Do Your Parents Know?, Do they know and/or care that you have a boyfriend? Options

[Winter]

Do you guys ever tell your parents about your BFs?

Well my dad doesn't care about these stuff so he's cool. But my mom's a little nosy... She knows everything that happens in my school... That means she hears every lil rumour about me and some other guy...

Well I never tell my mom that I have a BF but she'll figure it out. Like I start talking about some guy 24/7. I don't like her knowing coz she has high standards for my BFs. Once she suspects that I'm with a guy, she asks like a gazillion questions about that guy...

But so far all my BFs has passed the test lol. My mom loved my very first BF coz he's come and fetch me whenever we go out to parties. Plus he was smart. He and I were always fighting to get to the top of the class. If I wasn't no.1, then he was and if he wasn't, I was.

My mom adored my last BF. She still does. She thought he had a really great smile. And since he was in the honours class, she liked him even more. My mom and I would talk about him for ages. From his smile right up to how his biological mom abandoned him.

Anyway, so no, I don't tell my parents. But they have ways to find out lol...

[XxKrNqTcUiTyxX]

Well, I don't really tell my parents Actually I dont really tell htem anything, kinda sad I know. But my mom told me once I can date anyone asian.... ehh, not kewl

[Winter]

Well, I don't really tell my parents Actually I dont really tell htem anything, kinda sad I know. But my mom told me once I can date anyone asian.... ehh, not kewl

Lol come to think of it, I pretty much don't tell them anything either!

Anyone Asian eh? My mom wants me to marry an American. - -;; She wants grandkids with blue eyes... But I wanna marry a Korean lol...

[psychoticangel]

I've had a couple of bfs now... and mai parents never knew. *shrugs* dont feel like they'd agree. and dont wanna make them all mad and stuff. so yah.

[*krnxswat*]

Of course I tell my parents about my boyfriends. I even like to bring them for dinner sometimes

[Winter]

Of course I tell my parents about my boyfriends. I even like to bring them for dinner sometimes

Lol good for you dude.

[dromero986]

ive only ever had one, and yes they do know.
but i didnt tell them until after a month....
we started going out in january, and i told my rent on valentines day. haha....because he gave me a rose at school, and i when i got home my mom saw it. so i told her, but i didnt say how long wed been going out. heh.
but theyre cool with him, like him.

[lilb]

I dont like to talk to my parents about it because they always make fun of me for some reason, but they usually kno, with a few exceptions.

[emptyminded]

nope only because i don't really have lasting relationship but she always wants to be nosey about who i think is hot.... why erdunno... but yea she wants me to marry Lao. I don't know about that now...

[LiNHy POO]

yehh i always tell them!! they're usually always cool with it... yehh and they kinda have a short memory.. and sumtimes they forget i do..

[*tweeak*]

i dont have 1...but they know a lot about the guy i like even tho they dont know i like him

[brokenskys]

nope. theyve never known. im good at hiding it my mom almost found out with my last boyfriend... but i hid it for an entire 6 months. and she doesnt know about this one... hopefully she doesnt find out until i feel like telling her...

[vehvih]

even if i do not have a boyfriend.. my mother does not want me to have one not until college

i am a filipina that is why.. but she was raised by my grandmomma.. who is fine with her sons and daughters to have girlfriends and boyfriends anytime

i'm just thirteen; and some day i'm going to kill my mama

[islandkiss]

my parents want me to have a boyfriend when I'm in college. I think not.

[SilverInandescen...]

I didn't tell my mom about my first bf but she found out anyways. I still don't know how. She seemed really mad at first cuz i didn't tell her but then she started asking a zillion questions

[dromero986]

even if i do not have a boyfriend.. my mother does not want me to have one not until college

i am a filipina that is why.. but she was raised by my grandmomma.. who is fine with her sons and daughters to have girlfriends and boyfriends anytime

i'm just thirteen; and some day i'm going to kill my mama

hey, ima filipina too and my rents are totally ok with me having a b/f. then again i am 17 and youre only 13.

[o0h*s0o//d0rKaBl...]

my mom..not my dad i`m too scared to tell him..

[x AZN D0RKii x]

I've had a couple of bfs now... and mai parents never knew. *shrugs* dont feel like they'd agree. and dont wanna make them all mad and stuff. so yah.

yeahs, that`s how i feel too ..

[conster]

they know lols they're ok with it by now cuz ive 'trained' them to be cool wit it lol

[Akiko_Minagawa]

i date the sort of guys that want to meet my parents so yes they do

[177emories]

i don't tell my mom but she'll figure out... when they drive me home and stuff she'll she the car outside anyways when i get home... but yeah i don't go telling he ri have a bf... but if she askes me anything about him i would tell him..

[Unspoken Sorrow]

..nope..i kant have any boyfren until "18 yrs old"..strict parents..but i had 2..en g0in out with the 3rd..

[tinababy143]

they always told me that i couldnt date until i was 16..my first boyyfriend was in 5th grade and i was 10 LoL..we went out the whole year..they never knew about any of my past boyyfriends except for one..it was when i was 13..we went out for 2 and a half years and my parents approved..sooo yeah..they know about my current boyyfriend too..they think hes onliee the 2nd tho haha

[mai_z]

nah, my parents never know

[espressive]

No....but sometimes, I just have this urge to tell people things cause I'm just like that, so then she knows. And gives me these lectures, but she knows I don't pay attention to them anyways, lol

[silver-rain]

i've only had one boyfriend, and my parents didn't really know. i think my mom had some idea because i would talk about him constantly and whatnot, but she surprisingly didn't say anything. and she somehow picked up on when we broke up because she was like, "oh you don't need him..." but i've never told them anything... besides, my parents would prefer that i marry another chinese guy

[dani41790]

yea mai parents noe about mai bf. im startin to think that i shouldnt of told em cuz mai dad makes fun of me about it n he tells all hys frenz, n mai mom starts askin me a billion questions about him. mai god they annoy me. mai mom is at the point where she wants to meet him but lately shes been getting me angry so im kinda getting back at her by not letting her meet him, i mean im not afraid to introduce him, im jus tryin to get her pissed cuz she gets me pissed all da time

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

of course. i get along with my parents very well and i tell them plenty of things about my life. i never go into the personal details of course but they certainly know a lot about me.

[mznina]

my mom knows and my dad knows, my mom is very close to my bf. but not my dad thats just becuz my parents r divorced so they havent had that bonding experience yet..

[diz_babe_pnai]

hee hee, NO! i'd probably be dead. if you're a filipina, you should know. the teasing, the lectures, and all that(well atleast i get that type of stuff)
my first boifriend(which i'm still dating ), my parents don't know about him, and i've been dating him for about 5 or 6 months already. my rents say that i can't have a boifriend till i'm like 25 ........HA YEA RITE! NEVER!!!!!! but then my mom said that i could have a boifriend, as long as she met him, but i think my mom was juss being nice cuz we were in front of my mom's co-workers...

[angel-roh]

i tell everything to them they dont care well they give me stupid lectures that i already know

they ask me... stuff like

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be careful. he might rape u blah blah blah.. dont ever have sex with him blah blah
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gosh parents sometimes dont understand their daughters!! lols

[justdream08]

aHem...my boyfriends... well call me. when they call at a time my mom is at home...uMmm...you get the point

[islandkiss]

i tell everything to them they dont care well they give me stupid lectures that i already know

they ask me... stuff like

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be careful. he might rape u blah blah blah.. dont ever have sex with him blah blah
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gosh parents sometimes dont understand their daughters!! lols

omg.. yess!!.. they'd never understand.

[eggscezz]

even if i do not have a boyfriend.. my mother does not want me to have one not until college

i am a filipina that is why.. but she was raised by my grandmomma.. who is fine with her sons and daughters to have girlfriends and boyfriends anytime

i'm just thirteen; and some day i'm going to kill my mama

youre 13?? are you in the US?

my family knows about my bf but they dont like the fact that im in a relationship right now. everybody knows but they are always telling me that i am too young for this blah blah blah..

[xquizit]

My parents know about my boyfriend. He comes over all the time and they all get along with each other. *wedding bells*

[lnkinparkgirl384]

my parents know, but his dont cuz they hate me

but my parents love him...and so do i

[x_swtangel]

I don't tell my parents anymore becuz i'm only 13...!!! they'll start lecturing me and asking gazillion questions...when i told her about my last bf she grounded me and didn't let me go out wit my friends anymore..

[wonderful]

hmm...i dont really tell me parents anything about my boyfriends. well one. ive only had one. i know im sad but still. BUT i do admire people who are open to their parents. i think its awesome you can have such an open relationship with them and thats something you can c h e r i s h .

[party_pnai_pride]

my parentz have no idea... if they did, they would kill him then mee ahh! . blah ha ha . my mom would be hella[I] pissed if she knew but if my dad found out... xinfinity...ugh. reasons my mom + dad [mostly my mom] wouldnt approve of my current boyfriend...

1. stole a laptop...blah no comment on that
2. [mom]thinks he has a broken family...uh....
3. he a bad boy
4. [mom]thinkz hez a bad person
5. his cousin's mom lied about payin 2 my mommie n tha principal[a nun]
6. thinkz the bad traitz run in the family...

i need a better boyfriend....shh....

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[LatinaLady]

i think they do. they dont want me to have them but i still do. no one is stopping me

[iheartsimba]

no way

my mother pry's through everything i do all of the time its so fricking gay im not gonna tell her nething.
pssh maybe if she let me do a little more things maybe id tell her a few more things. shes to fricking over protective

and if my family did find out my sister and brothers wouldn't shutup teasing me. my parents would to.

i won't tell them anything

also exentrually they find out on there own when a guy calls me a lot or stuff but normally to go out and hang out wit them i lie to my parents and say im going with firends =D

[inthemudhole]

Eh, I'm on boyfriend #1.. mom sort of knows, dad is clueless.. They don't know how serious it is.. I mean, we haven't KISSED yet.. just it's more serious than they think.. So, no I do not tell them much of anything anymore. *shrugs*

[shortee_]

Well I don't because my parents don't want me dating and stuff..if my dad found out he wouldn't care and probably kick me out of hte house,I rememver the first time I had a boyfriend my mom kept asking questiosn adn my brother kept telling them all these stuff he learned from his sis,ne ways the good thing was that his sis was friends with my bro so I can get back at him.....I remembered that my mom yelled at me for having a bf..and she said mgiht as well drop school...cuz she was mad at me for not doing my homework..and always go out..

[whomps]

No I don't..

But once my brother.. got REALLY REALLY pissed off and then he told my mom about my ex.. T_T but then she didn't believe him because he lies all the time

[heyshutup562]

ya im asian wellz i noe abouta khmer parents..we young asians cant have a bf yet cuz our parents think we're too young but sumtimes we have bf and dont tell our parents..

[simplysweet259]

no. im too scared to tell my parents. one time, my mom caught me with my bf and got really pissed and tried to force me to never see him again.

[ichiban]

Well .. I'm 12 .. my mom thinks a BF will interfere with my .. studies .. so yeah i can get a bf in COLLEGE .. haha .. well i dont listen to that rule :] so of course i never tell my parentz

[COLDasICE]

UHhmm.. No, they don't.. Although I can tell them anything, I can't tell them I have a boyfriend because I'm not allowed to have one.. I've only had 2 including the one I have right now... So i guess it's cool..

[Ladii_D1809]

I'd never tell my dad but I told my mom about my b/f now and all she did was make jokes and sing that K.I.S.S.I.N.G song over and over! And then demanded that I'd call him right then so she could talk to his mom!! (It was 10 o' clock at night) But everythings cool un till my dad finds out he doesn't want me to date till I'm like 55 and then we have to date with other people!!

[DittotoAnne18]

naw, i dont feel like telling them - i dont really know if they would care or not, but they would probaly wanna meet them or watever so i just dont tell them

[SarahxJoy]

I don't really tell my parents about my boyfriends. They always find out anyway. My dad doesn't really like it, but my mom is alright and thinks it's part of growing up to have a boyfriend. Eh. So yeah. Sometimes it sucks when they know though. Because then they ask a lot of questions about him.

[miss_isabelle]

yes.. and they like him a lot!

[kirbymuixo]

I never tell my parents about my love life, and I have never mentioned to them about any crushes or boyfriends I've had in the past. But they usually find out anyway...somehow...as parents always do...

[angieee]

i tell my parents.. just because i know i'd get into a lot more trouble if they found out later.

[SarahxJoy]

yes.. and they like him a lot!

Lucky.

[pbear]

Heck no, as much as I can keep it private.

But they always find a way.

[midnite]

i never told them from the beginning why start now?

[refreshe]

No. They've never found out either My parents don't like me beind with boys and they don't think I should be going out until I'm 16 :angry: I think my parents are sexist. They go on and on about how good my brother is (when he really isn't and doesn't help around the house much) and shouts at me and my sister (when we do everything around the house). My brother would go out with girls when he was my age (13) and my parents didn't say a thing :angry:

[sheddingtears]

Hah. Those who can have bfs are lucky. I'm forbidden to, cause my parents are so damn overprotective. The girls in my family are mostly looked after for obvious reasons, especially our virginity. My parents are really concerned of my wellbeing, like my grades and future. They wouldn't want anything like boys get in the way of my success. Damn strict asian parents. Anyways, I respect their decision, though sometimes I feel as if I want one a bf. It's impossible for me to NOT like someone my entire highschool life. Eh, sometimes it really bites like now for example. =\ I probably wouldn't tell em, but they would mostly likely find out. I would be dead if they caught me having one before college. Sucks? Yep.

[MisSyHangy]

at times i do.. only my goodie boyfriends.. no the gangsterishieieie ones..
.. my parents actually get along with them very well

[soulovely]

i love taking my guy home to momma! but i don't tell her everything that happens between us. i just tell her that he's my bf and the three of us just talk on the first day afterwards they start to get used to him being in the house and it's like having any other friends in the house. plus i'd feel more comfortable going out with him or having him over when i tell my momz

[[.dOoKy.]]

whooa.. nope!! they would give me a 100 yr lecture about how im too young n all =P >_____>" then they'll try to make a barrier between me n boyys i don think they know teh difference between my guy frenz n bfz anyway tho.. o_O;;

[whomps]

Noooooooooooope. Once, my brother found out I had a boyfriend.. (evil bastard, same grade as me, remember?) and he PROMISED that he wouldn't tell my parents. But then when he had this one tantrum.. he blew it all up. I wasn't with the guy anymore but yeah..



It turned out all good in the end.. my mom didn't believe him Because when he's angry, he says a lot of things.



Edit//
Whoa wth. I already replied to this topic.. with the same story..

[BaYbGrL04LiFe]

my parents dun care.....my mom will ask and ill just tell her tha truth...i mean its not like i tell them wat we DO together lolz.....but she dun really care if i have one or not...

[littoaznxt]

you think getting a bf during college is bad? my mom wont lemme get a bf til im 25. and that's old.

[MiszAmy04]

for me..it's always have been on the DL..but with my current bf..one of my dad's friend's brother caught me with him..asian ppl has big mouths..so of course, he went and told his brother about it and then his brother told my dad..hmmm my dad keeps tellin me "i need to have a little talk with you" but he always end up drunk that day and goes to bed..mwahhaa but yea..both my parents know now..dats f**ked up..aiyaaaa

[MascaraTears03]

I tell my mom so she'll let him come over and me go over there and stuff, my dad is so clueless, he calls every guy I talk to my little boyfriend.

[xBaBiEGrLx]

nope..dey dunt knoe any ob mah bfs..dey think i'm too young to date..dey said dat i kant date until i'm in college..ahha..dey think dat dating will make me get out ob mah skewl werk..

[miszkristinexox]

No I don't..

But once my brother.. got REALLY REALLY pissed off and then he told my mom about my ex.. T_T but then she didn't believe him because he lies all the time 

omg thats like similar to what happened to me! but like my uncles and his friends [they were like 8th graders] found out first, because like i supposedly stole my ex away from some girl. which is so wrong cause theres like a lot of people with my name at my old school. and they were all like your going out with [name here] and im like uhhh no, and they were all like uh huh. so yeah my brother goes through like all my junk and finds his name or whatever and he goes off and tells but they didnt believe him! er.. i would never tell my parents about my boyfriend because 1. within a hour i tell them my whole family would know about it 2. THEiR FiLiPiNO 3. they think im too young

[XoX_Bratz_XoX]

yea i dont tell my parents anythign because if i do they will be all over me they hate how i talk about boyz they r liek finish skewl first then date i dotrn wanna do that soo all the ones i have had they dont kno about it i no itz sad

[rOckThISshYt]

well, i don't have boyfriends. i get numbers. but no. because my parents wouldn't aprove of any of them because they're basicly all older and pervs. my last boyfriend my dad new cuz he lived right up my street and always came over. but he thought we were friends. he was older too.

[huihead]

nope. wayy too overprotective.

[BurstinStarzz]

yeah they do! and they let him spend the night and they dont care. my dad only cares if i have sex...but my parents are 34 so they are young and they still remember what it was like at my age!

[SwiTiLLuSiOnS]

mai parents would kill me. they sey, ' yu need learn school . no boy for yu bcoz yu gonna fail class and no go college and make no money ! and yu go stupit and do stupit thing with stupit boy . ' damn mai parents are funny! XD

[Re-Mixxed]

..No.

[babixangela]

Nope. I personally don't tell my parents. They prob. still think that I'm too young Even if they do allow me, they'll be in too much of my business.

[y0urmistake]

yes

[Longhorn]

my parents didnt know until my teacher told my mom that she noticed i was hanging out with this one guy [who is my bf] a lot. it was so mean

[*Weird addiction*]

no...neva buh mah mom found out about one and she goh really mad!!so i decided to hide it!!

[Blue Lightning]

Nope I never tell, unless it slips and I mention it in front of my dad like I did with my last boyfriend >.< my hates it that I date, he got mad that I wore lip gloss when I went to the movies 0_o;

[MissSwim]

Anyone Asian eh? My mom wants me to marry an American. - -;; She wants grandkids with blue eyes... But I wanna marry a Korean lol...

correction, ur mom want u to date cocasions, not american. american can be any enthic group

[Just_Dream]

Heck no.. but my sisters DO KNOW though. Anyway, sometiems i think my mom DOES know, but alot of other times, it seems not so. Hm... But yea it's getting tougher to hide it nowadays..

[dahding]

well, i'm a guy, but i asked my gf to tell her parents about me. cause like, i really didn't want her parents to just find out about me and her being together and get pissed off or somethin. i wanted her to be truthful to her parents and not lie about us. so when she told her parents voluntarily, her parents were like, "u have a bf?? *silence for a couple of seconds* well, i'm proud of u for tellin us that u have one rather than have us find out. good. who is he? *my gf tells them* ooo....that boy? he seems very nice and polite. good choice."


uh...yeah...

moo

[xsweetdreams12x]

Never had one, but if I did, I wouldn't tell them.

[*Azarel*]

i date the sort of guys that want to meet my parents so yes they do

I your sig. Gackt is adorable.

Anyways, no, I haven't told my parents about any of my boyfriends. That doesn't really matter though, since I don't have a boyfriend right now.

[California Dream...]

If I had a boyfriend , then yeah .. My mom would know about him .

She didn't know about the first one .. Because she said I was too young to be having one , but I had one anyway ..

[whywasisostupid]

noooo....they knew about him b4, and they forbidded me to date him. o well

[mouse_3k]

I dont tell them but they find out since im always like "can i go to the movies this weekend" and stuff and they are like "wit who?" and im like "<BF's name>" so they are like "ur going out wit them" and so on but they like him so its all good...my bf's parents dont know bout me though

[LiLaZnGirL122]

i dun tell mai parents and im not even alowed to have a b/f lol i noe im bad!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! =(

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[xxsweetxpnayxx]

i want ot tell my parents but i kno they wouldnt allow me to.. bcoz i asked my om if i can date anyone.. hen my mom.. "ur too young" but i dont tell then dat i have a bf now.. n i kno that it would really spread throrugh my whole dfamily.. i mean.. WHOLE.. cousins n yeah.. wll, i knoe dats gonna be bad.. lol.. oh well.. im see if they could even notice.. lol.. but wen im busted.. of course i need to tell them da truth.. lol

[perdyperdybirdy]

My dad doesn't ever know. He doesn't really pay attention to my life. But sometimes my mom suspects it i think. Like she'd be like...Do you like him...? And i'd just be like maybe....Then she'd be like does he like you?...I'm like 'I duno, mayyybbeeee'...lol

[moosepoop]

NEVER! my dad doesn't think i should date til after high school

[aZn_hApPy05]

my parents told me that i shouldnt date til im in college (starting college in a year). whatever. ive had a couple of bfs and they dont know. what they dont know cant hurt them.

[kewlcherry]

haha nope. i never tell them since they're gonna say i cant have one cuz i'm too young or it'll bother my school work and my grades will start dropping and junk-.-;;; ughh its horrible...i hate it how they just keep talking about it. but when they're in a like a really really good mood they dont care and they just start teasing me ugh . oh well i had like 2-3 [currently with one now...] but they'll never know too risky to tell them anyways [they're asian parents yep haha]

[tootsie_kiddo]

i never told them, itz not lyk they dnt want me to date but they never ask and i dnt think they need to kno bout em

[XxtoxickissxX2]

..hmmm...Actually what's really funny is that...My parents kinda choose my bfs...haha i know I am 13 and I have a boyfriend now but my parents didnt really pick hiim! I did they just make the approval! Haha And whatever boyfriend I want its okai with them, but its like he has to be respectful and all...cuz I am Filipina aka PINAY lolz and my parents are filipino ::durr:: and so they like also spend time with him too like him and my dad like play basketball with each other and all and my mom acts like he's just one of my friends but my parents know whenever i like a guy..cuz i talk bout the dude like 24/7 haha and yah so I like hang with a lot a guys as friends too! I love my BoY FRIEND! I WUV HIIM!

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[Spirited Away]

Keh, now they know who I'm seeing they kind of against it. I thought my Dad was okay with my new interest but he got a problem with guys who go to a community college instead of a university... Ugh, I mean, it's my love life, not his! But he only cares for my best interest.

[sunissed14127]

my mom knows about all of my b/fs,& crushes...so yeah...uh she knos

[JessJR1022]

my parents are cool with they, they know all about it, not everything nosy like and stuff though

[I_LiKe_PiRaTeZ]

nope.. never did never will..
i dont speak to them..
i do things myself.
<3 DAve