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 Jul 29 2004, 07:50 PM
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 Crazyinlove08  Group: Member Posts: 40 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,287  |
Hey im starting high school this yr and i love all my friends soo much but there all really diffrent than me and i dont want to leave them behinde bc i am not like that but i do want friends that wont be friends with them like have my own group that IS like ME that sounds kinda mean but everytime i get a new friend everyone is friends with her in my group and id jsut like to change that how would i like not be mean to my friends and start hanging out with other people??? plz help!!!! thanks soo much
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Jul 29 2004, 08:11 PM
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 Word. Group: Member Posts: 3,004 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,673 |
ur starting high school huh?
sorry but I bet ur gonna lose most of ur friends and make new ones... it happens. |
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Jul 29 2004, 09:30 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 239 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,630 |
wow.. i cudnt understand any of the stuff u were saying but im gona take a guess on this and try to give u advice
[levy is right.. ur gona lose some friends and make some friends.. some if not all] well, who said you could only have friends in that group? dont tell them anything, just go off and make friends.. i know that sounded sorta bad, but im sure they also have friends out of your group so theres no reason for you to not do the same. |
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Jul 29 2004, 09:36 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
QUOTE sorry but I bet ur gonna lose most of ur friends and make new ones... it happens. thts tru but the friend u are real close with and stuff, im sure u will keep them and make new friends too (thts wht happened to me) |
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Jul 29 2004, 09:54 PM
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Word. Group: Member Posts: 3,004 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,673 |
yeah i typed that because i know most of my friends lost their friends...
HS is different than MS. everything changes.. |
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Jul 30 2004, 12:14 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,624 |
QUOTE(Levy2k6 @ Jul 29 2004, 6:11 PM) sorry but I bet ur gonna lose most of ur friends and make new ones... it happens. true some change and its pretty sad im sure you'll stay keep in touch with your close friends though |
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Jul 30 2004, 09:43 AM
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 Unlock the Darkness Group: Member Posts: 305 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,967 |
Unfortunately, I moved a month before I started high school, so I was forced to start from scratch, but I still keep in touch with my old friends from middle school...
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Jul 30 2004, 09:48 AM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
it'll happen naturally.. dont worry u'll meet ppl in school and ur friends wont even knoe them
 sometimes lols depends cuz the school is big and its not hard to meet ppl
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Jul 30 2004, 10:03 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,353 |
ummm...well firstly, you might wanna add a few commas and periods...x_X I had trouble reading/comprehending thatt...
ANYWAY...ummm...taking a guess on what you were saying...I think that if you and your friends right now are so different...things might just not work out. I mean...it really depends on whether or not you actually like them...if you really don't...then you could just casually drift...a...wayyy...lol!! But if you really love them and cherish your friendship, then you should stay friends with them, as well as find new friends. It's normal to be in different groups...for me, anyway, lol! I have my regular friends that I hang out with at school, and I also have a so-called *asian group*, with most of them not from the same school that I go to, but hang out at those weird Chinese parties and stuff... |
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Jul 30 2004, 10:10 AM
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 bang bang! my baby shot me down! Group: Member Posts: 754 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,848 |
well heres my little friend high school story.
i had 2 vey close friends n we were all close with each other blah blah. one day one turns into a realy phsyco bitch. big argument that goes on for about half a year. in the end we make peace n she finds her own bitchy friends. but we are mutual friends wich is good. the person who we were close friends with i am still xtremly close and we each have other friends who we would hang out with jsut not "all together" bottom line. you will lose some friends but you will also gain. |
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Jul 30 2004, 10:04 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 875 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,841 |
making new friends is always nice?
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Jul 30 2004, 10:11 PM
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 :hammer: Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,849 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,700 |
I guess it's okay to meet new people. Things like that usually happen.. But you know, don't meet the wrong person and go back to your old friends when that new person ditches you or whatever.. I doubt they would accept you back in their group again.. =p
I would do almost anything to go to the same high school as at least ONE of my friends.. I'll be going to a new high school where I won't know ANYBODY (accept for my brother) and yeah. It's gonna be hard. |
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Aug 9 2004, 10:51 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 113 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,544 |
QUOTE sorry but I bet ur gonna lose most of ur friends and make new ones... it happens.
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Aug 11 2004, 12:15 AM
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 ť [[ K4R3N ]] Ť Group: Member Posts: 46 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,111 |
yea haha i know exactly what you`re trying to say ... but it`s kinda hard to be friends with some people without them becoming friends with your old friends ... haha does that make sense ? cuz eventually your old friends will ask you like "who are those ppl you were talking to?" and they might start talking ... and yea you get my point ... but who knows ... your old friends might become friends with another group of ppl so you`ll be able to have your own separate group too =]*
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Aug 11 2004, 12:38 AM
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wow that was a very long run on sentence..
anyway, it shouldn't be that hard. You can make new friends and also stay friends with your old friends. |
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Aug 11 2004, 05:26 AM
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 GREEENROCKS Group: Member Posts: 1,393 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,624 |
go with the flow...what happens, happens
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Aug 11 2004, 05:58 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
ur ditchin ur friends just cuz ur going to highschool, wut are ur expectations? lol.
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Aug 11 2004, 06:11 AM
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 ^Itachi made him do it! ^^ Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,404 |
I'm going to start high school too. But I'm glad that the people I don't know, let alone LIKE are going to another one while most of the ones I am fond with are with me. Although I will miss some who are going to another school, but eh, just deal with it....I hope to make new friends. But I would still like to keep the ones I have now.
Oh yeah, I kinda had a hard time following cause of your run-on sentence. ^^; |
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Aug 11 2004, 07:24 AM
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 dudeee! Group: Member Posts: 873 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,897 |
QUOTE(Levy2k6 @ Jul 29 2004, 8:11 PM) ur starting high school huh? sorry but I bet ur gonna lose most of ur friends and make new ones... it happens. yup.. i so agree with that.. im going into my junior year now, and you have no idea how many friends i've lost touch with and how many new friends i've made... people change.. you can't do anything about that... |
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Aug 11 2004, 04:40 PM
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 mrs. carrabba Group: Member Posts: 67 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,786 |
are your other friends just not as cool? that seems to be what im getting from that. well, dont ditchem for stupid superficial reasons. people hate bitchiness more than unpopularity.
WELL when i started highschool i did lose some friends but since then i have realized that they weren't good friends in the beginning, but i still have a best friend since 2nd grade, so the good friendships still remain. now i know who my real friends are <3 dani |
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Aug 11 2004, 05:33 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
yeah, in high school- you will get new friends and might lose the ones you have. when i went into high school- i lost all my middle school friends in a year (well, also because we went to different high schools), but i also made new ones.
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Aug 12 2004, 12:08 AM
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 anti-friendly Group: Member Posts: 181 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,973 |
use them, lose them, forget them, move on, repeat.
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Aug 12 2004, 04:33 AM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
I'm starting highschool too, and I agree with what the others are saying. Besides, you'll make plenty of new friends that you're old friends will probably just be accquaintances with. Just go with the flow and take things as they come.
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Aug 12 2004, 04:37 AM
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Sorry but life is like that. U make friends, u loose friends. But i think HS friends are the best out ur whole life. U got through the same things to accomplish skool, boys, life, ect...
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Aug 12 2004, 04:47 AM
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F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
Well highschool is kinda weird at first, yes u do lose some friends, u do make some new ones,and u will find a group u want to be in, just dont forsake the ones u can always turn to cuz if u do, who will u turn to? whoa that hurt my brain! lol anyways dont stress about highschool, its just another year of education
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Aug 12 2004, 02:22 PM
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dont forget to smiLe today Group: Member Posts: 336 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,095 |
wow. complicated so unding. im going into hs too so i have noidea ><
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Aug 12 2004, 02:38 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 181 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,300 |
Dont think about it... Just let everything ride out and see where you stand in your freindships....In the end, it seems that nothing really changed (unless you think about it)... I had to start from scratch cuz i started at a school that i wasnt supposed to go to... oh well!! hope it goes well!!
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Aug 12 2004, 03:03 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,384 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,337 |
yea friends come and go. if they were real friends, they will stay.
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Aug 12 2004, 03:42 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
You can make new friends, and still keep the old ones.
Sounds corny, but it's true.But... eh. I heard that High School can break some friendships apart. Just try to stay close with your old friends but don't like ditch them to be with your new ones. |
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Aug 17 2004, 01:58 PM
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 ...jUs CaLL mE tEe... Group: Member Posts: 62 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,234 |
[COLOR=blue][FONT=Arial]i had the exact same problem! meeh and mai friendz were complete opposites. but wat happened waz i moved skuz and i made a whole other group of friendz. however wen i see sum of mai other friendz we do say "hi" and sumtymes we cruise. maybe wat yooh need to do iz make a new group of friendz....that are more lyk yooh! and thatz probably going to happen anywayz....becuz ur going into highschool! therez a whole bunch of new experiences....so jus do watever will make yooh happie!
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Aug 17 2004, 03:00 PM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
i don't really get what you said...
but you should never ditch your friends for other people. NEVER. |
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Aug 19 2004, 07:25 PM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
well i noe how u feel my dads in the military and my new hs starts in a couple weeks and i dun no ANYBODY! but in my other hs's i made friends and lost em (not to movin) its just that people change hs can make u or break u the more people u noe the better u are but nvr forget who u started out wit cuz they may me the most when u have nobody to fall back on
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