sex (13++), im really curious.. Options

[tsohg]

I really didnt know if i sohuld post this but alot of my friends have had oral and they still claim to be virgins. I think that by doing oral you lose your virginity. I was just really curious as to what everyone else thinks.

[mouse_3k]

yea. you have to have insertion (weiner into the vag) to not be a virgin..


i voted yes

[islandkiss]

it's called oral SEX.

[ThePrincessofTKD]

gosh....wtf!? don`t your parents tell you ANYTHING?!

what about at school?! the freakin` teachers?!

the ways of LOSING YOUR VIRGINITY are..

1] kissing
2] oral sex
3] sex

I ASKED MY MOM! SO HA! and she`s a nurse.

PEOPLE! IT`S NOT WEIRD TO ASK ADULTS! gosh...people these days..

[tsohg]

PEOPLE! IT`S NOT WEIRD TO ASK ADULTS! gosh...people these days..

hahah now-a-days its adults vs. teens but frankly, kids these days are quite stupid. I agree

[ThePrincessofTKD]

hahah now-a-days its adults vs. teens but frankly, kids these days are quite stupid. I agree

then did you ask your parents? it`s kinda sad...choosing createBlog.com over your OWN parents..

[tsohg]

then did you ask your parents? it`s kinda sad...choosing createBlog.com over your OWN parents..

I dont think my parents even know what oral sex is at all. I hardly think they will understand the concept being an old traditional korean family and all. O and im not choosing createblog over my parents. My parents simply do not know about oral and my close friends are the ones doing it. Im not that much of an idiot

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

heh your virginity is no more than just your Innocence,and if ur doing something naughty are u really innocent? now a days oral is just like a french kiss,not much of a big deal

[ThePrincessofTKD]

I dont think my parents even know what oral sex is at all. I hardly think they will understand the concept being an old traditional korean family and all. O and im not choosing createblog over my parents. My parents simply do not know about oral and my close friends are the ones doing it. Im not that much of an idiot

oh cool! you`re korean. hi!!!

anyways...you`re saying that your parents don`t know what oral sex is..? what about asking your doctor about it? `cause my doctor asked me "did we have that sex talk?" i was like "nooooooooo...." but she just told me to go online on this website...but i totally forgot the name of the website..haha

well i just don`t see how your parents wouldn`t know about oral sex...or virginity and all that...i mean...how did they have you? LMFAO..

[tsohg]

heh your virginity is no more than just your Innocence,and if ur doing something naughty are u really innocent?   now a days oral is just like a french kiss,not much of a big deal

so you believe that by frech kissing you lose your virginity? where is the line between virginity and non-virginity?

EDIT

my parents know about good, safe, marital sex of course but the times are changing and the concept is totally bizzare and foriegn to my parents. they dont even know how to turn on my computor (no joke) hahaha

[IIO__oII]

oral SEX

[mouse_3k]

the ways of LOSING YOUR VIRGINITY are..

1] kissing
2] oral sex
3] sex 

u cant lose ur virginity by kissing comeon now. oral sex is just weiner in mouth. its not really losing your virginity (idk, maybe u can call it losing your oral sex virginity or w.e)

sex, ya. weiner in vagina is losing your virginity. Im sure thts the only way to lose ur original virginity. idk all this jinx of losing oral sex virginity and all...i think its all made up. theres only one virginity. and tht one original virginity is lost once the penis enters the vagina

PEOPLE! IT`S NOT WEIRD TO ASK ADULTS! gosh...people these days..

eh, i dont like adults...bad experience with them so id rather ask my dog for advice then my parents

[FrUiTy TuTie]

gosh....wtf!? don`t your parents tell you ANYTHING?!

what about at school?! the freakin` teachers?!

the ways of LOSING YOUR VIRGINITY are..

1] kissing
2] oral sex
3] sex

I ASKED MY MOM! SO HA! and she`s a nurse.

PEOPLE! IT`S NOT WEIRD TO ASK ADULTS! gosh...people these days..

huh kissing doesnt make u lose ur virginaty..

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

lol whois seen "Mean Girls" ? lol "half virgin" lol....

[babixlilac]

u are a real virgin cus u had oral sex..

[mouse_3k]

lol in mean girls..."If you have sex, you will die" haha tht was funny...



how could u be half virgin NE wayz..?

[malzer87]

i think of "losing your virginity" as the hymen being broken by a penis...something that doesn't happen during oral...i really think you're still a virgin after giving oral...just not quite as pure.

[*NatiMarie*]

Of course not...

You're not a virgin.

It's stated in books. Like mentioned above, oral SEX.

=P

Once you have sex-->BOOM you lose your virginity.

Thank you.

[dani41790]

yea u r cuz u only lose ur virginity if a guys thingy goes in ur thingy or if ur thingy goes into a gurls thingy (depending if ur a gurl or boy)

[tsohg]

ahhhh this topic is way to spilt

[iheartsimba]

you lose your viginity if the penis goes in the vagina.
there you go.
thats the only way to lose it.
in kristins opinion.

[ThePrincessofTKD]

YEAH KISSING.

wow...people DO read my posts..

anyways...i didn`t mean LITERALLY. like once you kiss someone it`s not like "LIKE...OMFG...I`M NOT A VIRGIN NO MORE!!!"

what about being a PURE virgin? i mean...those NUNS have to be virgins right? `cause they devote their virginities to God, so they have never kissed anyone [mouth to mouth] or had sex. unless you ALL OF A SUDDEN wanted to become a NUN..

being a COMPLETE virgin wouldn`t be doing any of the three in my list. so if ya did...you`re just a PARTIAL virgin...

hey!! that`s what my mommy said!!

[*krnxswat*]

gosh....wtf!? don`t your parents tell you ANYTHING?!

what about at school?! the freakin` teachers?!

the ways of LOSING YOUR VIRGINITY are..

1] kissing
2] oral sex
3] sex 

I ASKED MY MOM! SO HA! and she`s a nurse.

PEOPLE! IT`S NOT WEIRD TO ASK ADULTS! gosh...people these days..

Have you ever heard of something called anger management?

Anyways, I thought the only way to lose your virginity was through sexual intercourse?

Edit;
I'm guessing your parents told you you lose your virginity by kissing?

[WTFwasIthinking]

no, it's still oral sex..... SEX is the word....

you are losing your virginity... and you're purity if you wanna go bible standard... on the real tip, dass losin' your virginity..... is like sayin', you get anal and is that losing your virginity? iss not goin' in the vagina so??? c'mon, get real

[EmeraldKnight]

I think this might fit well in "Debate".. and it realli seems that everyone has contrasting opinions on the definition of "virginity"

[hybrid]

Er, there's two opinions on this.. I'm not taking one side, but I'm more leanient to no.

you are losing your virginity... and you're purity if you wanna go bible standard... on the real tip, dass losin' your virginity..... is like sayin', you get anal and is that losing your virginity? iss not goin' in the vagina so??? c'mon, get real

^^ but that is true.

[*krnxswat*]

vir·gin·i·ty ( P )

The quality or condition of being a virgin.

which would then lead to..

vir·gin ( P )
n.
A person who has not experienced sexual intercourse.

dictinary.com

[hybrid]

vir·gin ( P )
n.
A person who has not experienced sexual intercourse.

dictinary.com

So.. that means no, right?

[*krnxswat*]

So.. that means no, right?

But that's talking about sexual intercourse, and the person who created this thread is talking about oral sex. So wouldn't you still be a virgin according to the dictionary?

[WTFwasIthinking]

sex (sks)
n.

The property or quality by which organisms are classified as female or male on the basis of their reproductive organs and functions.
Either of the two divisions, designated female and male, of this classification.
Females or males considered as a group.
The condition or character of being female or male; the physiological, functional, and psychological differences that distinguish the female and the male.
The sexual urge or instinct as it manifests itself in behavior.
Sexual intercourse.

[*krnxswat*]

sex (sks)
n.

The property or quality by which organisms are classified as female or male on the basis of their reproductive organs and functions.
Either of the two divisions, designated female and male, of this classification.
Females or males considered as a group.
The condition or character of being female or male; the physiological, functional, and psychological differences that distinguish the female and the male.
The sexual urge or instinct as it manifests itself in behavior.
Sexual intercourse.

But then why are you leaving out sexual intercourse?

[ThePrincessofTKD]

Have you ever heard of something called anger management?

Anyways, I thought the only way to lose your virginity was through sexual intercourse?

Edit;
I'm guessing your parents told you you lose your virginity by kissing?

i stand corrected..

[Spirited Away]

YEAH KISSING.

wow...people DO read my posts..

anyways...i didn`t mean LITERALLY. like once you kiss someone it`s not like "LIKE...OMFG...I`M NOT A VIRGIN NO MORE!!!"

what about being a PURE virgin? i mean...those NUNS have to be virgins right? `cause they devote their virginities to God, so they have never kissed anyone [mouth to mouth] or had sex. unless you ALL OF A SUDDEN wanted to become a NUN..

being a COMPLETE virgin wouldn`t be doing any of the three in my list. so if ya did...you`re just a PARTIAL virgin...

hey!! that`s what my mommy said!!

Kissing?

I've seen a Moms give kisses to their 5 year old on the mouth many times before... are those kids no longer pure virgins?

I don't get how kissing=sex=devirginzed.

[ThePrincessofTKD]

Kissing?

I've seen a Moms give kisses to their 5 year old on the mouth many times before... are those kids no longer pure virgins?

I don't get how kissing=sex=devirginzed.

yeah so like...read the post above you.

[tsohg]

The real definition of virginity has always been changing.
At first to be a virgin you hymen could not be broken. (Popping the cherry)
then as the year went by the definition changed because some people were not born wwith hymens so it was anyone that participated in sexual intercourse. Whats the definition now? Virginity is being thrown around alot.

[WTFwasIthinking]

But then why are you leaving out sexual intercourse?

Because the definition of virginity isn't the period in which you didn't have sexual intercourse. it's the period of you not having sex......

The sexual urge or instinct as it manifests itself in behavior.

that means the reactions of sexual urges which can mean blow jobs, anal, feeling a girl or guy up, jackin' the opposite sex off, blah blah blah

DICTIONARY.com
vir·gin·i·ty ( P ) Pronunciation Key (vr-jn-t)
n. pl. vir·gin·i·ties
The quality or condition of being a virgin.
[b]The state of being pure, unsullied, or untouched.[/b

ya'll are gon' be like, well everyone touches you... well it's the motive that matters..... the MOTIVE

[h22fanatik]

oral sex does not mean ur f*cking...that's y they have 1st, 2nd, and 3rd bases. 3rd base is not home run. got it?

[WTFwasIthinking]

LoL... that's just a way of putting it so people can get away with it and no feel guilty. They're makin' excuses for themselves.

So as I asked before, is anal sex not taking away virginity just because it didn't go in the vagina? NO! If you think so, you're lyin' to yourself.

[*AngelicEyz00*]

What the eff?? haha... you're still a virgin even if you have oral sex.... you lose your virginity when t3h penis penetrates the vagina... Yes true, oral sex is still a type of sex, but you don't lose your virginity by doing it...

[WTFwasIthinking]

What the eff?? haha... you're still a virgin even if you have oral sex.... you lose your virginity when t3h penis penetrates the vagina... Yes true, oral sex is still a type of sex, but you don't lose your virginity by doing it...

PayCe ~1~

LMAO...

aright, keep allowing yourself to think that...

virginity is about purity and all of that takes away from purity....


once again:
The sexual urge or instinct as it manifests itself in behavior.

but iss all on you...

[pikimoo]

I've kinda done a little study on this before. (not much though, really)

But what I got from it:

Virginity is a description of a female who has never come in contact with the male er.. private.. region?

[Spirited Away]

I've kinda done a little study on this before. (not much though, really)

But what I got from it:

Virginity is a description of a female who has never come in contact with the male er.. private.. region?

well that's even more problematic because what if my hand acidentally brushed by a guy's "private region"? I mean, it can happen...

[WTFwasIthinking]

well motive means everything... you can kill someone completely by accident and not be punished for it....

like say you bump into someone and knock 'em off a cliff....

[pikimoo]

well that's even more problematic because what if my hand acidentally brushed by a guy's "private region"? I mean, it can happen...

That's not too likely to happen, but if you're going to be nitpicky.

Yeah. I would suppose you're no longer a virgin.

What are you doin around naked guys anyways?

[sheepy]

umms not tooo sure..

[cutielilsuga]

your still a virgin cuz you haven't actually done it with someone

[WTFwasIthinking]

LoL... but for the guy, it's no different

how different is stickin' it in a girl's vagina and stickin' it in her mouth or her a$$.... they're all sexually driven

The sexual urge or instinct as it manifests itself in behavior.

last time I'm postin' that (FROM DICTIONARY.COM - DEFINITION OF SEX)... but that means any reaction from a sexual urge.... which means it is technically sex... no more virginity... say buh'bye... tchao

PayCe ~1~
I'm out!

[tsohg]

Alot of people way more to the "oral sex does not take away your virginity" rather than the otehr other side. I guess thats how everybody grew up.

[WTFwasIthinking]

It's more that people have a tendency to make excuses for themselves so they don't feel as bad about something. So they make excuses and say oral sex doesn't take away their virginity because they wanna seem pure.... but technically, you're not

[Spirited Away]

That's not too likely to happen, but if you're going to be nitpicky.
Yeah. I would suppose you're no longer a virgin.

It did happened And I'm still a virgin, thank you very much.

As you know, accidents happen and I happen to brush at it because he ran into me. I "came in contact" with it, but I had no sexual thoughts.

What are you doin around naked guys anyways?

He wasn't naked.

[tsohg]

It's more that people have a tendency to make excuses for themselves so they don't feel as bad about something. So they make excuses and say oral sex doesn't take away their virginity because they wanna seem pure.... but technically, you're not

so most of the people that say oral sex isnt really sex have probably had sex?

[WTFwasIthinking]

oral sex is sex.... see, oral SEX!?!?!?

that should end it there but people try to bring every angle of excuses that they can possibly bring.... but oral sex is sex....

[pikimoo]

It did happened And I'm still a virgin, thank you very much.

As you know, accidents happen and I happen to brush at it because he ran into me. I "came in contact" with it, but I had no sexual thoughts.



He wasn't naked.

Touching his pants/boxers doesnt count

[tsohg]

?!?!?! are we arguing that the accidental touch of genitals makes you become a non-vigin?! becuase its happened many times to me and i dont think that this is an issue

[WTFwasIthinking]

?!?!?! are we arguing that the accidental touch of genitals makes you become a non-vigin?! becuase its happened many times to me and i dont think that this is an issue

you sure it was an accident?

LMAO... j/k

[I_LiKe_PiRaTeZ]

gosh....wtf!? don`t your parents tell you ANYTHING?!

what about at school?! the freakin` teachers?!

the ways of LOSING YOUR VIRGINITY are..

1] kissing
2] oral sex
3] sex 

I ASKED MY MOM! SO HA! and she`s a nurse. 

PEOPLE! IT`S NOT WEIRD TO ASK ADULTS! gosh...people these days..

uh.. dude .. your mom is sooo F*****G wrong, the only way that you are not a virgin is if the beef is inserted in the taco.. thats the only way..

<3 KT

[tsohg]

the ways of LOSING YOUR VIRGINITY are..

1] kissing
2] oral sex
3] sex

No, i think in a sense she is right. If your talking about whole pureness then any of those things will make you lose you who pureness.

[inthemudhole]

you lose your viginity if the penis goes in the vagina.
there you go.
thats the only way to lose it.
in kristins opinion.

Yeah. I agree with Kristin on that one.

[Spirited Away]

Touching his pants/boxers doesnt count

Did I say that I touched his pants?

No, I said that my hands brushed his private part, which meant that my hand came in contact (indirectly) with what's under his pants.

There could be instances where a couple wanted to have sex and got naked, start touching each other, then decides against doing it. They are still virgins.

[pikimoo]

Did I say that I touched his pants?

No, I said that my hands brushed his private part, which meant that my hand came in contact (indirectly) with what's under his pants.

There could be instances where a couple wanted to have sex and got naked, start touching each other, then decides against doing it. They are still virgins.

That's an odd thing to happen, but whatever.

This is just what I've read from various places and whatnot.

I'm stopping this convo.

Now.

[sandra]

im confuzzled now >< i always thought u only loose ur virginity in sex but oral too??!

[mouse_3k]

Of course not...

You're not a virgin.

It's stated in books. Like mentioned above, oral SEX.

=P

Once you have sex-->BOOM you lose your virginity.

Thank you.

wow, its ALSO stated in books, u lose ur virginity once the penis enters the vagina gosh..

also, even though its oral sex or anal sex, so wht if ur not pure NE more. then your a un-pure virgin. so what..

as i said before...ur only losing your ONE and ONLY virginity when the penis enters the vagina...its not like ppl have like 3 virginity for oral, anal, and normal damn..ONE virginity. and tht virginity is for the penis to go into the vagina. if tht dont happen, your still a virgin.

[WTFwasIthinking]

wow, its ALSO stated in books, u lose ur virginity once the penis enters the vagina gosh..

also, even though its oral sex or anal sex, so wht if ur not pure NE more. then your a un-pure virgin. so what..

as i said before...ur only losing your ONE and ONLY virginity when the penis enters the vagina...its not like ppl have like 3 virginity for oral, anal, and normal damn..ONE virginity. and tht virginity is for the penis to go into the vagina. if tht dont happen, your still a virgin.

nope, not true...

part of virginity is purity.... that's essentially what the definition came from..... PURITY....

DEFINITION OF VIRGINITY:
vir·gin·i·ty ( P ) Pronunciation Key (vr-jn-t)
n. pl. vir·gin·i·ties
The quality or condition of being a virgin.
The state of being pure, unsullied, or untouched.

[mouse_3k]

as i said before its NOT about purity. jeez, its like saying if u watched porn, ur not pure omg u watched porn, ur not a virgin no more. Its like OMG he/she masterbated, shes not pure, shes not a virgin no more. omg the boy touched the girls breast, he aint pure no more. hes not a virgin. all this stupid stuff, ur not pure which means your not a virgin is wrong. comeon now. you are still a virgin until the penis goes into the vagina. tht simple. u said if you have like a sexual experiance, then ur not a virgin no more yes? well wht if the boy just touched the girls breast? wht if the girl just touches the boy private parts? thts not pure so does tht mean they are not virgins no more? they still are until the vagina and penis makes contact...how many times do i have to say tht..

[xHalf nHalf]

well either way, oral or the old fashioned way you can still receive/send your partner an STD. and what does that stand for kiddos? sexually transmitted disease..so to me, having oral sex for the first time is a way to lose the V card just a much as the other way

[WTFwasIthinking]

as i said before its NOT about purity. jeez, its like saying if u watched porn, ur not pure omg u watched porn, ur not a virgin no more. Its like OMG he/she masterbated, shes not pure, shes not a virgin no more. omg the boy touched the girls breast, he aint pure no more. hes not a virgin. all this stupid stuff, ur not pure which means your not a virgin is wrong. comeon now. you are still a virgin until the penis goes into the vagina. tht simple. u said if you have like a sexual experiance, then ur not a virgin no more yes? well wht if the boy just touched the girls breast? wht if the girl just touches the boy private parts? thts not pure so does tht mean they are not virgins no more? they still are until the vagina and penis makes contact...how many times do i have to say tht..

well if you wanna go bible standard it isn't pure to watch porn....

if you go bible standards, none of us are virgins cuz we all sinners and thinkin'/lustin' about another women/man kills the purity and technically you're not longer pure.... it also says masturbation is not pure....

no, I ain't a church boy (I'm the complete opposite) but I'm not in denial.... stop tryn' make excuses.... so you're tellin' me oral sex IS PURE?!?!?!? it either is or isn't... and it isn't.... CLEARLY

and if the girl touches the boy's private parts sexually and intentionally and with the correct motives, that isn't pure unless ya'll married..... I'm not sayin' I'm pure in every outright way but I seriously don't mess around with girls like that.... I'm not plannin' to until I'm 100% sure I'm with the girl I wanna be with... making out bein' the exception....

well regardless, it ain't pure at all... as I said, as yourself all those things in another aspect... you say isn't unpure... so IS IT PURE?!?!?! no, so c'mon...

it's still SEX... and regardless, watching porn is NOT SEX.... yes, that is unpure but oral SEX is still oral SEX + IT IS UNPURE = no longer a virgin if you took part in it

stop makin' excuses

[xpinkiexswearx]

kissing is not loosing your virginity..neither is oral sex. cuz you dont say oh i lost my virginity to this guy cuz i made out with him or i gave a guy a BJ.
'There is a lot of pressure to lose your virginity - that is, to have sexual intercourse for the first time. ' oh well i don`t have to think about things like tht yet

[mouse_3k]

no, I ain't a church boy (I'm the complete opposite) but I'm not in denial.... stop tryn' make excuses.... so you're tellin' me oral sex IS PURE?!?!?!? it either is or isn't... and it isn't.... CLEARLY

ok
#1 im NOT in denial
#2 It isnt a excuse
and idk to u, but to me, oral sex is more pure then normal sex

well to me, you are a virgin unless you have sex. normal sex so im not making excuses. its just my beliefe. sorry if u are against it but w/e. i grew up being told this from parents, teachers, books, and everything else and i will continue to believe it.

yes, that is unpure but oral SEX is still oral SEX + IT IS UNPURE = no longer a virgin if you took part in it

just because it has the word *sex* in it, dont mean its actual sex. idk about u. but the word SEX to me, it penis in vagina and i will continue to believe tht but w/e. u believe what u wanna believe and ill believe wht i wanna believe

[WTFwasIthinking]

no oral sex is losing your virginity.....

virginity is purity in a sexual nature.... you're partaking in oral SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX...... damn, I gotta reiterate myself a million times don't I? His genitalia is touching you're body and you are as one at a certain point or time.... you become one body (metaphorically as people say).... his d*ck's in the mouth and it connects... right? strange as it seems, that's no different from it goin' in the vagina other than you can't make a baby that way... but it's just as unpure IF YOU'RE NOT MARRIED

regardless, iss not pure and it's oral sex, sex, sex, sex, sex

okay? get it? DAYUMMM.........

just because it has the word *sex* in it, dont mean its actual sex. idk about u. but the word SEX to me, it penis in vagina and i will continue to believe tht but w/e. u believe what u wanna believe and ill believe wht i wanna believe

AND ONCE AGAIN!!! LoL

SEX: The sexual urge or instinct as it manifests itself in behavior.

that's from dictionary.com ......

translation of that: any action from the results of a sexual urge.... umm... oral and anal sex count....

[mouse_3k]

i don care...my mind is still set on ur still a virgin unless you have actual sex...sry

[WTFwasIthinking]

LoL... iss all good....

dass dope, you're black and asian mixed? dass some dope sh*t anyway... aright, well I'm done with this thread...

I'm out...
PayCe ~1~

[mouse_3k]

LoL... iss all good....

dass dope, you're black and asian mixed? dass some dope sh*t anyway... aright, well I'm done with this thread...

I'm out...
PayCe ~1~

lol ya im blck n krn. i guess its cool...besides the fact everyone things im spanish lol but ya..i think im done wit this thread so w.e. pc ez

hopefully ppl wont flame at me for my strong beliefs..

[LiNHy POO]

oral... yehh you are still a virgin i think!!! i mean you have to do the real thing!! then you're not a virgin!!

[SupraS15]

Nah... losing your virginity is only when one person's "thing" goes inside a chick's "thing." That's what i think... and also... how come you peeps only talk about girls doing oral sex? Chicks can get it too... haha.

[Spirited Away]

That's an odd thing to happen, but whatever.

This is just what I've read from various places and whatnot.

I'm stopping this convo.

Now.

Uh, okay, like I have to do what you tell me...

But what you read is one thing, what facts are is another thing. I mean, though I agree with some of what you say, there are exceptions.

[pikimoo]

Uh, okay, like I have to do what you tell me...

But what you read is one thing, what facts are is another thing. I mean, though I agree with some of what you say, there are exceptions.

I wasn't telling you what to do, hun. Just stating my opinion on the matter.

And yeah, you all have good points. I'm still gonna go through my life thinkin it's losin your virginity though.

[Spirited Away]

I wasn't telling you what to do, hun. Just stating my opinion on the matter.

And yeah, you all have good points. I'm still gonna go through my life thinkin it's losin your virginity though.

Considering that I'm 'slightly' older than you, I think I have more time to think about what virginity is and the answer is up to you, but don't make up your mind so soon, 'hun'.

Anyway, some kids actually tell their friends that they've lost their virginity because they saw/acidentally touched someone's private region, just to be "cool". So, that was my point, virginity isn't something as simple as that.

[eboarder2020]

Oral sex to me is considered sex. By going that far in a relationship you are really doing an Adult thing. Oral sex may be like French Kissing now a days, and it may be very common, but just because everyone does it, mean that I have to do it also. I've been brought up in the traditional filipino, catholic beliefs... Anything above fingering and handjobs are looked down upon in my church, and that certain things like oral, and sex, should only be done when married with a person you are willing to give yourself up to... Anyways yeah thats me, take care

[xsweetdreams12x]

I wouldn't know, but if it's Oral SEX, wouldn't it be considered sex??

[*AngelicEyz00*]

lol ya im blck n krn. i guess its cool...besides the fact everyone things im spanish lol but ya..i think im done wit this thread so w.e. pc ez

hopefully ppl wont flame at me for my strong beliefs..

Eh, I COMPLETELY agree with you... Oral sex isn't the same as vaginal sex... Therefore, i believe one is a virgin even if she's had oral sex...

[Just_Dream]

IMO IMO IMO...

I pick yes because I think it does count. IMO though! Personally, I think that if a guy puts his dragon inside a girl's cave, whether it be the month or the you know what, it still counts.

[Sumiaki]

Yes, you are still a virgin if you have oral sex.

[shawty_redd]

in my opinion, i think there are different types of virginity and when you perform oral sex you loose that virginity and then theres the boy and girl virginity buts thats different.

//EDIT

this should be in debate

[mouse_3k]

lol i wonder how ppl who think losing your virginity by giving oral will stay complete pure & a "virgin" until they get married.. (for those tht wanna stay pure & be a virgin until marriage)

lol sry im back..i was just lookin and i was like "I wonder blah blah blah" haha ok im out. pc ez

[eli5e]

i consider it no.

[nyCzxfOx]

well.. i think.. um.. technically is a virgin.. but i wouldnt think of the person as one.. ><;; ... i guess.. in my own mind the person isnt.. but in reality.. for most peopel yes she is

[uLoVeMikeRoch]

omfg u people are so f'in stupid

1.No u cannot lose ur god damn virginity by have oral sex ok thats the truth
2.We have to many topics on this, someone close this

[pikimoo]

omfg u people are so f'in stupid

1.No u cannot lose ur god damn virginity by have oral sex ok thats the truth
2.We have to many topics on this, someone close this

omfg yes you can. if thats what you believe in

But why does it matter wether you're a virgin or not? It doesn't(or shouldnt) change who you are.

Personally, I wouldn't have any form of sex unless I'm married. I know I'm young in making this decision. But who wants a dick in their mouth? Ick. You don't know where it's been. And think.. it's like drinking pi$$.

And I know you were mocking me by calling me 'hun'. I didn't mean to previously type that. It's a bad habit. I call EVERYONE either hun, touts, or babe. Anyways, a couple years could mean nothing. Times change, BABE.

[defjam_gangsta]

Greetings!!

oral is just an oral. nothin much unless da penis has penetrated thru da vagina and has broken ya hymen. now tat's losing ya virginity. still, dun go around havin oral sex. ya can get diseases too ya know. how would ya know da thing ya 'oral' wit is clean and hygenic?! play safe. not sorry.

CHEERS CB!!

[xquizit]

hmmm... if we go by this definition of sex: The sexual urge or instinct as it manifests itself in behavior.

does this mean you lose your virginity when you masturbate for the first time? or if you touch someone's genitals.

well, i dunno. in my opinion, you don't lose your virginity until you have sexual intercourse.

[*Fallen_Fairy*]

vaginally? yes
but I wouldnt call me self a virgin is i was reciev or giving oral sex

[capsule]

this is just my opinion (so dont start flamin), but i think oral sex = no more virginity. i've always believed that virginity isn't just "penetration"...you gotta stay pure. virginity = purity. any kind of sex (oral or not) is impure...so therefore, you lose your virginity. now...french kissing, is a whole different topic that i'm not gonna get into...but for now, lets just say its "the path to losing your virginity"....people who french kiss eventually have sex....95% of em

[naiverucee]

whats oral sex? ya i'm clueless

[WTFwasIthinking]

LMAO.... like head, blow job, suckin' the other sexes genitalia, brains

y'know

[Spirited Away]

And I know you were mocking me by calling me 'hun'. I didn't mean to previously type that. It's a bad habit. I call EVERYONE either hun, touts, or babe. Anyways, a couple years could mean nothing. Times change, BABE.

Well, I happen call people 'hun' by habit, too. How come that's okay for you to say, but when I say it, I'm 'mocking' you. That's a childish concept.

Couple of years? More like several years older, 'babe', if not by age, then by maturity in this instance.

Anyway, children shouldn't even be talking about sex if they haven't even taken sex ed.

And virginity has to do with your maidenhead being broken by a guy's penis. You're still 'virgin', albiet unpure, if you have oral sex because it has nothing to do with your maidenhead.

[waccoon]

oh cool! you`re korean. hi!!!

anyways...you`re saying that your parents don`t know what oral sex is..? what about asking your doctor about it? `cause my doctor asked me "did we have that sex talk?" i was like "nooooooooo...." but she just told me to go online on this website...but i totally forgot the name of the website..haha

well i just don`t see how your parents wouldn`t know about oral sex...or virginity and all that...i mean...how did they have you? LMFAO..

Even though they are nurses, you have to remember that they're your parents too. Kissing isn't a way to lose virginity, only a display of affection.

well i just don`t see how your parents wouldn`t know about oral sex...or virginity and all that...i mean...how did they have you? LMFAO..

You don't impregnate with oral sex.

[ichidou]

In my opinion, Oral sex means your still a virgin, becuase you have not had insertion yet.

However, you can still get STDs, and get yourself a bad reputaion.

[mouse_3k]

I know I'm young in making this decision. But who wants a dick in their mouth? Ick. You don't know where it's been. And think.. it's like drinking pi$$.

its most likly tht someone is doing it to their partner to please them. give them pleasure u know. damn, dont get mad at ppl who is just tryin to make their lover happy

[defjam_gangsta]

its most likly tht someone is doing it to their partner to please them. give them pleasure u know. damn, dont get mad at ppl who is just tryin to make their lover happy

Greetings!!

haha.. i like da way ya put it!!

CHEERS CB!!

[jarnifer]

i read all 4 pages of this thread...and i was wondering...so..

if only vaginal sex = lose virginity...then lesbians (no matter how many times they've had sex...haha) will be virgins forever?

Assuming that they never had sex with males