Single is Better. Options

[Devastation]

being single does mean having a lot more fun in a relationship! think about it, you can have more fun being single with a person then like being in a relationship due to the some of the lack of trust and due to the constant flirtaciousness we have in us. singleness i think would be better then a relationship, for now.

[> [ a k i k o...]

um...a month before I would agree. Being single is great. reasons why:
1. you are more carefree
2. never have to dress to impress
3. never have to worry about impressing the other person
4. can flirt with who ever you want whenever you want
5. don't have to be jealous
6. don't have to worry about ur bf.gf cheatin on you
7. don't have to worry about your parents nagging you all the time
8. waste less money
9. more time for your friends
10. you can date other ppls

Being single is great! but right now I'm in love with a my best friend only I don't think he knows how I feel. I think being in a relationship can have it's pros too!! wish me luck!

[*AngelicEyz00*]

i hate being single... i wanna be loved =[

[Joo_Hoodles]

Both have their ups and downs, their pros and cons...if you are single you have more freedom and u cant flirt and have fun with whoever you want...but thats nothing when you have someone you genuinely love. When you have someone like that, you don't need anyone else!

[sammi rules you]

i hate being single... i wanna be loved =[

i love you elba!

[black_cloud10]

ehh i can vouch for the "better to be single"ness even though i love my bf, i hate worrying why he disappears n stuff.

[Darkpekkle]

mmm, at times, being single is great. don't have to spend any cash on anyone but yourself, have more time to do the things you want/need to do... can flirt with whoever you want. don't have to be tied down, and fulfill the obligations of being in a relationship. However, being in a relationship is fun too, having someone to love and being loved back is a wonderful feeling.

[*CEP*]

But you don't have that special someone you can say, " you ro><orz my bo><orz " to when you really mean it.
*sigh* I don't like the single.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

[HaN4RaNg]

i totally agree... single life is AWESOME ^^.

althought at times u do want someone there to hold and cuddle with, being single is better to me.

u can flirt around, not hold urself back knowing that ur in a relationship, less drama/arguments, and.. and.. i know theres more but im just blanking out here >.<

[ohshiz]

i hate being single... i wanna be loved =[

i agree... i've been single for a couple years now due to academic and sports... it's been a devastating 2 years but i'm still living and lookin. girls around here drink and smoke ... which to me is a turnoff... but i still have a long ways to go

[chanleythemanley]

Let's see I've been single for... erm. 5 mnths now. Way better because I think. I felt pressured to call and be all nice. I'm just not cut out for love like that..

[Cynthee]

lol, I was single for about 1 year+, and I was perfectly happy about it, because...I didn't really need anyone...BUT...when my *future-boyfriend* came into my life...suddenly, I didn't like being single anymore...lol!!

Basically...until that special someone comes into your life, you don't really need anyone...

Like right now, I'm perfectly happy being with my guy, but I also know the feeling of being single...

[inquisitive_]

Being single is good but not for too long. It gets lonely!

[Levy2k6]

i've been single since like the beggining of my freshman year.... now im a junior and i'm about to get a gf...

it's fun being single for a while but then its like AHHH...

[xsweetdreams12x]

Yep. I love being single... I have been for 12 years.

But, sometimes it gets annoying when your friends start talking about how much they "love" their boyfriends... blech.

[Caitlin]

being single can be really great at times but I am single right now and I am going trough that whole thing like will I ever find anyone else to love other than him?

[[i]LLMATiC]

friends wit benefits is the best way to go i mean theres nothing keepin u bac from wut u wanna do.. u can flirt wit who eva `nd go out on a date wit who eva but bein in a relationship is also nice but sum girls i knoe tend to get well a lil too attached srry if ur one of those girls but yea they kall like evry hour or so i knoe its cuz they care `nd all but yea sumtimes id like sum privacy `nd all that stuff theres ups `nd downs to both sides

[chica777708]

its kinda hard to b single, I am single right now, but I love it, But when I do have a bf, I am happy and all kinds of stuff, I think I just like the love from having a bf... is that ok? or is that bad? AHHH oh well

[hangooksaram]

single but waitin :-)

www.chastitycall.org

[straightedge9]

i loved being single for a while, because my last boyfriend was a real ass... i felt so restrained around him. but after a while.... i started to realize that i reaaaallly wanted to be this one guys girlfriend...eeh its all so complicated.

[dani41790]

well that's your opinion and i respect that but i like being in a relationship. i like being loved

[bebebasa89]

<,Jul 28 2004, 12:12 AM]
2. never have to dress to impress

haha i always dress to impress. . i guess its based on the person,if a person has been single for a loOooong time [[ me ]] then most likely they hate bein single. . and people who have found their soulmate are happy being taken. . .both i guess have their pros and cons. .

[imadorkabledxd]

i agreeee

[inthemudhole]

But you don't have that special someone you can say, " you ro><orz my bo><orz " to when you really mean it.
*sigh* I don't like the single.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

^Exactly.

It feels really good to have someone to love, and to have someone that loves you.

I mean.. you can still have your freedom even with a boyfriend/girlfriend.

I have a boyfriend, and I don't feel all.. un.. free.. or whatever.

I think it's great. I hated being single.

[inthemudhole]

<,Jul 28 2004, 12:12 AM] um...a month before I would agree. Being single is great. reasons why:
1. you are more carefree
2. never have to dress to impress
3. never have to worry about impressing the other person
4. can flirt with who ever you want whenever you want
5. don't have to be jealous
6. don't have to worry about ur bf.gf cheatin on you
7. don't have to worry about your parents nagging you all the time
8. waste less money
9. more time for your friends
10. you can date other ppls

Being single is great! but right now I'm in love with a my best friend only I don't think he knows how I feel. I think being in a relationship can have it's pros too!! wish me luck!

Ermm.
I beg to differ..

1) Not really.. you can be a bit carefree even with a boyfriend/girlfriend.. just not as much as when you're single, but you still can be.

2) Pft. That is STUPID to get all dressed up for someone. They should love you for who you are.

3) You don't have to impress them. They are obviously already impressed with you if they want to be with you.

4) Eh. You CAN flirt with someone, but you shouldn't.

5) Why would you be jealous when you're the one in the relationship..?

6) Yeah, that one is true.. but you shouldn't have to worry. You should be able to trust them.

7) Well. I just have the attitude that I don't give a shit about what they have to say.. they will always nag you, single or not.

8) You don't have to spend a bunch of money.. they should enjoy your company more than what you can buy.

9) You can still hang with friends! I hang with my friends ALL the time and I have a boyfriend. You can even hang with both your friends, AND your boyfriend/girlfriend at the EXACT, same time.. HOW ABOUT THAT?!

10) Yeah. You CAN do that during a relationship, but you shouldn't.. you can, but you really should not.