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is it wrong?
is it wrong to think about someone else when ur in a relationship?
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post Aug 10 2004, 03:51 PM
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is it wrong to have someone else on your mind but your in a relationship?
 
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post Aug 10 2004, 03:57 PM
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i think it's wrong if you like somone else and fantasize about them. but if your just really good friends or something, that's ok!
 
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post Aug 10 2004, 04:00 PM
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if u like them like in LIKE but i mean, if its just a hot girl/guy u saw at the mall and stuff then its fine...i guess..
 
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post Aug 10 2004, 04:23 PM
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it depends... i mean maybe the one you are in right now... is bad or something? not working out?
 
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post Aug 10 2004, 04:34 PM
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its okay to like another gui, i mean..i think it's normal yenno? But if you actualy do sumthing about it, and cheat on the bf, then thats BAAAAAAAAD!!
 
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post Aug 10 2004, 05:26 PM
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hrm..depends... how much are u thinking aobut the other person ? whistling.gif
 
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post Aug 10 2004, 05:49 PM
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i think if u find sumone interestin then i think that would b fine but doing sumthing about it like cheatin and all that bad stuff then thats always wrong
 
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post Aug 10 2004, 06:12 PM
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If you're thinking about somebody besides your boyfriend/girlfriend all the time, it may be a sign that you like somebody else. And it may be time to break up, if you're not attracted to your boyfriend/girlfriend anymore... ermm.gif
 
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post Aug 10 2004, 08:21 PM
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Depends on things..

I think it's okay if it's..

-Not even a crush
-A celebrity
-Just if you think some d00d is good-looking at the mall, or something simple like that.

NOT OKAY..

-If they're always on your mind
-It's a crush

Iono. I don't like anyone right now (other than my boyfriend)..
I mean, of COURSE I like a celebrity. tongue.gif But that's different.. you have pretty much no chance with a celeb.. so yeah.
 
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post Aug 10 2004, 08:24 PM
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If you're thinking about somebody besides your boyfriend/girlfriend all the time, it may be a sign that you like somebody else. And it may be time to break up, if you're not attracted to your boyfriend/girlfriend anymore...


i agree with that up there ... ^ it probably is a sign ... but you should think long and hard about who you`re really attracted to before you do something . =]*
 
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post Aug 10 2004, 09:17 PM
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well it kinda depends. if u plan on breaking up with the person ur goin out with or somtin like that then i guess its ok
 
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post Aug 10 2004, 10:54 PM
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If you mean THINK ABOUT as in LIKE-LIKE them while you're in a relationship, that's a no no! Unless you truly don't like whoever you're dating... blink.gif

Bleh I have thought about someone else while in a relationship. That was when i was with my ex lol. Bleh i started to like someone (I forgot who) while i dated my ex in 8th grade lol. BLeh that relatiionship only lasted 1.5 months anyways.. whistling.gif But if you're in a serious relationship, it's a no no! Only think of friendly thoughts about others!
 
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post Aug 11 2004, 02:12 PM
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i think yess..but then again im not shure..cos yeah..i think thats wrong..and depressing for the other person..even if he/she doesnt know about it..but like..i have this guy who is ALWAYS on my mind..he was my first love tho..so theres always a lil place in my heart for him..but when im kissing my boyyfriend or something im not thinking "wow i wish this was so-n-so" or i dont picture my first love or anything..yeah..i dont know if i helped..sorrie..
 
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post Aug 11 2004, 03:00 PM
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i think itz wrong but doesnt it happen to all of us? blink.gif
 
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post Aug 22 2004, 12:52 AM
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it is not wrong
but i say it depends on your situation and stuff
and what is going on between you and your boyfriend
 
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post Aug 22 2004, 02:39 AM
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if its like a one time thing or somethign along those lines then yea its ok, but if its interfers with your relationship, then no
 
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post Aug 22 2004, 03:11 AM
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it depends...
 
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post Aug 22 2004, 02:07 PM
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it depends on what way your thinking about them. if you fantisize about them, then that is wrong. but if you're just thinking of them as a friend, that i don't think its that bad.
 
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post Aug 22 2004, 04:52 PM
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here's how i see it. look (without him/her catching you haha) but don't touch!! but as long as its not too serious then it should be fine. just try not to check out guys/girls too much with your bf/gf around. that's just bad. stubborn.gif
 
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post Aug 22 2004, 09:40 PM
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i said it depends. for me its what exactly are u thinking about doing or whatever
 
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post Aug 23 2004, 12:40 AM
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it realli depends how long the relationship that u have with that person is...like four five six yrs thats long and u might get tired of seein that person thinkin about someone else ain't wrong...okie hope u pick the rite choice wink.gif
 
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