Bi best friend, i need a guys opinion |
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 Feb 20 2004, 02:10 AM
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Matt  Group: Member Posts: 36 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,623  |
hey guys i need some help here - my best friend says hes bi - i mean theres nothing i can do about it so i just hang out with him normally right? i mean we are still friends but idk wat would y'all do if ur best friend told u he was bi?
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Feb 20 2004, 03:04 AM
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 i'll treat you like milk.. i'll do nothing but spoil you Group: Member Posts: 257 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 577 |
hmmm.. make sure he doesn't make his move on you.. if i had guy bestfriend that was bi.. i dunno i'll prolly feel awkward at first but if everything is cool then maybe the awkward feeling will go away.. talk to him about where you stand if he does do something bad.. respect him the same way.. its his life.. let him live it the way he wants to live it..
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Feb 20 2004, 11:05 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 52 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,610 |
Okay you say you need a guys opion, but I'm not a guy. I have alot of Bi male friends and they still hang out with other guys. There really isnt any akwardness, theyre all cool with it. It shouldnt matter anyways. I mean to you guys who are not really..ATTRACTIVE and wouldnt have a girl hit on you, then dont feel like a guy would either, cuz youre still UGLY! Haha...there. But you see how quickly someones opinion changes when someone else admits their..proffered sexuality, Thats not right. CLOSE MINDED PEOPLE these days!
 Its all good with me, just 'What ever floats your boat'
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Feb 20 2004, 01:12 PM
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 Hi. Get out. Group: Member Posts: 18 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,183 |
Hmm... In my opinion, its better to hang out with a bi than a gay guy. You have a better chance of being hit on by a gay guy than you do by a bisexual guy. Besides, bisexuals go both ways, right? So you can be still checking out girls together.
 EDIT: But I say you just still kick it with him. As long there isn't any misunderstandings, you're still straight and fine, buddy. |
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Mar 13 2004, 12:16 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 17 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,740 |
Why should it make any difference? One of my good friends is lesbian (I'm a girl... sorry to invade the guys' locker room) and she knows I'm straight... it's all good. Tell the guy you need some time to get used to the idea, if that's the case...
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Mar 13 2004, 12:21 AM
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 advanced newbie... S2 Group: Member Posts: 3,504 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 752 |
im a gurl too!! (keke gurls are invading the guys rooms! AHH keep ur shirts on peopo...
) well, does it matter that he's bi? like... if he was gay, i would be scread to death and i would suicide ahha jkjk but i mean... like he's Bi, and he dont like you right? you guys just frends, so its all gewd... but if you start feeling weerd, you should talk to him about this situation and figure things out... maybe if you talk to him, then he'll tell you more and you will be more comfortable about the situation... you noe? |
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Mar 13 2004, 12:26 AM
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If he doesn't like me, then I'm cool with him. But if I get the feeling that he's coming on to me, I won't hesitate to knock a couple of his teeth loose.
Then again, don't non-straight guys usually get close with women? So if I had a bisexual friend then I would get like, a lot more women thatn what I have now. ( which is none ) - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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Mar 19 2004, 12:26 AM
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 *wow* Group: Member Posts: 165 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,173 |
well to me it don't matter. I mean juss go on with your life and everything will be ok. cuz one of my best friends are gay and it dont change a thing. But yeah... Just as long as he don't start hittin on you.
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Mar 19 2004, 01:06 AM
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 Darlin dont u know? The water is poisoned Group: Member Posts: 554 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,668 |
id do nothing about it, hes still would be my friend no matter wut. And if U were a true friend u would still be his buddy no matter wat too
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Mar 19 2004, 02:32 AM
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 Snu-Snu Group: Member Posts: 177 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 5,955 |
personally i wouldnt mind a gay or bi friend...i mean if you knew the person for the longest time how are you gonna break the friendship over a sexual preference...just dont let them come on to you TOO much...
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Mar 20 2004, 08:45 PM
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hello Group: Member Posts: 71 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,475 |
As long as he doesnt like u it should be okai right lol cause u have been friends fine until then right
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Mar 20 2004, 09:45 PM
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 We are the cure. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,936 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,456 |
he made his decision - its not like hes after you now. if you were his real friend - accept it.
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Mar 25 2004, 09:45 PM
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 Graphic Designer (>_<) Group: Member Posts: 82 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,467 |
haha... idk
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