having a little trouble, reading his mind |
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 Aug 2 2004, 01:11 PM
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 ooo la la  Group: Member Posts: 433 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,853  |
so i like this guy, and i wanna ask him out... but i'm afraid of rejection. and i really don't know if he even thinks of me as a friend or not. we talk online sometimes. and whenever we talk its a really long convo and he's really funny. but then again sometimes we'd disagree on things and he'd say i just don't understand[he's 2 years older]
and when i'm around him its like one min he'd be all like flirty and everything and then the next, he'd pretend like i didn't exist. but then, i don't like his friends, and they know i don't like 'em, so they think i'm a big loser now. so maybe he's just pretending not to like me when he's around them. and then i see him lookin at my friend and i get all mad n all. arg, he's giving me mixed signals... it's so confusing. what should i do? should i just go ahead and ask him. i don't wanna feel like a total idiot if he doesn't like me though. and i don't wanna feel weird around him afterwards. i've tried asking my friend to ask him who he likes, but he keeps those things to himself. and if i ask him, he might say no because of what his friends would think[i know, stupid. but i still really like him] i've tried forgeting about him.. doesn't work, just makes me thinks about him even more. |
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Aug 2 2004, 01:15 PM
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 PARTY NAKED Group: Member Posts: 485 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,032 |
if acts like that around his friends then hes not ryte for u.. maib u needa find a new guy cuz i knoe girls that act diff round me wen were 2gehta `nd wen were togetha wit her friends
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Aug 2 2004, 01:16 PM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
Kidnap him, strap him to a chair in a secret research facility in Israel, and then you can read his mind... Literally... Mua ha haha ha!
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Aug 2 2004, 01:20 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 222 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,074 |
when ur talking to him online ask him if he likes you or hint that you like him.... speaking online is easier to do then in person..... plus if he rejects you it wont be so harsh...
.. and if that doesnt work get him really drunk and then find out  haha just kidding, i am not promoting the consumption of alcoholic beverages by any means  escpecially if u are underage 
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Aug 2 2004, 01:25 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
GREETINGS!!!!!
I'm scared of rejection, also.. I'd ask him online.  It eases t3h awkwardness. CHEERS, CB!!!! |
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Aug 2 2004, 01:27 PM
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ooo la la Group: Member Posts: 433 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,853 |
OH and to add:
my friend, the one he was lookin at, she used to like him and i think she still does even though seh says she doesn't. i can just tell because she's always frontin when she's around him. and i know he used to like her. and i don't wanna hurt her if he actually says yes[chances are slim]. but if they start liking each other again and go out, i'd kill myself. ahhh drama drama drama. |
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Aug 2 2004, 01:40 PM
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 Tina + Tommy Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,575 |
if i were you i wouldnt ask him out. its not worth it. and ur friend probably does still like him.
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Aug 2 2004, 09:35 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
i would just think of it as a crush.. its not like u desparately need a bf rite now and if he can treat u as if u dont exist wen ur only friends wit him, imagine wut can he do wen ur his gf!
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