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 Sep 24 2009, 05:12 PM
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hi cb. i'm in hs now, and half of my school knows me . ( i'm somewhat popular because i'm funny and i'm wild? LOL. )
anways, i like this guy. he's a sophmore and let's just say. . . he's like naruto. he's a bboy/skater and he plays around too much. he likes to flirt around i guess. he already knows i like him. everytime we see each other, we give each other glances, but we never talk. my friends make me start a conversation or jump into one he's in, but i fail at life, okay? help me out cb. |
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Sep 24 2009, 07:29 PM
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my response may not be what you're looking for but in my professional and well regarded opinion as they usually are with the rare exception of hemorrhage and various internal bleeding, i would suggest with prior warning that it may not be the optimal but perhaps best option available, that you should probably, but not certainly… now what were we talking about again? …ah right, you should try making up excuses to hang out with him.
i.e. my neighbor is always inviting me over for cookies and w/e the hell she feels like cooking… so maybe if you’re in a class together but don’t have to be you could ask him for help with the homework (even if you don’t need it). if it comes to the point where you want to initiate a relationship, don’t! whatever you do play it off like you just want to hang out, even if its just the two of you |
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Sep 24 2009, 09:29 PM
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 sleep now, moon Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,540 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,212 |
Do some of your friends hang out with him? If your friends are so supportive, then next time they chill, go along with them.
Why don't you talk to him though? Especially if you know his name and he knows yours.. or if you ever see him just chilling in the library or something, go up to him and ask him if he could help you out with a class or something. idk, it's just I do. Sorry if I'm not much help :( |
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Sep 25 2009, 01:04 PM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,665 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 676,364 |
QUOTE(Paladin @ Sep 24 2009, 05:29 PM)  my response may not be what you're looking for but in my professional and well regarded opinion as they usually are with the rare exception of hemorrhage and various internal bleeding, i would suggest with prior warning that it may not be the optimal but perhaps best option available, that you should probably, but not certainly… now what were we talking about again? …ah right, you should try making up excuses to hang out with him. i.e. my neighbor is always inviting me over for cookies and w/e the hell she feels like cooking… so maybe if you’re in a class together but don’t have to be you could ask him for help with the homework (even if you don’t need it). if it comes to the point where you want to initiate a relationship, don’t! whatever you do play it off like you just want to hang out, even if its just the two of you i don't have any classes with him, i only see him during break time or after school. QUOTE(transcendentalism @ Sep 24 2009, 07:29 PM) Do some of your friends hang out with him? If your friends are so supportive, then next time they chill, go along with them. Why don't you talk to him though? Especially if you know his name and he knows yours.. or if you ever see him just chilling in the library or something, go up to him and ask him if he could help you out with a class or something. idk, it's just I do. Sorry if I'm not much help :( yeah, most of my friends hang out with him, the rest just knows him. it's not easy talking to a straight guy that i like. there's nothing to talk about, plus he knows that i like him, and he' just stares at me every time he's in my presence. you were such a help! i just need some pointer :( QUOTE( @ Sep 24 2009, 10:05 PM) the fact that hes gay cause he knows you like him and he keeps giving you glances ANYWAY and stuff should already be giving you the confidence needed to go up to him and just talk. i mean for heaven sakes, just go up to him and TAAAAALK C'MON MAN!! no, i talk to his cousins and friends all of them say he's straight. they say it' will be a miracle if i ever turned him bi. from my past experiences, i can make guys turn bi, it's just that most of them that change are guys that are not my type. :/ |
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Sep 25 2009, 04:28 PM
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 Live long and prosper. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 5,525 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,024 |
QUOTE from my past experiences, i can make guys turn bi, it's just that most of them that change are guys that are not my type. HOLY SHIT WHAT ARE YOUR SECRETS?! |
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Sep 25 2009, 05:40 PM
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 poison Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 |
awwww my little beenly is in hs and has a crush!
You've grown up so much 
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Sep 25 2009, 05:45 PM
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Lol tbh Beenly i thought you were older
Dont rush things it only the beginning of the year ;) |
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Sep 25 2009, 11:02 PM
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sleep now, moon Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,540 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,212 |
QUOTE(Beenly @ Sep 25 2009, 01:04 PM) he knows that i like him, and he' just stares at me every time he's in my presence. That's not awkward at all x_o Pretend you don't and try and talk to him like any other person for starters? Maybe it'll be easier if you go for friends-first so you guys understand each other better. |
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Sep 26 2009, 12:44 PM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,665 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 676,364 |
QUOTE(Tomates @ Sep 25 2009, 03:40 PM) awwww my little beenly is in hs and has a crush! You've grown up so much i only been here for a year, lol. QUOTE(transcendentalism @ Sep 25 2009, 09:02 PM) That's not awkward at all x_o Pretend you don't and try and talk to him like any other person for starters? Maybe it'll be easier if you go for friends-first so you guys understand each other better. what would you say? :o |
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Sep 26 2009, 02:00 PM
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why would he turn bi?
Why would he turn gay? |
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Sep 26 2009, 04:35 PM
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rofl beenly go for it. I think it will be funny to hear your story when you attempt to kiss him.
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Sep 26 2009, 06:05 PM
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 Sex, Blood, & RocknRoll Group: People Staff Posts: 5,305 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 596,480 |
QUOTE( @ Sep 26 2009, 03:04 PM) How is bi formed? How bi get pragnent? They need to do way instain mother> who kill thier babbys. becuse these babby cant frigth back it was on the news this mroing a mother in ar who had kill her three kids . they are taking the three babby back to new york too lady to rest my pary are with the father who lost his chrilden ; i am truley sorry for your lots lmao |
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Sep 26 2009, 09:03 PM
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Live long and prosper. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 5,525 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,024 |
QUOTE( @ Sep 26 2009, 03:04 PM) How is bi formed? How bi get pragnent? They need to do way instain mother> who kill thier babbys. becuse these babby cant frigth back it was on the news this mroing a mother in ar who had kill her three kids . they are taking the three babby back to new york too lady to rest my pary are with the father who lost his chrilden ; i am truley sorry for your lots 
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Sep 26 2009, 11:58 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
awwh beeenz, just go with the flow. :]
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Sep 27 2009, 01:59 PM
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sleep now, moon Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,540 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,212 |
QUOTE(Beenly @ Sep 26 2009, 12:44 PM) what would you say? :o heh, well unless I'm involved with a person professionally, then I usually just talk to people in person like O HERRO and HAY GURL.. otherwise I pretty much just hey, how are you? and work it up to calling them gurrlllll. yeah, I'm pretty funky with my friends/boyfriend irl. but it works.. :x |
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Sep 27 2009, 07:58 PM
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QUOTE(jcp @ Sep 26 2009, 02:00 PM) why would he turn bi? you tell meWhy would he turn gay? |
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Sep 29 2009, 02:52 PM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,665 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 676,364 |
Okay, sorry for the late update but here's what happened:
Yesterday, he wanted to go home. So he went around to all his friends and he lied to everyone that "he was moving to California, and he needed help packing up stuff". One of my friends asked me if I wanted to go, but since I'm more loyal to school than love, I turned down the offer. For the whole day, I saw half of the people that I would usually see and I was thinking to myself in a severe mental way about how I turned down the offer. I thought it was going to be the last time I see him, and that I missed out the most perfect chance. Turns out he was lying as an excuse to skip school. Coming back from home, I realized how I'm such a fool. I wasted my whole school day just pondering and thinking about him. My friends told me that he's not the type of guy I would be into. I know he's a class clown, but there's a darker side of him.. :( advice preeze, cb? |
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Sep 29 2009, 06:27 PM
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sleep now, moon Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,540 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,212 |
What do you see in this guy that makes you like him?
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Sep 29 2009, 07:15 PM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,665 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 676,364 |
To be honest, just looks and his sense of humor.
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