long distance relationship....., .....any tips? |
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 Jul 15 2004, 05:04 PM
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well here's how it is..............ya see i love my bf and we've been together for like only two months funny thing is i found out he loved me before we went out well anywho back to the point ummmm.........i'm moving in august and we decided to try the long distance thing..........do you guys have any idea how we could try to make it last?
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Jul 15 2004, 05:08 PM
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 fragile Group: Member Posts: 1,044 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,807 |
1. no trying to flirt with other guys
2. makesure you have good contact with him all the time 3. get email and all that stuff from him 4. be happy 5. no cheating |
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Jul 15 2004, 07:01 PM
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aBABYmomma Group: Member Posts: 82 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,380 |
NOt to burst your bubble or anything... its hard to keep a long distance relationship. YOu can do all those things like.. talk to each other every other hour or email each other and all that.. but i just think that its hard not being able to see the other person.. being able to hold his hand or give him a hug.. its hard.. ive been in on and it didnt work out.. but who knows lots of people have had a long distance relationship.. and some of them do work out... just be strong... and be trustworthy...
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Jul 15 2004, 08:08 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,508 |
yea, long distance relationships are really exhausting to keep up. And it's hard to comfort a person (with hugs, etc.) when they are so far away from you.
but... i guess you can try: 1. having regular chats on AIM, 2. giving each other personal space when needed, 3. send each other digicam/webcam pics or have a live webchat with him, 4. talk on the phone once in a while, 5. mail each other little gifts to show that you still care every now and then, 6. be loyal!, 7. Schedule monthly visits (if you're not moving too far away). take care~ 
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Jul 15 2004, 08:13 PM
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 lil azn supermodel... =] Group: Member Posts: 461 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,841 |
QUOTE(always_n0vember @ Jul 15 2004, 8:01 PM) NOt to burst your bubble or anything... its hard to keep a long distance relationship thas tru...u havta rememba that real life isnt lyk tha movies tha most important factors ta keep a long distance relationship intact are: communication n trust always stay in touch...dont lyk let things fade away...n trust him no matta wat happens, ur not gona noe wat hes doin but ur gona havta take his word fa it...if ppl tell u hes cheatin...dont believe them...dont doubt him at all...dont fight bout cheatin cuz that'll prolly end ur relationship...ur not there ta monitor him n hes not there ta monitor u...give him tha benefit of tha doubt... |
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Jul 15 2004, 09:02 PM
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Long distance relationships don't work out too well. But ya never know, yours may last.
Call him and IM him as much as possible. Communication is KEY.
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Jul 16 2004, 12:40 AM
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u nO u lub meEh..heh Group: Member Posts: 61 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,402 |
hey...well...ima try ta gib u hope..buh i mean u really gotta love each other haha...ne who...i tynk u should emaiil and talk err day....cuz lik same stuff happened to me...buh under diff cercumstances....my mom foudn out i hadda gf..and jeah ima gyrl so u figure...it went really bad and she moved to her dads an hour away....we talked on da fone on da dwn low @ school...on frens cell fones...and we emaiiled eerr day...i didnt see her fer A LONG TYME buh we steyyed stroung....so i mean it could werk fer u toO....weve been together fer almost 10 months..and shes mobin bak!>..omg...sry i gab to much info bout my self but i got excited heh....buh ne ways jeah...love ish da key..also communication....uh then we got bak round cuz we been goin in and out of r relationship fer goin on three yrs...(( UGH...breakin up ....due to r parents!!))....buh jeah stey stroug...if ish meant to b...it will b!
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Jul 16 2004, 10:19 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 24 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,870 |
awwww how cute but yeah i know it might not work out........i'm the one that told him its ok if he doesn't want to try cause i know life isn't like fairy tales with happily ever afters and all that and he told me to try it cause he said who knows i guess he's the one that believes more than me and i want to believe but i'm scared that if i believe then i'm gonna get my hopes up only to let them fall well thanks for what is said so far.........and i understand very well that it might not work out
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Jul 16 2004, 10:41 AM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
try to talk to him every single day.
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Jul 17 2004, 08:41 AM
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 DefJam Gangsta Inc Group: Member Posts: 914 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,652 |
QUOTE(cutielilsuga @ Jul 16 2004, 6:08 AM) 1. no trying to flirt with other guys 2. makesure you have good contact with him all the time 3. get email and all that stuff from him 4. be happy 5. no cheating GREETINGS!! i agree. but it's gonna take more than dis. long distance can spell lots of things ya know. but ya gotta have faith. imma not tryin to make it sound bad, just wanna get yaself mentally prepared if it ever happened aight?! CHEERS CB!! |
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