like him....i tell him 2 stop all the time n he just keeps on doing it...and i ask his big bro to make him stop be he doesnt do **** about it

warn him again, if he doesn't stop, slap him

i mean, talking abt respect, if he doesn't respect you that doesn`t mean he likes you. from what i`m hearing, it`s as if if another girl comes up, he would do the same thing... i think he`s jes...how do you say it?! too horny

[x emo screamo x]

Yeah. Kick him where it hurts . I know perverted guys, but they're not that perverted. I'd be a little weirded out if someone did that to me . I would've kicked him when he first did it. You'll end up sounding bitchy to him, but that's how he's gonna take it either way. I say tell someone!

[kbgirly]

tell his mommyyyy : ]
and avoid him or wear more clothes when you're around him

[sunissed14127]

tell his mommyyyy : ]
and avoid him or wear more clothes when you're around him

i wear enuff clothes already lol....grr hes anoyin...

[dragyn]

I see nothing wrong with seeming like a bitch if someone is treating you that way.

the suggestions to tell his mother are pretty good ones, and if he still doesn't stop, hurt him.

kicking works, so does punching, and for minimal work, pepperspray is lovely.

[sunissed14127]

im gonna try kicking him in the balls next time he says somethin or tries to do somethin =]

[cutielilsuga]

tell your parents fo sure
then if not call the cops cuz i would

[mizz_mithy]

if it were me i'd kick his a$$. but seriously tell his and ur parents. or u could handle by urself by yellin in his face what a perv he is and how u have no interest in him.

[shawty_redd]

i'd tell my mommy and daddy

[captivatedheart]

smack him!!! kidding, you should take everyone else's advice and tell your parents or someone.

[elmogurly]

send your dad to his house and let the fight begin!!

[MeanBastard]

Tell your lawyer and sue him for sexual harrassment.

[xjjajeengx]

HAHAHA. beat him up. make him regret ever messing with you

[hmmm]

odd.. these two guys just moved into my neighborhood also. but then I don't talk to my neighbors much, so yeah. anyways, these people give good advice. you shouldn't stand there and let him do that to you, and his brother is a punk for letting that happen. if I were his brother I would kick that little loser in the back of the head. goodness... and yes, kicking him in the "area" would certainly work. I've gotten hit there, and it's not very pleasant..

[*RiC3xBoy*]

slap him, then kick his nuts, ur just defending urself cause hes harassing u

[Mini]

tell an adult, especially your parents or his parents. i know this 7 year old kid that is a perv, he touches EVERYONE in their cough cough private spot. even though we try to tell his parents, he still does it. JUST STAY AWAY from him or even call the police if that is your last resort to teach him a lesson.

[Mini]

okay first. tell your parents, then his parents, and try to stay away from him as much as possible. if it is your last resort, call the police and teach him a lesson. i know this 7 year old perv that touches everyone in their private areas, even though my friends and i told his parents, he still does it. HIS BIG brother doesnt even do anything about it EITHER, so just call the police.

[isLand-kiSS]

ekk, that happened to me be4, just fuking punch him in the face, or embarass him in public, lol, i tried that be4 embarassing that perv in public, it was hilarious! he just ran off and alwayz avoided me...but i forgave him and became mah best friend ...uh...yea

[angel-roh]

lols that sounds familiar hahaha anyways tell him that ur uncomfortable with it and that u're not ready...it's simple heh

[xoxspanky569]

if he is not stopping after you nicely asked him to stop, and if you don't feel comfortable telling and adult or something, show him who is boss...knee him in the nuts...hard...and it doesn't matter WHAT age you are...if something is making you uncomfortable, you need to make it stop.

[inlonelinessidie]

He's 12 so tell his mom. And if that doesn't work knee him. It's better to be bitchy than to get sexually harassed all the time.

[ViL]

if all thing fails, call 911 ! thats a harassment you kno

[pinkrocsmysocs]

if i were u i kick him in his balls

[lilJdawg]

hrms. try to avoid him but if that doesn`t work then kick him that way he will learn his lesson. if that doesn`t work, maybe tell an adult or a friend.

[1--GIRL]

TELL ON HIM!

[Mireh]

tell your parents. Your dad will wup his ass. Garenteed.

[jodan382]

...i'd slap the hell out of him.. but if you don't wanna do that, i dunno.. most of my suggestions include violence..

[AUTHENTIC x ME]

TELL HIM TO BACK OFF.

[sheddingtears]

Yeah. I wouldn't care if I was a female dog or not if some guy wanted to "touch" me. If you don't wanna be a B then ask him nicely to not do that, and if he takes it all as a joke, then really, tell him to F*CK off or you can call the cops or tell your 'rents. lol. OH, you can also say you have a reeaaaally strong bf. =]

[l_baybeexgrl_l]

throw a female dog fit... start cussing and saying mean things to him... then punch him

[LatinaLady]

just tell him to F*ck off. if someone started to touch me and i didnt like it i would punch them for real.

[yeseulx3]

i have two words for you.


... pepper spray.

[p1nK_p0p]

you could probaLY SUE HIM.
DID YOU know thats its illegal
for a dude to snap a girls bra?
yup.
wow, i could have put SOOOO many
dudes in jail...lol...
well, some advise:
be carefull, this could lead to other things...like rape.

[zaboomafu]

i have a list for you:

1) slap him HARD across the face
2) knee him in the crotch
3) tell your parents or another trusted adult about the situation
4) tell his parents


sexual harrassment is NOT EVER ok. don't try to be nice. look like a female dog if you have to, but get him to stop. this situation may seem small now but it could eventually evolve into worse sexual harrassment or rape. stop it now.

[zaboomafu]

um...who changed the word 'b-i-t-c-h' in my post to 'female dog'? i mean, that's what a b-i-t-c-h is after all, but i didn't write that.

[Just_Dream]

tell an adult. who cares if he gets in trouble cause hnestly, he shouldn't be doing all of that., And considering since u and him are ONLY 12 right now. He is a very naughty boy lolol

[sporadic]

Just be a btch. He's a pervert, you have every right to tell him to fck off.

[ikayto]

Just be a btch. He's a pervert, you have every right to tell him to fck off.

abso-fu**ing-lotely ;p

[gigiopolis]

Kick his nuts, slap his face, punch his probably VERY flabby stomach, scratch his eyes out; just give him the message: EFF OFF!

[Hyperish_Devil]

gang up on him with ALL of your friends and... well... hurt him =D OR Corner him, slap him and say, "FEELER!!" and tell on him.

[edie_escape]

so, how did this all work out? i'd feel weird telling parents. i'm having similar.

[emazing]

Wow, what a pervert.
Just tell him to back off and threaten to snitch - either tell an adult if he continues doing that, or your parents.
You could also talk to a friend that can help you through, or tell him off.
Good luck!

[ParanoidAndroid]

ok, well im 12 & there is a new guy in my neigborhood (same age as me) who moved in with his brother. well ever since he first got here he has liked me. but latley he has been soo freakin perverted its not even funni.he has been trying to touch my boobs/butt. he has touched my boobs twice, and he's always telling me he wants to get in my pants. how are some ways to get him to stop w/ being a bitch?

Why not be a bitch? If i were you I'd rather stab myself to death than be nice to him about what I want

.... or maybe you like him?

[KissMe2408]

I would advise you to stay away from that kid, and probably tell your parents or his. Eh, you don't wanna be around a guy like that!

I think this should go in relationships

-moved to relationships-

[MeLoNiSyUmMy]

ok, well im 12 & there is a new guy in my neigborhood (same age as me) who moved in with his brother. well ever since he first got here he has liked me. but latley he has been soo freakin perverted its not even funni.he has been trying to touch my boobs/butt. he has touched my boobs twice, and he's always telling me he wants to get in my pants. how are some ways to get him to stop w/ being a bitch?

tell your parents and ask if you can get a restricted thingie against him. taht way, he has to stay a certain amount of feet away from you or else he gets arrested.
i had this one guy watch me undress. that was pretty gross.

[angelrevelation]

slap him. then tell his parents

[blogdeleted]

i agree. slap him hard in the face and then tell his mom...
if it gets too bad, call the cops...

[starburst-addict]

stay away from him, and yeah..tell his mom...tell him off...kick him...who cares if you're being a bitch...hahah.

[AngryBaby]

tell his damn momma, hes just going through puberty i guess and doesnt know how to cope lol

[ParanoidAndroid]

tell his damn momma, hes just going through puberty i guess and doesnt know how to cope lol

haha long live the king

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

Maybe hes going through his puberty stage where all his hormones get mexed up. I guess you could ignore him for a while.

[anniepiee]

be a bitch. slap him. sack him. do whatever to get him away from you.

[islandkiss]

wow... 12 years old, eh? well, get things straight with him. he probably continues to touch/harrass you because he knows you're not doing anything about it. let a friend accompany you if you feel uncomfortable, which is normal. After you two talk everything over and if he continues this unreasonable behavior, tell a parent. I hope things go well

edit.

I just realized that this topic was made Last year. now I feel like i've wasted my time posting here ><

[itsnever4ever]

You are only 12 that stuff shouldn't be happening teach him a lesson slap him kick him where it hurts or tell him off you gotta let him know that he can't just be disrespecting you like that

[miss-_-guitar]

i think u should beat the shit outa him. next time he says he wants to get in ur pants kick him in the balls. that will make him leave u alone.

[o0olaalaa]

ew. what a weirdo.
i say KICK HIM WHERE IT HURTS!!!

[sdfg148]

sexual harrasment is a big prob nowadays, warn him that if he doesnt stop, that ull report his ass! Well, if he doesnt take it seriously, then seriously report his ass. =)

[sebulbaslovechil...]

Sorry. He's my apprentice.

[Tribal J_Rome]

you should punch his lights out

[x3Death.By.Knife...]

avoid him    i dunno, but u should tell ur parents or sumeone

ER, whatever you do.. DON'T tell your parents. When parents get into conersations, or situations, they go balistic at something that isn't too big of a deal I had a problem like this, too. I started avoiding him.. alot. And make sure when you are around him.. you are with either someone from his family, someone from your family, or one of your friends. ANYONE will help.. Cause usually guys don't say this crap around their family, unless their brothers put them up to it. and if he starts to talk about perverted things.. ignore him, make sneer remarks, always snap back, or just act quite like your depressed about some boy you like.

Would this help? It worked for me, Good Luck

[mzbbc]

embarress him in front of his friends. when he does something to you just slap his hand away and be like "DAMN GET OFF ME a-hole." and then walk away. he'll probably be too embarassed to try anything again.

if that doesn't work then tell all your friends and EVERYONE you know about him, saying things like "oh my gosh. stay away from him. he is probably a future rapist/molestor." and he will probably stop bothering you.

[aznbaby405]

slap him =]

[lit0chinagirl]

damn guys! *shakes fist in the air*
ignore him, tell him to respect your body. anything works

[EyeOfTheTiger5]

If he's 12, tell his mom =D

And also glare at him and avoid him.

[lilxroxy]

hahahahahaha he's 12 and his hormones gone whack.

anyways, i agree, tell his mom. : ) and in the mean time, avoid him. hopefully he'll get the point OR ask you why your'e avoiding him..

then you can say "you're making me uncomfortable"

[BOLIN_Vee]

kick him were it hurts

[FoxBandCutie08]

I would pull him aside.... just tell him it makes you feel uncomfortable or something, and that if he keeps doing it he will get in trouble, and tell an authority figure. You can't help but be kind of mean in this case, but just try to make him understand that girls don't like that.

[HolyMoly]

This is what I would do, pretend to be interested in him, and then when he tries to grab you or something, kick him in the place it hurts most. Then run off and tell your parents and then your parents will tell his parents and it will be like a soap opera!