oh no. dump him or keep him?, but i still love him... Options

[Steph_rcks_my_so...]

i don't know if what im doing is right or wrong. if it's wrong, please tell me nicely.

i forgot to ask people this. I have a boyfriend and i caught him cheating two days ago. here's a pic.

that a**hole

you prob don't think he's good looking but o well.

should i keep him for his looks? or dump him because of what he did?

thanks

[EmeraldKnight]

Dump him.

If he cheated on you, he doesn't deserve you. Keeping him just because of looks sounds shallow.

(I think this should be in "Relationships")

[Steph_rcks_my_so...]

Dump him.

If he cheated on you, he doesn't deserve you. Keeping him just because of looks sounds shallow.

(I think this should be in "Relationships")

oh...i dunno... he has such a great personality. weve been together for a year and a half! oh...no... *depressed* dump him? sigh*

[illmizzkim]

Dude, wrong place.

If he did something stupid, then dump him. There are lots of guys out there anyway.

[black_cloud10]

should i keep him for his looks? or dump him because of what he did?

thanks

are you that vain.....idiotic....whats the word i'm looking for?? visually-obsessed? anyway

why the eff would u date a guy just for his looks?
why the eff would u keep dating a guy who cheated on you?
you say you love him but i see evidence of love from what you've said.

dump him. or have him dump you. maybe then you can make another topic and cry about it to everyone.


EDIT//Shallow! that's the word.

[Steph_rcks_my_so...]

are you that vain.....idiotic....whats the word i'm looking for?? visually-obsessed? anyway

why the eff would u date a guy just for his looks?
why the eff would u keep dating a guy who cheated on you?
you say you love him but i see evidence of love from what you've said.

dump him. or have him dump you. maybe then you can make another topic and cry about it to everyone.

yeah. im stupid huh? i should just dump him. it wasnt exactly major cheating though. he said she was just his "friend". it looked like he was flirting. he was kinda playing with her hair. he apologized alot. he never lied to me. just said that he was going to go meet a friend. im effing stupid. i made a fool out of myself.

[black_cloud10]

then what the eff is this topic about?!?!?

[sushiluva]

hmm i don't mean to keep up the consistancy, but it would be necessary, so DUMP HIM. why would you want to stay with a jerk who you don't know might do it again?? (or more for that matter)

[Steph_rcks_my_so...]

then what the eff is this topic about?!?!?

i smell upsetness

is he wrong or not?

[black_cloud10]

did he cheat on you or not?? you said

I have a boyfriend and i caught him cheating two days ago.

then

he said she was just his "friend". it looked like he was flirting. he was kinda playing with her hair. he apologized alot. he never lied to me. just said that he was going to go meet a friend. im effing stupid. i made a fool out of myself.

make up ur mind

[Steph_rcks_my_so...]

did he cheat on you or not?? you said



then




make up ur mind

i don't know. im asking you. im not an expert. WTF aM I DOING ive never been cheated on before. i dont really know if that was cheating or not. definition please?
heh. im stupid delete this

[kyuubi319]

i don't know. im asking you. im not an expert. WTF aM I DOING ive never been cheated on before. i dont really know if that was cheating or not. definition please?

but you asked us if he was worth keeping because he supposedly 'cheated on you' not if we knew the deffinition of being 'cheated on'
and just do whatever your heart tells you, screw your brain. and just outta curiosity, why would someone put this in pictures???...
if someone cheats on you, that means they are with another girl. not innocent flirting, everyone does that, but if they are ACTUALLY WITH ANOTHER GIRL. as in like, kissing her and stuff like that, it depends on what he did with the other girl. okaaaay?
okaaaay.
i agreee wid blackcloud, make up your fukin mind :) have a nicee day

[mouse_3k]

dumb him. hes not worth ur time if hes just gunna cheat on u

[*krnxswat*]

Haha, how shallow can a girl get to keep him for his looks although you caught him cheating? Yeah, dump him.

[SSJ Kenshin]

Dump that bastard. No question about it. Any guy that cheats is unworthy of the girl he's supposed to be dating and vice-versa.

[mouse_3k]

also, u could turn the tables. if u wanna get revenge then cheat on him and have him find out and when he gets mad at u and stuff just be like "THTS WHT I FEEL WHEN U WERE CHEATING ON ME WITH THT OTHER GIRL (possibly guy )

revenge is sweeeeeeet

[*Azarel*]

are you that vain.....idiotic....whats the word i'm looking for?? visually-obsessed? anyway

why the eff would u date a guy just for his looks?
why the eff would u keep dating a guy who cheated on you?
you say you love him but i see evidence of love from what you've said.

dump him. or have him dump you. maybe then you can make another topic and cry about it to everyone.


EDIT//Shallow! that's the word.

Woot. Go Sara.

[sandra]

u dont just date a guy whos good looking, u also have to see whats inside too. u should dump him b/c if he loves u, than he wouldnt had cheated on u

[mizz_mithy]

dump him. he does look good but he doesn't respect you or care about you if he cheats on you. i'd rather have a guy who respects me and carres for me than a good lookin guy who cheats on me.

[Joo_Hoodles]

Dump that B*astard! You have to put up with that kind of crap!

[Darkpekkle]

hrmmm. At first, I thought he cheated on you (as in, he started making out with another girl or something), but then you said that he just played with her hair. And you also said that he apologized many times. Well... as long as his heart is in the right place (i.e. his heart still belongs to you), then it's not really cheating. I'm not really sure what happened because you didn't give too many details.

But anyways, let's say he cheated (likes another girl & flirts with her with the intentions of starting a new relationship with her), then I don't think you should stay with him... unless you are willing to give him a second chance or something. But remember: never, never, neverrr stay with a guy just for his looks! There are plenty of good-looking NICER guys out there.

[sheepy]

uh he just played wif her hair?? umm.. den im not sure.. keep him if u really think its the right thing.

[inthemudhole]

Go, Sara!
Ermm. If he only flirted, then it's really not a big deal, I don't think.
And it sounds like he already apologized, so yeah.
Keep him.
If he continues to do stuff, then dump him if it gets out of hand.

[dani41790]

O_o if u only wanna keep him for hys looks, then just dump him. i dont think u deserve a guy who cheats on you. but u noe if he waz jus flirting and if he did say he waz sorry then i think u should give him anotha chance

[natural_me]

are you that vain.....idiotic....whats the word i'm looking for?? visually-obsessed? anyway

why the eff would u date a guy just for his looks?
why the eff would u keep dating a guy who cheated on you?
you say you love him but i see evidence of love from what you've said.

dump him. or have him dump you. maybe then you can make another topic and cry about it to everyone.


EDIT//Shallow! that's the word.

i agree, if u still go out wid him, he'll think that u won't noe n e thing and contiune cheating on u, so dump him

[sunni_banana]

looks only go so far...truth be it..if he cheated once..and you let it slip..he'll do it again...if you really wanna still be with him...talk to him A LOT about it..and if he admits he did it wrong..it's up to you if you wanna risk getting hurt if he does cheat again..but if i were you..i'd DUMP HIM DUMP HIM

[nsswimmer63]

ok, i don't know how to put this nicely, DUMP HIM!
you can't just be in a relationship with someone because you've been together for so long or for good looks, because those relationships have no love. They suk... besides he flippin CHEATED on you! no girl deserves that.

[laur3nw]

just dump him..thats what i would do
after all..he DID cheat on you..why would you stay with him?
and since he cheated on you, that means he doesnt really have feelings for you
i didnt mean to be mean if it sounded like it

[sunshiNe_sweeTi_]

hard to say....if u guys luved each other i'm sure u would giv him another chance...everyone duz

[xsweetdreams12x]

You seem like you only like him for his looks... pft.

Dump that fool. He cheated on you, and probably is a jerk.

[sammi rules you]

dump the jerk.

no wait -- you're so shallow, just keep him and keep getting hurt.

you should never go out with someone/keep someone because of their looks.

this sounds harsh, but it's true.

[GyrL_wit_da_KuRL...]

also, u could turn the tables. if u wanna get revenge then cheat on him and have him find out and when he gets mad at u and stuff just be like "THTS WHT I FEEL WHEN U WERE CHEATING ON ME WITH THT OTHER GIRL (possibly guy  )

revenge is sweeeeeeet

O YES!...revenge i love dhat idear....muahahahahah

[xxslithr0atxx]

STUPID BOYS!!!!!!!! ahh this is why u gotta trust a guy b4 goin out with em lol..

i would dump him... hurt him badly...... bcuz cheating hurts a lot.. i can imagine a guy doin that to me make him go through a lot of crap so we can be even and hopefully he can learn his lesson..

but if you would like to forgive him and think he can fix himself and never do it again.. give him a 2nd chance even tho thats not what i wud do lol

[xxslithr0atxx]

when i said "we" i meant.. u and him make it even lol my bad [typo]

[Gr33nT3agUrL]

This actually happened to me once n my advice is u should really dump him cuz if he cheat on u once do u think he won't do it agen???? I don think so cuz wen he did it once n u took no action to it..it will hanppen agen n agen n the final result is u end up hurtin urself n regret it. If itz really sumthin u 2 hab he shouldn't do wut he did at all eventho he hab a really nice personality cuz pplz can fake it

[lilteardrop]

dump him. love shouldnt hurt.

[sweetdreamsx3]

I didn't even bother reading your post except for the title. All I got to say is "If it feels wrong, leave him". Easy as that and eventually you'll get over him and move on towards someone else.

[*Weird addiction*]

have u ever heard of the word "dump"??....

[frzn-lilyv]

thats rite. you're just going to be cheating on yourself if its for the looks. you're already angry at him! why make yourself stressed when you could dump him, move on with your life, and find a better man!! your "b/f" is one of those kinda guys have no morals i tell yah! ...good luck, btw!

[Counting]

Dump him. Dump him. DUMP HIM.