should i still hold on?, or should i just move on... Options

[confused_azn]

my bf nd i broke up a week ago cuz my parents didnt really ''approve'' of him nd they sorta ''threatened'' him to break up w/me or else sorta thing.. nd its really f**ked up.. let along it was so embarassing too.. but anyway.. i just couldnt accept reality and just.. acknowlege the fact that we broke up.. but we talked nd all and everytime i always end up crying and telling him that i cant let go nd just forgot.. and one day.. (2 days ago) he got totally fed up with me and yelled at me for tourturing him with all the whinings.. he said that i should really move on.. and that even tho he doesnt want to see me w/someone else.. he still wants me to move on nd find someone better.. and he also told my best friend that he will not move on until i do.. but all the while..he flirts with this chick right in frnt of my face.. they would get all heated up and he would look so happy.. and then he tells me that he still has feelings for me but he would try not to.. and that it would take him a long time to get over me.. so im just confused.. cuz i really love him.. and i dont know if i should stay nd wait for him (when i get further in life.. such as getting a job) or just move on nd see other guys.. the problem is that i dont kno if he really means it when he said that 'i wont move on till u do' and i dont wana hurt him by going out w/another guy.. so im kinda stuck... HELP!!

[black_cloud10]

doesn't seem like your ready to start dating seriously again, but you're gonna have to move on. focus on your friends. start going out with them to the mall and stuff and don't be afraid to smile at the cute sales clerk or something. don't worry about your ex. i think he's in the weird transistion, wondering the same thing you are "should i move on or would it hurt her?" you have to move on.

[ilovesoup]

i kinda agree to black_cloud10 maybe ur X bf is on the same path like u do too..but he's jsut afraid that he might hurt u if u see him hitting on the other girl.. im sure he's having a hard time too so i guess u should give him a break for awhile..
*arghh i cant believe im talking like this*
but anyhooo.. Sometimes if its really over its really over... and i guess all we gotta do is to start all over again.. Yes, there's no doubt about it... parting gives us a lot of sorrow, especially if it is forever. But then goodbye is really just another way of saying Hello. We move on and on. Goodbye may mean a lot more Hello's. So we have to let go and we should know when to finally end up.
Saying goodbye doesn't mean forgetting the person you've loved before. It's the relationship, memories and hope that you should let go. Goodbye doesn't mean it's the end of the world. But instead it's a new beginning. New challenges that's full of hope. As if like you're looking on the other phase of your life.
Remember... Life is wonderful and full of challenges and opportunities. The only thing you should do is how, when and where a decision must come up. Don't let the memories stop you from seeing the sunshine again. Just don't live your life to the shadow of your past. Try to see the horizon of the future and you'll discover the Wonder of Life.

I hope everything work well to u..
Goodluck

<3 Rhaie

[strwbrryluv8]

if he still likes you... n u still like/love him... why dont you guys get back together without your parents knowing? or... maybe... well... things are easier to say than it seems... but you have to let go sometimes... to keep your mind off him... everytime you think of something that has to do with him and you wanna tell your friends... dont. everytime you see something that reminds you of him... try to ignore it and think about something else... this routine helped me get my mind off of this other guy i liked...

well... good luck!

[xsweetdreams12x]

It's unfair that you had to ruin a perfectly good relationship between you and your ex, just because of your parents. Maybe sit them down, and tell them that he is really a sweet guy, and that what you see on the outside, is not who he is on the inside, and that there's just a part of him that makes you love him so much.

Maybe they'll let you guys get back together.

If that doesn't work, then date him undercover.

[conster]

i think talkin to him about it should help u a lot... i think u should move on.. hes not the only guy anyways and plus hes trying to move on anyway so u should try urself too.. i knoe its hard but still u should still try

[defjam_gangsta]

Greetings!!

move one. get over it. no matter how tough or sucky it is, ya just gotta move on. trust me on dis one!!

CHEERS CB!!