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Me, My Ex, My Bf ???????, HeLp????
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post Jul 17 2004, 06:31 PM
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[warning:this is a pretti long situation and sorrie if its confusing]

heres the situation:

me and my ex broke up on june 15 [yes i still remember it tongue.gif ] and then he went out with one of his ex a few days after we broke up. i knew about that since i was the one who told him to [he told me he still likes her so yea..] they went out for a couple of weeks and they broke up recently. so he tells me that he still likes me and still wants to be with me. i still like him and all but i go with someone right now since yesterday. [im going with his close friend aka his cousin] my ex and i still talk and stuff and so i told him that i go with his close friend [his name is wen][my ex name is richard] so i told him and it was realli hard to tell him since i still got feelings for him. but i think that i should give wen a chance since richard already got one and he screwed that one up so its hard to trust him again. when i told richard about that, we talked about some other stuff and then he tells me that i lied to him but i dont kno what i lied to him about. i dont wanna ask him cuz he doesnt want to talk to me and hes realli pissed at me. i understand why hes pissed at me and stuff and why doesnt he trust me? i told him that i didnt lie and that i told the truth but he tells me he cant trust me anymore and he tells me that he hates liars [directing to me in a way ermm.gif ] i cant stand it being like this. it realli upsets me that hes treating me this way cry.gif i was crying because i dont want to lose a friend like him. i cant trust him that much but at least he can cheer me up and support me. i dont kno what i can do about this. i think i should let him cool down for a bit but what am i gonna tell him after that? hes prolly gonna get mad at me if i talk to him again. so i dont kno if i should talk to him. and my bf [wen] he doesnt kall as much as he use to anymore. before he would call at 9. then a week later he calls at 9:30. then he calls at 10. after that 10 something. and now he hardly calls. im not sure if hes busy or something else is going on. i cant talk to him for now because hes away visiting his mom. im not sure what i should do about this. maybe im just worrying too much or its just me. i dont kno what to dO!!! wacko.gif can anyone please help me out? i dont kno what to do about these problems. sad.gif
 
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post Jul 17 2004, 07:03 PM
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i didnt read word for word so forgive me if i fudge up on the advice..

well...when i break up with someone..i usually come running back to my ex cuz iono , i hate being single.... so maybe ur ex is doing the same,

I think you should just keep going out with ur current boyfriend , and dont trip if he doesnt call as often right now..u said hes out visiting his mom... have you tried calling him? sometimes guys dont wanna call too much cuz it mite get annoying...and we love it when girls call us. iono hope that helps..
 
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post Jul 18 2004, 05:40 PM
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QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Jul 17 2004, 7:03 PM)
i didnt read word for word so forgive me if i fudge up on the advice..

well...when i break up with someone..i usually come running back to my ex cuz iono , i hate being single.... so maybe ur ex is doing the same,

I think you should just keep going out with ur current boyfriend , and dont trip if he doesnt call as often right now..u said hes out visiting his mom... have you tried calling him? sometimes guys dont wanna call too much cuz it mite get annoying...and we love it when girls call us. iono hope that helps..

yeah u should just stay wif ur bf now.. nd if ur ex broke up wif u nd when for his ex nd he wants to come bac wif you.. dunt u dink hes gonna break up wif u soon agan? grr.. im not suree.. but if u really like him.. its ur choice =]
 
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post Jul 18 2004, 08:02 PM
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Who do you like better??

If I was you, I'd stay with your current boyfriend because I don't think he'd like you dumping him for your ex... ermm.gif
 

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