i'm confused.. ?, does he really want to be with me.. |
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 Jul 21 2004, 05:14 PM
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okay. well here it is. my boyfriend and i have been out 6 times.. in a period of 11 months.. and i mean things are different this time. because he went out w/ someone else but then he broke up with her for me.. and now when we talk on the phone it seems as if things will never be the same.. i know they won't be but we broke up last time because he was getting sick of us fighting.. and i try not to fight with him but somehow either he or i gets mad over something [usually stupid] and we end up getting into it. i don't want to lose him, because i love him very much. and everytime i try to explain my feelings to him, it seems like he isn't listening or he is fed up with hearing it. what should i say to him? i just don't have anymore ideas. thanks
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Jul 21 2004, 06:06 PM
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 lil azn supermodel... =] Group: Member Posts: 461 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,841 |
ok, this is wat i try ta do...we're kinda lyk in tha same thing...write down all ur unanswered questions so u rememba them...dont make such a big deal bout them wen ur casually talkin on tha fone ir online...n wen u finally c him...unload, that way, he cant hide from u cuz hes right there...dont yell b calm n mature bout it...
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Jul 21 2004, 06:44 PM
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in a relationship its all about give and take, sometimes you have to give a little. i understand how it feels to have to keep arguing with someone wheter it be your friend, boyfriend, or family member, sometimes you gotta just give up and let the opposite person take glory for once. it sounds hard but if you want your relationship to last then you have to give up things. you should talk to him about this and see how he looks at it
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Jul 21 2004, 08:09 PM
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If you guys fight a lot, try to be as calm as possible when you talk to him.
I agree with jrockdollie, you have to let him win some of the fights if you really want to be together with him. But of course that does NOT mean you have to give up everything. Once he realizes that you're only letting him win because you want this relationship to work out, he'll let you win some too.  Good luck!
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Jul 21 2004, 08:21 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
write down the list of problems u wanna tell him about and call him out in person to talk it out wit u in a calm manner and he has to listen or else jus break up lol yes use it as a threat so he'll freaken listen
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Jul 21 2004, 09:52 PM
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lil azn supermodel... =] Group: Member Posts: 461 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,841 |
QUOTE(conster @ Jul 21 2004, 9:21 PM) write down the list of problems u wanna tell him about and call him out in person to talk it out wit u in a calm manner and he has to listen or else jus break up lol yes use it as a threat so he'll freaken listen uhh...isnt that wat i sed?? |
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Jul 23 2004, 06:02 AM
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 DefJam Gangsta Inc Group: Member Posts: 914 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,652 |
Greetings!!
if i were ya, i would sleep his sorry face and kick his ass to da next moon. if there is another moon beside da moon we know. anyway, ya deserve someone better. who can treat ya like a princess and doesn't two-time ya!! comin from a guy, he is an insult to gentlemen out there. jerks, buggers etc not included.  CHEERS CB!! |
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