wtf, >:o this is the part where i comprain to the internet |
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 Jun 26 2010, 02:19 AM
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seriously.
So I was stupid and am hooking up with this guy that is still so hung up over his ex-girlfriend. he's always going on and on about how "she's my holly, she's not coming back. wild animals don't come back." Or about how "she's so perfect and i'm so screwed up, every moment i had with her is like this great, cosmic mistake." WORD FOR WORD YALL. WORD FOR f*ckING WORD. So as shit goes, I thought we could just be friends with benefits or f*ckbuddies or whatnot, but of course, I end up catching "feelings" for this guy, so obviously, it sucks for me to have to listen to him EVERY DAY about how he's so SAD and DEPRESSED and is going to KILL HIMSELF. On top of that, he gets f*cking jealous whenever I'm with other guys. Even guy friends. Every time I'm like "okay, I'm going out now," he gives me this snide "Oh... hot date?" bullshit and I'm like "..." and he apologizes for his douchebag comments later, but wtf. And yeah, I'm seeing other guys. Just causally, no sex, just fun dates (I think I learned my lesson with being a slut). We're not exclusive. Of course, I'm not telling him I'm seeing other people, but how is it fair for me to tie myself to him? He says that he's fine with me seeing other people because he doesn't want to "stop me" from "enjoying myself" but the ONE TIME I mentioned I had a date, he got all cold and pissy. I like this guy. Like, I really do, but I can't handle his drama. So I tell him I think we should just stop what we're doing and he threatens to off himself. Nice. Very nice. If he actually does it, I'm going to feel f*cking guilty because I told him to shut the f*ck up and that i didn't care what he did. but yeah. no more sex for me until the third date! ok, end rant. we're done now for good, so no more ranting. promise. sandy was right :( |
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Jun 26 2010, 12:32 PM
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 poison Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 |
f*ckbuddies? Seriously?
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Jun 26 2010, 12:50 PM
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Ditch the drama-llama
You can do better Ill be you new F*ck buddy :D |
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Jun 26 2010, 12:57 PM
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 I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
which one is this one? i can't keep up with all your boys
didn't kevin and i already explain this stuff to you |
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Jun 26 2010, 02:26 PM
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yeah yeah, but ya'll didnt get into what i should do when he talks about how he's sad about his ex + when he gets jealous + when he threatens to kill himself.
its whatever, i'm not even talking to him anymore. |
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Jun 26 2010, 05:00 PM
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It sounds like he thought he could f*ck his emotional pain away and you're the girl he was using to do that. You deserve much better than that! Good riddance to him.
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Jun 26 2010, 05:08 PM
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I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
QUOTE(tokyo-rose @ Jun 26 2010, 05:00 PM)  It sounds like you thought you could f*ck your emotional pain away and he's the guy you were using to do that.
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Jun 26 2010, 05:13 PM
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Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
@JC: Symbiotic f*cking? :/
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Jun 26 2010, 05:17 PM
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I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
what
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Jun 26 2010, 05:21 PM
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what. i dont have emotional pain :(
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Jun 26 2010, 05:28 PM
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QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Jun 26 2010, 06:17 PM) what Using each other for a positive gain. QUOTE(batman @ Jun 26 2010, 06:21 PM) what. i dont have emotional pain :( That's why I didn't quite get why JC quoted my OP differently, haha. |
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Jun 26 2010, 05:39 PM
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I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
i quoted you differently because you were saying it sounds like he's using mel. but it sounds like she's using these dudes as much as they are using her.
no big surprise when you sleep around tbh |
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Jun 26 2010, 10:03 PM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,454 Joined: Nov 2008 Member No: 696,018 |
i've stooooopped. it was like a one-month rampage, but i'm done.
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Jun 27 2010, 12:58 AM
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 The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
you need to just get with a black or latino already mel. We really just want to f*ck and that's it.
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Jun 27 2010, 03:58 AM
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QUOTE(batman @ Jun 26 2010, 03:26 PM) yeah yeah, but ya'll didnt get into what i should do when he talks about how he's sad about his ex + when he gets jealous + when he threatens to kill himself. its whatever, i'm not even talking to him anymore. nothing at all. it isn't your responsibility, he is not your boyfriend nor should he be. anybody who talks about past relationship is not ready to move on. even if you are supposed to be his friend, you don't have to deal with his baggage. as much as you would want to console a friend with a broken heart and shit, it's annoying to hear the same sappy sad love story over and over. jc's right, you both are using each other. he just wants someone to listen to his story/get his. even if he gets jealous, don't mistake that sign for him falling for you. he's not getting attention from the girl he wants, so he expects full attention from you; wanting you to want him and nobody else. it's highly likely he'd toss you aside if his ex ever comes back. best is the leave the situation. if he really likes you, he'll call and personally go out of his way to be with you, not to just f*ck you and tell you about his problems. you do not have to announce you want to leave him and f*ck somebody else, just leave silently. no offense, most girls get weak in these situations and refuse to stop sleeping with the guy so i wouldn't be surprised if you f*cked him again. but, i hope you keep your word. gl |
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Jun 27 2010, 04:08 AM
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wtf, i cant believe no one has said this yet
dont forget that 1 last f*ck though, why not just ignore the shit out of him, gain the power back |
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Jun 27 2010, 07:31 AM
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I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
QUOTE(DoubleJ @ Jun 27 2010, 12:58 AM) you need to just get with a black or latino already mel. We really just want to f*ck and that's it. what, speak for yourself i think you meant to say QUOTE(DoubleJ @ Jun 27 2010, 12:58 AM) you need to just get with me already mel. i really just want to f*ck and that's it.
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Jun 27 2010, 06:03 PM
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The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
Lmao JC no bueno to you.
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Jun 28 2010, 04:51 PM
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eww
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Jun 28 2010, 11:01 PM
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tl;dr
this time I actually didn't read it though |
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Jun 29 2010, 12:32 AM
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i like how you had to deliberately write out how you didn't read it instead of just ignoring it and moving on with your life like all the cool people. you're so alt. that's so cool.
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Jun 29 2010, 01:19 AM
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٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
yeah cj you're such a jerk.
do u have pics of this guy. |
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Jun 29 2010, 04:35 AM
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QUOTE(batman @ Jun 29 2010, 12:32 AM) i like how you had to deliberately write out how you didn't read it instead of just ignoring it and moving on with your life like all the cool people. you're so alt. that's so cool. it's funny because it's true |
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Jul 1 2010, 08:43 PM
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It's annoying when you're an outlet for someone's pathetic relationship qualms. Good riddance.
This is how it's played out for me. "Bawwwww." "Hay your jokes make me laugh and forget all about him and I think you're attractive! I am totally giving you flirtatious vibes." "I like you explicitly." "Wait, now you're opening up to me a little. Wtf??? I just wanted someone who will listen to me in my rebounding phase!" I used to feel used at the fact that they benefited from my company for awhile before moving on, but eh, whatev. It's not like I lost anything (luckily I've never capitulated to having sex). |
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