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Parent Trouble, ...they know!!=O
Cynthee
post Jul 22 2004, 09:07 AM
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Basically, I'm not allowed to date...so I've been keeping my relationship with my boyfriend secret.

But now, I'm certain that my parents know...they've been telling me about how a girl like me needs to find a *right* boyfriend...and they've also been trying to get me to *realize* that my boyfriend isn't a good person to hang out with. Besides...my sister apparently told them *maybe* when they asked if I had a boyfriend...>_>

ANYWAY! So yea...what should I do? I was thinking about calling a break, but I'm afraid of hurting him...I'm definetly not breaking up with him either...

*I know that some of you might say that my parents knows what's best for me...and I guess they do...but they don't know my boyfriend...at all! They just don't want me dating...*
 
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post Jul 22 2004, 09:23 AM
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*I know that some of you might say that my parents knows what's best for me...and I guess they do...but they don't know my boyfriend...at all! They just don't want me dating...*

I'm gonna say the complete opposite.
To hell with them. Stick with your boyfriend.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi
 
brooker0che
post Jul 22 2004, 09:41 AM
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i agree totally. u cant just turn off your heart like that. happy.gif
 
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post Jul 22 2004, 10:10 AM
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yo babi stick wif yo man,mah parents like dat too but i date aniways!!!
 
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post Jul 22 2004, 11:15 AM
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My dad has the same problem with me, but he knows I have my bf, but if you love your bf forget your parents, and if they tell you they know tell them that it's unfair to keep you away from guys =P

parents=EVIL!
 
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post Jul 22 2004, 11:17 AM
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My parents are like that too. But eh, if you love him, go with your heart.
 
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post Jul 22 2004, 11:21 AM
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i would date regardless my parents. because they dont know the person i like and there fore they cat choose for me ya know. even if he was a good kid they just dont want me to date period so.......i think they should let me date. its way better to have them know who im dating. than me doing it in secret cause that way they dont know anything at all.
 
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post Jul 22 2004, 12:18 PM
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keep ur bf, ur parents must understand sooner or later
 
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post Jul 22 2004, 12:21 PM
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Screw what your parents are saying.

Stay with your boyfriend. Your parents don't have to know. shifty.gif
 
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post Jul 22 2004, 12:30 PM
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introduce ur b/f to ur family.....they might juss realize that he isnt such a bad guy after all, who knows maybe theyll even like him...if they dont, tell them that u love him, nd its ur choice
 
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post Jul 22 2004, 12:33 PM
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QUOTE(SkYlIneZx4xLiF @ Jul 22 2004, 12:30 PM)
introduce ur b/f to ur family.....they might juss realize that he isnt such a bad guy after all, who knows maybe theyll even like him...if they dont, tell them that u love him, nd its ur choice

Yeah. That's a good way to go. I just wish I'd done that in the past...
 
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post Jul 22 2004, 05:34 PM
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dont let your parents get in between your relationship..they cant force you to break up with him..keep your head up and stay strong _smile.gif
 
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post Jul 22 2004, 06:05 PM
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QUOTE(chinkieeyedpnoi @ Jul 22 2004, 10:23 AM)
To hell with them. Stick with your boyfriend.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

i agree wit lyk everyone...especially wit wat he sed^^

i keep all my relationships a secret...they usually mistake who i go out wit pinch.gif
 
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post Jul 22 2004, 06:05 PM
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stick wit him ur parents dont even kno him lols maybe u can intro him to them lols wen u and him are ready of course
 
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post Jul 22 2004, 06:43 PM
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well if you have asian parents,then asian parents are like that mad.gif
 
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post Jul 22 2004, 06:43 PM
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Try to make them understand.
 
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post Jul 22 2004, 06:48 PM
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I also think that you should stay with him. Why should your parents decide who you should or shouldn't date. It's your heart, and your emotions/feelings, not theirs'.
 
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post Jul 22 2004, 06:51 PM
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i was in the same exact situation
stay with your boyfriend and if you want to sometime try to get your parents to understand how YOU feel.
hope it all works out <3
 
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post Jul 22 2004, 07:40 PM
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just stick to your heart..
stay with him if you feel its gonna last for more than a year.. if not.. dump him..

<3 DAVe
 
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post Jul 22 2004, 07:42 PM
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I'm sure your parents are looking out for your best interest, but I think they should let you make your own choices and at least get to know more about your boyfriend.
 
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post Jul 22 2004, 08:10 PM
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ahh... they juss dont want u dating...
it is your life... but at the same time... u cant change the way they think...

if u really want a break from u n ur bF...
tell him why... dont juss say u want a break...

n for ur parents... its okayy to let them kno...
EVEN IF... they dont want u dating..
its not like they CAN do anythin about it...

u cant keep lovers apart from each other... wink.gif
 
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post Jul 23 2004, 12:37 AM
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yea i think u shud stick with yer guy.. thaz whut im doin rite now.. my parents r koo with me dating tho. but they jz dont like him.. but they dont even KNOW him.. they alwaiiz judge ya kno.. but if u reli wanna tell ur parents tho, u shud prove them wrong about whut they think of him. nd also about how ur old enough to hav a guy. i mean, they shud understand man, they went trough teenage life too! but THEN, if u dont think its worth getting in trouble nd shiizz(because its not that serious), then i dont think u shud tell ur parents.. but hey, we get in trouble from our parents fer nething newaiiz.. but yea i bet ur seirous about it nd yea jz stick with yer boii nd see whut happens.. did u tell ur bf about this newaiiz? does he understand about it? well he shud, nd he shud alwaiiz b by yer side no matter what. if he doesnt, that jz means hez not worth it!


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post Jul 23 2004, 02:24 AM
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Greetings!!

it depends at times. back den, when i had ma girl, i had to keep it away from ma momma. da rest of ma family were okeyz but they told me to keep it safe coz they know how horny i can be at times!! we are no longer togather though but ma momma did have a negative feedback on ma relationship wit ma x-boo. oh well. ya just gotta trust ya guts at times. stick to ya guns (if ya have one). and it's okeyz. breakups and wat nots are part and parcel of life experiences!! _smile.gif

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post Jul 24 2004, 08:36 PM
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just listen to them, but not listen to them. don't appear as if you're troubled for them telling you that because they'll just have more proof you have a bf. i'm kind of in the same situation happy.gif my mo-thurr keepz tellin me to keep my head off of boys and to study harder in school. luckily, she hasn't discovered me talkin to 'dude' late at night...biggrin.gif
 
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post Jul 24 2004, 08:41 PM
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Just stay with your BF. Your parents don't have to know you're still dating him.
 
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post Jul 24 2004, 08:45 PM
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you should def. stick with your boyfriend.. my dad is all no dating too, but you just have to date without telling
 
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post Jul 25 2004, 02:19 AM
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screw wht ur parents say. if u love him, keep him. nothing should stand in the way of u two and just forget about ur parents...they should soon realize tht ur growing up and needa start dating SOMEWHERE..jeez parents these dayz..
 
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post Jul 25 2004, 12:17 PM
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well.. mayb dis time ur parents r wrong since dey dunt noe ur bf rite? if u really dink he is the one.. just dunt let go.
 
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post Jul 26 2004, 10:02 PM
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yah im not allowed to date either but i still do. haha its u thats dating him not them, they shouldnt just say dont date him cuz they dont know him. keep the relationship
 
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post Jul 27 2004, 08:39 AM
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well if you have asian parents,then asian parents are like that  mad.gif


LMAO!! That's exactly ittt!! xD
 
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