confused, boyfriend problems Options

[MrTurtle]

okay, my boyfriend and me had a bit of a row last night. i was eating cereal which i drenched in sugar and i was getting a bit hyper. he goes "dont eat too much sugar!" i ask why and he said "well you might explode" (he meant in hyperness) and i laughed and told him "I WILL NOT!" and he goes "well, second reason is you have to watch your belly."


i dont know. me and him have talks about my weight all the time. i`m NOT fat but yeah *shrug* and it really hurt when he said that. i havent talked to him since and everytime i think about it i feel sick. i cant stay mad at him because i love him too much, but i cant forgive him cause it bothers me to know he said that...
i dont know what to do. any suggestions?

[c0nfus3dmisfit]

i think you should talk to him about it. maybe he doesnt realize how much his comment affected you? if he truly loves you as much as you love him, how you look isnt gonna be an issue between you two. but nontheless, you should probably try to talk to him about it

[whomps]

Yeah.. definitely talk to him about.. or next time he says anything about your weight.. snap at him.. =)

[DeViOuSxViEt]

i agree wit everyone else you should talk to him about it and if he understands he'll stop buh if he responds badly then you should rethink your relationship and how you feel about it yup dat mai advice and i dont think i'm good at givin advice buh it's alright you'll get through it

[F1R3B4T]

well either talk to him or jus ignore it. u know he meant it playfully.

[Darkpekkle]

well i don't think he was calling you fat or anything. He might have meant it playfully, and that eating all that sugar might make you GET a fat tummy (not that you have one NOW).

don't let little things like these get in the way of a great relationship.

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

ouch, i think ur boyfriend was just kidding... sometimes people make comments they dont realize that it may be idiotic or hurtful (sp?) . just talk to him about it, guys should never mention weight when it comes to talking to girls but haha yea... let him know its hurts u and ask him why he said it.

[leeeza702]

errmm, maybe you should tell your boyfriend how it bothers you when he talks about your weight... he'll probably stop after... well, hopefully... sometimes guys just don't know any better... maybe he doesn't know that it bothers you and that's why he does it..???

[sweetdreamsx3]

ouch, i think ur boyfriend was just kidding... sometimes people make comments they dont realize that it may be idiotic or hurtful (sp?) . just talk to him about it, guys should never mention weight when it comes to talking to girls but haha yea... let him know its hurts u and ask him why he said it.

He was just kidding? I don't think so...well if you guys went out for a long time, then he'll know what bothers you and stuff...so if weight is one of the things, i don't think it'll be alright to even joke about it when it bothers you... Weight doesn't even matter. Just talk to him and then you'll feel alright.

[xsweetdreams12x]

Eh, talk to him about it. Say it hurt, and if he's a good guy he'll say his apologies, and all that.

[sweetbabiix333]

hrm ... maybe if he says that you should say somethin` like, "what do you mean i need to watch my belly?!" and maybe you should tell him how you feel about him making comments like that . he shouldn`t be saying things like that to a girl !