Crushes, How do u talk to them? Options

Are you able to talk to the people u have a crush on? I think it's like so hard...i dunno maybe I'm just shy...but there's this guy and when I try to talk to him I get dizzy..is that weird? jw....

[conster]

wow u get dizzy? lols thats new... wen i talk to my crush.. well its either i act as if hes jus a friend or i talk very politely =D

[silver-rain]

yeah, it is kinda hard. and when i would talk to my crush, i would try to show off and stuff. but its better if you become friends, then talking with be easier.

[*Kathleen*]

That's not weird at all. You just have to make it not such a big deal. Try to tell yourself that if you want to be with him, communication is the first step. That's what I try to tell myself anyways. Don't worry. You only live once. Take chances and risks.

[ComradeRed]

What a funny smiley.

[krnl0v3r]

well when i talk 2 my crush i try 2 talk normaly like how i talk 2 reguler friends if you talk 2 him and get 2 know him he'll probably see the same with you because thats how me and my crush got closer but theres many ways to talk 2 your crush just try 2 act normal usually works the best

[JessJR1022]

talk to them like you would anyone else, just find some way to let them know that you like them..... what is the point of dating someone if you canno tbe friends and talk when you are dating

well we're sorta kinda friends...but he has a girlfriend so i kinda back off....i dunno cuz like all the good people seem to be taken or not interested....

[ichiban]

i just talk to him regularly. i dont find it hard or anythin

[sheepy]

heh. i love talking to him he makes me happy!

[*RiC3xBoy*]

yes, im doing it right now lol, but shes talking bout some other guy........

[> [ a k i k o...]

hmm...you have boy shyness, symptom: shyness, dizziness?? , sweating, breathing problems...but you'll survive.

steps on how to talk to that special someone:
1. begin by talking to your friends with him in your presence, when you feel you can talk to your friends normally (without dizziness) move on to step 2
2. try talking to HIM in a group with your closest friends so you'll be less nervous
( say Hi, and what's up)
3. Move onto to more personal conversations (like schoolwork, family members, etc) with him, but with less people
4. when you feel you are more confortable around him, talk to him ALONE. by this step, you'll feel more confortable with him, so it's not biggie
5. establish a bond between you guys!
6. be a little flirtatous, give him a little pat or just a friendly punch
7. give him signs you like him

note: remember, he's only HUMAN and so are you!! so treat him like one and talk to him as if he were your best friend

[Darkpekkle]

aww, don't worry, we all get nervous at one time or another when talking to someone we have a crush on!

I think the easiest way to communicate with him is if you treat him as if he was just another one of your friends. Of course, you could still flirt with him and stuff, but just be yourself. Act the way you normally act when you're hanging out with your closer friends.

[sh0rt13]

well..i used to never talk to my crush..but things changed..we started hangin out outside of school, and now we're like bestfriends..but there are times i am shy towards him.

and i think its a lot easier to talk to ur cursh online..instead of in person!

[HoneyGurl]

WEn i talk to my Crush i say stupid things and den he asks me out.. Hee hee.

[EddieV]

if i knew how to get with a person i have a crush on id be a godd...unfortunetly i dont and i dont want to...

[malfunktion]

Yea, i used to be shy in the 6th and would barely talk to any girls. Then BAM i hit puberty, confidence went waaaay ^^^^^^.

[xsweetdreams12x]

Yeah, when I'm with my crush I go all flushed, and I laugh all weirdly at stuff I don't even find funny.

But, the guy I'm crushing on, it's weird. I'm way more comfortable around him than when I'm with other guys.

[sandra]

its harder to talk to ur crush in person than online. in person, im really shy... i blush easily and smile a lot. so i talk to them more online than in person

[SuPerSoPow1025]

yea most of the time i could talk to them noramaly but this 1 girl .....lol

[mouse_3k]

i avoid my crushes unless they were a friend first before i started liking them..

[Spirited Away]

Some one gave me a great advice on dating and it WORKED for me.

Think of it this way: you're attracted to him because he's cute and has a great personality, but you're only interested in finding more about him and you're NOT in love with him or anything. Just think, no one is perfect and this guy you're crushing on might be a nose picker in public or an all around jerk. So, you only want to find out more about him, therefore, there's no reason to be nervous!

Don't think that you like him a lot, think that he's interesting and you want to know more.. that's all. If he thinks you're his type and that you're interested in him, he will make the first move (if he's not shy).

[aznplayaz]

i just talk to my crush like a friend but..don't do that cause then you'll get close like me and her did and if you go out it you'll have a deep relationship

[Winter]

I have no problem at all.

But my this other friend, whenever she sees her crush, she get all tongue tied and starts like hyperventilating or something. She says her heart starts beating really fast and her hands turn cold. She wants to open her mouth and say 'hi' but nothing will come out.

I guess it's quite normal...

[SSJ Kenshin]

its harder to talk to ur crush in person than online.

Amen to that. I rarely talk to my crushes in person unless I ask them out.

[aZn_hApPy05]

some of my crushes were my guy friends so they didnt know that i liked them. i also talk to them online.

just be comfortable with ur crushes cus if u want to go with the guy u have to be comfortable.

[Levy2k6]

i usually talk to my crushes like they were any other friend and i just keep hiding my feelings.... eh.

[sweetbabiix333]

usually when i like someone i just try to be myself around them ... i don`t get all scared to talk to them or else ... how will he/she get to know you ? i try N0T to make it obvious that i like him . =)*

[Counting]

Well, I always tease this guy I like..And he teases me back..So I punch him oO;;

[cutielilsuga]

me able to talk to my crushes
but i always have this constant thing to flirt with them a whole lot

[dani41790]

well b4 wen i had crushes i used to b afraid to tawk to em so i just tawked to em on aim XP

[biz451]

well its easy to talk to crushes for me. i look them deep into their eyes and speak clearly. not really hard at all.

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

not really i was always social and had a bit of confidence.... iono i guess its just me heh, but sometimes there are those girls who leave me speechless ..but mostly no its very easy

[biz451]

girls are easy to talk to

[imadorkabledxd]

lol i can't talk to my crushes either. somehow i come off as ditzy...it's quite sad. and i freeze up and then they think im some kinda boring person b/c i dont know what to say to them.

[FilipinoFaShow]

crushes...i get 'em all tha time at skool....i guess its normal....flirting with your crush is normal too....rite?

[iheartsimba]

just act like they ar eyour normal firends...i mean let them like you back for you and who you are

[mzteriouzme007]

haha!! i talk to him onlyne... juss don't EVER tell him yew like him, unless u tink he lykes u too...

[xoxspanky569]

I imagine them in their underwear....



















HaHA just kidding...that would make it worse. I just think of them as just another person...or i try to

[racegirl24A]

I never have a problem talking to my crush actually. Im always a little hesitant to go up to him in the beginning, but once I start talking to him its like I dont even like him anymore and we're just friends. maybe thats because i dont care about having a boyfriend right now though, and its not like I wanna ask him out or anything.

[Counting]

I don't know. I just laugh maniacally [sp?] and then they usually go away, leaving me to say, "Stupid. Stupid. STUUPID." and hitting my head.

[LoST SouL]

jus eat a lot of sugar b4 u tlk to im then wen u tlk 2 him jus b like "HI1!!!! HAHHAHA IM HYPER!!! HAHAH MY NAME IS!! HAHAHA" well hehe ahha it always works 4 me

[captured_serenit...]

it's easy i become their friend first and then talk to them more...

[sweetdreamsx3]

Lol, I haven't been shy lately since freshman year, so I'll just go up to him and start talking. "Hi, my name is Linda, what's your name?" And take it from there! :D Hope things work out great and take care! <33

[enticing.]

i tend to get along with guys really well. so when i do have a crush on them they don't really notice cause i still talk to them a lot. plus, they eventually find out by someone.

[dahding]

seeing as how i never show my deepest feelings in public, such as having a crush on someone, i get along fine with everyone. i just talk to them like i would talk to any of my friends.

[luckyxi3]

well with one crush, my friend told her for me... but lately i didn`t need to tell them... they could jus tell