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 Aug 11 2004, 10:52 AM
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HELP! my friend cuts herself its realli scary. she cuts herself 4 da fun of it
i tried persuding her 2 stop but she wont. wat can i du? 
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Aug 11 2004, 11:14 AM
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tell her that it ain;t right wat she doin, n ur jus telling her how much u care about her...if she still duzn't understand, idk mayb tell sumone??
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Aug 11 2004, 01:04 PM
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for the fun of it? She either wants attention or is lying about her reasons. you should tell someone but if you dont want her to know tell her parents or a teacher anonymously, they will take it from their.
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Aug 11 2004, 01:05 PM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
give her a swift smack in the face!!! okay...j/k
tell her parents to get her help...or something |
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Aug 11 2004, 01:30 PM
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 ¢¾ Wanting it. ¢¾ Group: Member Posts: 2,060 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,234 |
wow thats serious... tell your mom r her mom its reel danger she cud die make an action fast even if she mite not want u to her buisness is ur life....
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Aug 11 2004, 01:56 PM
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try to get her some help from someone you know or something, ask her parents if she seems different around the house....
-Courtney |
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Aug 11 2004, 01:59 PM
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 who again? Group: Member Posts: 555 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,458 |
sit down, talk with her, give her reasons to live, unless she is doing it for attention, but anyways give her alot of reasons why to live, who loves her and why she is a great person, give her what her strengths are, personality is a plus, how she looks, sorry seems like im dealing with a suicidal.
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Aug 11 2004, 06:13 PM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
QUOTE(eversosweet @ Aug 11 2004, 10:52 AM) HELP! my friend cuts herself its realli scary. she cuts herself 4 da fun of it i tried persuding her 2 stop but she wont. wat can i du? Cut her head off with a ninja sword. |
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Aug 11 2004, 07:19 PM
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 mrs. carrabba Group: Member Posts: 67 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,786 |
if she does it for the fun of it like you said, i doubt she's seriously depressed or contemplating suicide.
i know a few people who cut just to say they do it, which is not cool. you should tell her not to joke around about that kind of stuff because its a serious condition. <3 dani |
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Aug 11 2004, 07:22 PM
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 Word. Group: Member Posts: 3,004 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,673 |
sit with her and talk with her for a while and if that doesn't work.... say "use that knife and make me a sandwich..... crustless...... WITH BACON......NOW!"
lol. |
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Aug 11 2004, 07:45 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
does her parents kneo about this???
if shes the girlygirly type tell her u knoe cuts leave scars? it'll be ugly if u have scars lol and tell her that if she cuts one of the main veins or capillaries she'll be dead lol literally |
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Aug 11 2004, 09:35 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
She does it for fun??
K. That's stupid. Sorry, but it is. She just wants attention.. If she doesn't even have a reason, she wants attention. Make her stop. Seriously. Tell someone if she won't listen.. |
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Aug 12 2004, 06:59 AM
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 thx guys
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Aug 12 2004, 07:04 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
no one inflicts pain on themselves for fun.......well unless ur crazy....but then again crazy is something to be worried about ;]
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Aug 12 2004, 02:21 PM
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dont forget to smiLe today Group: Member Posts: 336 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,095 |
i think your friend wants attention. give her some.
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Aug 12 2004, 02:36 PM
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Alot of people think that cutting is a form of wanting attention... Some people do cut for attention but thats not all. Its also a sign of depression, which we all know about, but some people cut to realease their pain from within. For example if your feeling alot of pain from a breakup an arguement, or grief, a person may cut to show pain in a physical form instead of an emotional form.
You should really sit down with this person and ask whats wrong. Ask if something is bothering her, ask if you can do anything to help, ask if there is something that you can do to make her change her ways. Giving her attention is a good start, but if she stops cutting, make sure you continue the attention you give her. Its always smart to tell someone close to you. There are people out there who can help people who cut. hope this helps you out. |
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Aug 12 2004, 03:05 PM
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prolly for attention.
i doubt its just for adrenaline rushes. u shud talk to her abt it tho |
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Aug 12 2004, 03:38 PM
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Sit down and talk with her. Tell her what she's doing isn't right.
If that doesn't work, tell her parents to get her help. |
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Aug 12 2004, 06:34 PM
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 » [[ K4R3N ]] « Group: Member Posts: 46 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,111 |
you should prolly tell her what she`s doing is dangerous & that you really care about her & you`re scared ... if all fails ... it might be best to tell her parents ... if you don`t want to directly tell her parents, maybe you can ask your mom to talk to them .
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Aug 14 2004, 02:33 PM
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Tell her how you feel about it and she should really listen..
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