should i care?, if he calls her? Options

[wayne]

probably not but heres tha situation, ok, its 12:00 at night and he's caller her to see if she's comming overher aunts way to play "basketball". should i really care? i told her i dont, and i dont like going thru all that drama bullSh#t. so i duno, wut do you guys think about this?

[*Podomaht*]

Bring a damn bat to his head. Tell him to back off your women. I'm serious, I let my friend screw around with my g/f. Ends up, she dumps me for him.

[wayne]

dats messed up. but remember talking to her once, and she was like she stopped boys from calling her, but theres only 2 that still can for some strange reason, because they are the 2 that seem to call her. and htey call all the time, i hate it when people say stuff like that. i just learned not to trust people when they say that. because i know she will still have guys calling her. but crap, if she f*cks up like what u said happened to you, its over.

[*Podomaht*]

Yeah man, keep a close watch on it. Don't let it slip by. One time, I was PO'd at my friend because he kept moving on her, and she replies with "Podo, just shut the f*ck up." Whoa. Comes to show you how fast people can change..

[black_cloud10]

midnitez kinda late for casual phone calls in stuff. man i dunno what i'd do about that

[NawtyLilAznChic]

uhh...who tha f*ck plays basketball at 12am wit a grl? i mean im really close wit my guy friend but i dont mess around wit him wen im datin this otha guy he doesnt trust me either tho...i chill wit my friend lyk everyday n we talk all tha time on tha fone...but wat ur grl is doin seems really shady...

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

just think for a minute, would she really betray you? if u think she would, then yes u should care.

[baybietenshi]

i dont know. i talk to my guy friends at night too. nothing's wrong with that. there's nothing goin on between me and any of them sorta. there's one where we're practically one bro & sis and one where we're like..best buddies..sorta..and one where i like him..dont know how he feels about me but yeah, we talk at night..so i guess you have reasons to be fishy and reasons not to? but you are with her cuz you trust her though, no?

[*Podomaht*]

i dont know. i talk to my guy friends at night too. nothing's wrong with that. there's nothing goin on between me and any of them sorta. there's one where we're practically one bro & sis and one where we're like..best buddies..sorta..and one where i like him..dont know how he feels about me but yeah, we talk at night..so i guess you have reasons to be fishy and reasons not to? but you are with her cuz you trust her though, no?

But put your self in the b/f's shoes. He's probably wondering why a guy is up on you. He's going to be jealous. So your guy friend should keep back. And most of the time, the guy "friend" is trying to score some shit. Your just too ignorant to notice.

[babieshortie]

uhmm do u trust ur grl enuff?.. if u do den..all u gotta do is haff a talk with her..

but if deres styll some dings dat r bothering u after dat..
u gotta hav a talk with dah guy too

[black_cloud10]

But put your self in the b/f's shoes. He's probably wondering why a guy is up on you. He's going to be jealous. So your guy friend should keep back. And most of the time, the guy "friend" is trying to score some shit. Your just too ignorant to notice.

now dats biased. mah main circle of friends esh all guys n two girls. none of them want to date meh. just cuz ur homeboy was wrong don't mean our's are gonna be

[always_n0vember]

my boyfriend had a problem with me talkin to all my old guy friends that called me... so the ones that i didnt care to much for.. i just stopped talkin too.. and the ones that i was really close too... i introduced to my boyfriend... so i think that if you meet the dude and ask him what his intentions are then maybe all will turn out to be a miss understanding... if you still feel weird.. tell her that you feel wierd.. and that its not that you dont trust her... you just dont trust the dude... get it?!?! hmm sorry if that was confusing...

[babygurl_xtacy]

I dont know.. cuz.. when my frien added my guy to her msn.. i was freaking out cuz she was saying shit about him before she met him and after she met him.. there was a big change to her attitude towards him.. so i was on her back for quite awhile asking her why she added him.. even tho shes one of my good friends but i was really still worrying.. well now i guess.. i stopped so.. if they are friends before..then i guess its normal for them to chat cuz i talk to my good guy frien all the time and he has a gf.. but if they met each other recently or thru u.. then you should start worrying.

[strwbrryluv8]

well... i mean... if i was "that girl" ... psh. yeahh i wuld want u to care...
even if were juss playing "bball" shuldnt you at least come WITH ME?!
well... juss talk to HER about it... n tell HIM why he's inviting her all ov the sudden...

[islandkiss]

I would care.. why don't you guys talk it out?

[xsweetdreams12x]

If this girl is your girlfriend, then of course you should care. I mean you guys are together, and if that guy is trying to go somewhere with her at 12:00 AM, then that's a serious problem. Tell her how you feel cause she'd probably care if you went to a pizza parlor with a girl at 12:00 AM.

[wayne]

i duno what to do... i dont feel like i should care. im at the point where if she talks to guys i dont freaking care cause if i find out she knows whats gonig to happen, and she's the one aying that she will do anyhting to keep the relationship working. so if she messes up with guys then i guess she can just see them as much as she wants cause she wont be talking to me

[whywasisostupid]

ur gf proped me lik a week ago...and she said...

this is retro_ballas girl, i dont kno what i can do to show him that i dont want nobody but him. i just want to play basketball with the other boy and thats it. Ur page is cute and the song is tight. just givin props

i have alot of guy friends that i talk to that are just friends, some may like me but i dont let that ruin our friendship, and my bf gets upset 2. she might jsut wants to b friends...i duno sry

[wayne]

i duno, it all seems too wierd to me... at 12:00 at night? wtf?

[whywasisostupid]

ya, that does seem kinda weird...why dont u talk to the guy and c wuts up

[*FreeStickers*]

You should definitely care. I know I would care if some girl was calling my boyfriend that late. I'm the only girl who calls him that late! and his mom. If he calls at all, he should call before 10.

[Mireh]

Yes, you should give a damn. Talk to him, and say if he's screwing around with your woman, you'll...er...do somthing drastic.

[wayne]

i duno, if i tell her that i wana talk to him about it, then she will think that im jeleous or something. and i hate going through all the drama bullsh#t

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

if it's innocent then there shouldn't be a problem & you don't have to be paranoid about it .. but if it bothers you that much just talk to him about it so he knows ..

[shawty_redd]

jus keep a close eye on the situation and see what happens

[baybietenshi]

But put your self in the b/f's shoes. He's probably wondering why a guy is up on you. He's going to be jealous. So your guy friend should keep back. And most of the time, the guy "friend" is trying to score some shit. Your just too ignorant to notice.

i'd get jealous but i'd talk to him and whatever it is... we'll work it out..imma trust him. that's what a relationship is about, trust. and guy friends are just like girl friends. and im not ignorant.

[J.K]

mm...i stopped going out with guys awhile ago...there was this one situation that i had and was similar to this...only a girl called my bf up at 12:30am and he went over...lets just say that i let it be but it kept happening so my bf's hair and my lighter had a nice long talk..which resulted in me ending up being arrested (woohoo). but yea, dont do anything drastic, but keep an eye one her and dont let it go on.

[defjam_gangsta]

Greetings!!

just lay da smackdown brotha. show him ya meant business. as in da smackdown business.

CHEERS CB!!