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How long before you get over the ex?
Fat2death
post Sep 23 2009, 12:31 PM
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Ok, Ive been in a relationship most of my adult life. Its been 8 years with my ex. We have 4 kids. Im trying to get over him, but its hard!!! I have the tracker on my myspace, and he looks at my profile more than I do. At least 5 times a day, and he's in Iraq! He usually calls to speak to the kids without even a hello to me,(thats because when I answer I give the phone to the first kids that walks by) but recently he has been asking for me. Im not talking to him. I know Im bitter, and Im not over him, but is he over me?
 
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post Sep 23 2009, 05:55 PM
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THROW SOME D'S ON THAT BITCH
 
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post Sep 23 2009, 06:54 PM
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You're going to have to talk to him eventually, for the sake of the kids. Don't let the children feel your bitterness since their father isn't there to defend himself when you're upset about the break-up. There's plenty of reasons why he could be asking to talk to you, but given his current situation I think it would be in his best interest if you let him do most of the talking... wait until he's stateside to discuss your guys' relationship, feelings, etc.
 
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post Oct 10 2009, 06:17 AM
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8 years?

damn!
How long since the breakup?
 
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post Oct 16 2009, 12:32 AM
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the week after
 
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post Oct 16 2009, 03:42 PM
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HALF THE AMOUNT OF TIME YOU DATED. If you watched SATC, you would know this.
 
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post Oct 17 2009, 10:13 AM
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i always think it takes time to get over people. especially if it was a long one. you can't just go out with someone 1-3 months after.. that's just too short!
 

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