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what whould u do if ur b/f made u stop cutting!!
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post Aug 11 2004, 10:04 PM
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Hey All, ermm.gif
My B/F made me stop cutting but he made me stop cuz he's falling out of love with me and well he still dont love me since i started and well.... Im depressed almost every night because of this what would you do if you where in my shoes cuz i really love him but lately he been depressed and he been going out with his friend ( Thats a girl ) and well .... it's and online relationship and hes 100% truthfull so I think. but I'm scared he's cheatting on me with her cry.gif cuz from day one he never told no one about me cuz he said no one will beleave him do you guys think that is Bs too? idk what to think someone plz help me!!
Thanks......
 
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post Aug 11 2004, 10:09 PM
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Uhm.
Huh?

Well, actually if it's an online relationship and he has you.. that IS cheating..

Ermm..
 
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post Aug 11 2004, 10:16 PM
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when i HAD internet relationships.... i didn't really care if they had a personal relationship as long as we did our thing online and we were happy and stuff.... u shouldn't get jelous about their personal relationships tho. when he's online, its ur time and not her time.. blah blah blah. im done.
 
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post Aug 11 2004, 10:16 PM
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No The online Reathtionship is with me Im the girl online but he just hangs out and goes to the movies with some girl and he never told anyone that hes going out with me!! crys....
okay thanks ........... ermm.gif cry.gif
 
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post Aug 11 2004, 10:32 PM
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don't get so emotional or attatched when it comes to online relationships...
 
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post Aug 11 2004, 10:39 PM
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What would I do if my boyfriend made me stop cutting? I'd thank him. mellow.gif
 
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post Aug 11 2004, 10:41 PM
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But this is how i took my anger cuz I just say everything in the world is my fault!!
 
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post Aug 11 2004, 10:53 PM
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dump him, online relationships.... lmao. ur funny.
 
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post Aug 11 2004, 10:54 PM
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well my bf made me stop cutting. u know wht i did? i stopped happy.gif

uhh yah i think about it alot and thinking about going back but think about ur bf. wouldnt he feel sad, disappointed, angry?

stop for ur bf.I mean really, its not worth it. cutting just makes life worse
 
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post Aug 11 2004, 11:08 PM
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well It kinda takes my pain away but he made me stop but i been depressed a lot lately!!
 
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post Aug 11 2004, 11:32 PM
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go to a... pshychiatrist or something... Cutting isn't gonna help any...
 
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post Aug 12 2004, 02:02 AM
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he cares for you.

honestly, you go a threapist or tell someone. we can't help you.

i heard to help stop cutting (i don't know if it works but it's proably different from person to person) take a long shower or 'draw' cuts on yourself
 
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post Aug 12 2004, 02:38 AM
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QUOTE(Kathleen @ Aug 11 2004, 10:39 PM)
What would I do if my boyfriend made me stop cutting? I'd thank him. mellow.gif

I know... me too... _unsure.gif
 
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post Aug 12 2004, 03:32 AM
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even if he doesnt love u its nice of him to make u quit, cutting mite seem to make u feel better emotionally, but no drama/issue/problem is worth hurting urself, there are other ways to release ur drama/issue/stress/problems/pain that dont involve a razor or blood blink.gif hopefully u realize that
 
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post Aug 12 2004, 04:14 AM
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i personally think online relationships are tough. I don't think they work out that great most of the time, some do though...

But, what's "Cutting" I'm getting old. (turning 20 in about 2 weeks. Lol)
 
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post Aug 12 2004, 04:36 AM
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In my entire life I've only cut twice..but err anyway, if my guy wanted me to stop cutting, I'd stop. (Not like I'm prone to do it often anyway.) Besides, if you're cutting, then I think you should find more ways to vent out your frustration and anger. It doesn't have to be going to a psychiatrist or therapist, but it can be writing, listening to music, you know, find a hobbie that'll keep you busy. happy.gif
 
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post Aug 12 2004, 10:52 AM
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But, what's "Cutting" I'm getting old. (turning 20 in about 2 weeks. Lol)


it when u cut urself for many reasons. take anger out, too much emotional pain, etc.
 
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post Aug 14 2004, 02:40 PM
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i'LL SAY that he cares about you.
 
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post Aug 14 2004, 02:48 PM
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a. online relationships have like a... 0.00000000000000001% chance of working out. because you probaly don't know the person for their real personality. you can be anyone online. you can have any personality.

b. he cares about you but why's he going out with your friend, again?

c. cutting .. iknow. is a way to take away pain. but it's only temporary. the only way you can really take away pain is through yourself and God.

d. remember. life does not revolve around guys. guys in fact should be your last priority. all they will do is hurt you in the end. i know what it feels like to say "i know it will hurt.. but it's 'worth it'" no. it is not. it is much more heartbreaking than you will ever expect it to be.

your priorities should be A. God, B. family, C. friends, D. boyfriend

e. you should get a real boyfriend. a real guy. not an online relationship... if you need that kind of commitment to be happy (which you dont.)



just.. please stop cutting. i used to do it, too. i know its addictive.
 
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post Aug 14 2004, 02:55 PM
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if it's an online relationship, u shouldnt even worry bout it, u kno he's gonna have his own life out of the online bullcrap...... he probably lied 2 u all dis time...... so make it betta fo urself n not b with him............
 
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