I know this might be closed but its worth a tryy, finding someone in your family atractive Options

[trainspotting011...]

i recently met a cousin of mine at a fam picnic. . . I havent seen him scince i was litte. backround info im 14, hes 30. . . ( he doesnt look it ) The last time i saw him before then was when i was 4 and he was 20, sitting on his lap in his appartment.

i saw him recently, and i found him quite attractive.


Is this so wrong?

[lazy_little_one]

haha, i dont know, it probably is though. i dont know i never had that kind of experience =]

[inquisitive_]

I don't think it is wrong. I find some of my family members attractive. As long as nothing happens between you two than it is fine.

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

theres nothing wrong with noticing how people look..as long as its just noticing haha

[*Kathleen*]

Why would this be closed? Anywho, my suggestion is to move to West Virginia. Or is that...Virginia... Haha no, I'm kidding. Seriously, I think it's fine if you find him attractive. It's not normal, but hey - everyone's not normal in some way. I'm sure it'll just pass.

[mellyshelly]

I think two of my cousins (18, Im 12) are terribly attractive. Actually, only one is, the other is just amazingly sweet.

I think its because I'm the (second) youngest of my family tree. -_-

[trainspotting011...]

haha thanks you guys, but i was intrigued with him... haha it was sad as all hell. my huge thing was the age differnece . . . and plus what is "inapproprate" when its your cousin, sure everyone plays around, but whats too far?



god i feel like a dork for finally admitting this

[trainspotting011...]

just to let you know hes a blood first cousin..

[elmogurly]

i don't know. i guess you can't help it, but just don't do anything?? sorry...nothing like that happen to me before. thank goodness.

[I_feel_beautiful]

no. im starting to fall in love with a 28 year old guy i barely know. my situation is worse.

[sweetdreamsx3]

lol, it's normal. AT LEAST i THINK It is. :D Because I find one of my other cousins or something attractive, but yeah..I don't think he is anymore

[asiangetokewl]

I don't think it is wrong. I find some of my family members attractive. As long as nothing happens between you two than it is fine. 

I agree. There's nothing wrong with thinking your cousin is attractive. I think ALL my girl cousins are HOT but yea.... just don't do anything...

[dbzssj2goku3690]

hey, last month my cousin form florida came to stay at my house for a month (she's 17, I'm 14) and I couldn't stop looking at her LMAO... but no one noticed so I was OK =D

[silver-rain]

there's nothing wrong with thinking he's attractive. but if something happens, then that's wrong.

[sporadic]

Well it's like a cousin. And it's not like you have a crush on him or anything.
I can safely say that my brother's um.. attractive (Cause he's related to me ^_^ ) and not gross everyone out
I hope
*cough*
Lol ~_^

/edit

hey, last month my cousin form florida came to stay at my house for a month (she's 17, I'm 14) and I couldn't stop looking at her LMAO... but no one noticed so I was OK =D

That's kinda gross right there :P

[Devastation]

i recently met a cousin of mine at a fam picnic. . . I havent seen him scince i was litte. backround info im 14, hes 30. . . ( he doesnt look it ) The last time i saw him before then was when i was 4 and he was 20, sitting on his lap in his appartment.

i saw him recently, and i found him quite attractive.


Is this so wrong?

as long as you guys dont go out. its kool

[inthemudhole]

I find my brother cute.
I don't want to have anything to do with him, though.
As long as it stays just a "ooh, he's cute".. then it's not creepy or anything, haha.

[Spirited Away]

Absolutely normal. If someone is handsome/pretty, will you lie to yourself and say that they're not?

The point being, finding your cousin attractive is one thing, but acting on that attraction is a WHOLE DIFFERENT problem.

[trainspotting011...]

And it's not like you have a crush on him or anything.








ehhh but i do. . . .

[sporadic]

I find my brother cute.
I don't want to have anything to do with him, though.
As long as it stays just a "ooh, he's cute".. then it's not creepy or anything, haha.

*gasp* I've never seen any of your siblings before :P

My brother's gonna let me starve to death while he snores.....
*rolls eyes*

[inthemudhole]

My siblings are old.. heh.
College-age. :P

[Invisablepopcorn]

I think some of my cousins are cute. It's totally fine if thinking he's cute is all it is. I mean, why cant you think anyone is cute?

[trainspotting011...]

lol thanks you guys, but after all he IS 30, and yes i do have a full blown crush on him

[dani41790]

i think its ok to think ur cousin is cute but its wrong to have a crush on him

[sporadic]

lol thanks you guys, but after all he IS 30, and yes i do have a full blown crush on him

Hon, that's where the line starts existing.

1. He's 30, which is illegal and rather ishy anyway..
2. He's your freaking cousin.

No. Just... no.

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

i've never had that kind of experience before. i do feel that many people in my family are good looking .. but there was never any other thought further than that .. do you mean you are physically attracted to your cousin in a more serious way?

[xsweetdreams12x]

It's okay to think he's cute.
Iffy if you form a crush on him.
It's wrong to try to get with him.

[*AngelicEyz00*]

Hon, that's where the line starts existing.

1. He's 30, which is illegal and rather ishy anyway..
2. He's your freaking cousin.

No. Just... no.

^rofl... couldn't have said it better myself


Anywho, Girl... back away from your cousin before you turn him into an incesting pedofile... [i dunno if i just made up a word... ]

[sheepy]

ha i just met my cuzin who i hadn't seem since i was a baby. i hav no memorie of him. and i think he is CUTE ;] LOL. cept te good thing is hes just one year older den me. ooh wait getting off topic. newayys.. i guess its alright to hav a crush on him? dunt just make any moove.. or nething. you'll get over it!

[enticing.]

i never really found a family member attractive, but i did find a close family friend attractive. he's like 8 years older than me. i had the biggest crush on him when i was little. he knew it too.

[sunshiNe_sweeTi_]

I don't think it is wrong. I find some of my family members attractive. As long as nothing happens between you two than it is fine. 

[Levy2k6]

i'd try and find and look for someone else cuz its not right in a way.

[Eternally_Yours]

ever seen The Secret Garden?
yeah...the romance in that was all between cousins

yea i want to see the secret garden really bad.

but back to the topic. its not wrong to find your cousin attractive. cause i have a cousin thats almost 30, and i do think hes very good looking. but having a crush on him? woah. thats...uh....kinda weird, but normal i guess. just dont try to kiss him or anything.

[emptyminded]

no. im starting to fall in love with a 28 year old guy i barely know. my situation is worse.

Weird. I had the same thing kinda happen to me. =\


But, back to the subject. Its fine for you to think he's cute. Just no more than that.

[Devastation]

My siblings are old.. heh.
College-age. :P

mine are young! eh trade?

[Just_Dream]

WOAH, your cousin? Well hm... Incest is bad.. BLeh.. But just remember, there's a big age gap. I really don't know what to say aobut your situation lol. I mean it would be better if you and him weren't somewhat related.. THis reminds me of the anime/manga Ayashi no Ceres... where the girl, Aya, has a twin brother named Aki... and Aki (who was really Mikage, a guy who was reincarnated into Aki's body) FRENCHED Aya. @_@ You shouldn't like him though, or your family will try to keep u away from him and he might think ur wierd

[trainspotting011...]

lol i know incest is BAD!!!



ugh i havent spoken to him lately. . . dont worry im pretty sure hes not a pedofile.

the worst thing is that the rest of my great italian family hates him, they think hes an arrogant a**, but i know i act a bit like him, and he told me that we have the same taste ( what he was like when he was my age ) Im such an 80's child. and i dunno i like him as a person but im not exactly old enough to stay in close contact with him, without the aid of my family

[inlonelinessidie]

Absolutely normal. If someone is handsome/pretty, will you lie to yourself and say that they're not?

The point being, finding your cousin attractive is one thing, but acting on that attraction is a WHOLE DIFFERENT problem.

Yeah . . . I mean do you want to practice incest or something?

[trainspotting011...]

haha NOOO

[SALLEE]

omga that's so weirddddddddd =]

cuz like.. i just met my cuzin too cuz i came to visit my fam in korea
and i tink he's like freaking hot
the whole time i was thinking about how if only he wasnt family, it would be ok..
gosh i sound retarded but anyway
he's 29 here and im 15 here..
the last time i saw him was when he was 25 and i was 9 =]

[lilteardrop]

i found my cousin attractive too. dont act intersted. its very wrong.

[Counting]

Nah, you're just admiring his appearance. Like I always tell my cousin, "Aw. You're so cute xD" but nothing ever happens. It's just family love. :B

[captured_serenit...]

uh...no shouldnt even think about it. stay away.

[luckyxi3]

wow... well umm.. i wouldn`t find it weird if he was like 16 or something... but 30?? the worst thing about him being your cousin is people accusing him of being a pedofile or whatever that word is... i say think better and younger... he`s MOOORE experienced with "life"

[someflipguy]

I am just glad that I don't have any family here! *sigh of relief* haha!! Cus I would have thoughts too...but, yeah its just family love don't take it any further than that. I knew a friend that fell in love with her cousin and they had sex and their family exciled them from each other. It was the weirdest situation...I don't really know what she was thinking..

[Rice_on_my_shoe]

Keep your Distance from him. Shouldn't He Be Married already at 30??? Admire from afar!!! don't make a Move!!! Get interested in another Guy!!!!!!!!!!! Doesn't Come into Your Mind hes your COUSIN?!

[mouse_3k]

uhh..

tht just seems like a little bit Jerry Springer to me

[hybrid]

I think it's fine. As long as you don't fall in love with them and start obsessing. Then.. that would be more like an incest.

But then again, the man who was known the smartest in the world married his own cousin....

[*CEP*]

Go for it!

Incest is the best, put your family to the test!

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

[captivatedheart]

if it gets anything more than "thinking he's just cute" then that's wrong.

[slurp]

Absolutely normal. If someone is handsome/pretty, will you lie to yourself and say that they're not?

The point being, finding your cousin attractive is one thing, but acting on that attraction is a WHOLE DIFFERENT problem.

yeah i agree

[melmigs]

No. No. No. No. No. He's your COUSIN. Get over the crush.

[heyyfrankie]

you can think that people in your family are good looking. just as long as you don't think that they are attractive.....sexually that is...