How long before you get over the ex? |
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How long before you get over the ex? |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 70 Joined: Sep 2009 Member No: 745,998 ![]() |
Ok, Ive been in a relationship most of my adult life. Its been 8 years with my ex. We have 4 kids. Im trying to get over him, but its hard!!! I have the tracker on my myspace, and he looks at my profile more than I do. At least 5 times a day, and he's in Iraq! He usually calls to speak to the kids without even a hello to me,(thats because when I answer I give the phone to the first kids that walks by) but recently he has been asking for me. Im not talking to him. I know Im bitter, and Im not over him, but is he over me?
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![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,020 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 653,768 ![]() |
THROW SOME D'S ON THAT BITCH
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![]() DDR \\ I'm Dee :) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 ![]() |
You're going to have to talk to him eventually, for the sake of the kids. Don't let the children feel your bitterness since their father isn't there to defend himself when you're upset about the break-up. There's plenty of reasons why he could be asking to talk to you, but given his current situation I think it would be in his best interest if you let him do most of the talking... wait until he's stateside to discuss your guys' relationship, feelings, etc.
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 62 Joined: Sep 2009 Member No: 746,049 ![]() |
8 years?
damn! How long since the breakup? |
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Newbie ![]() Group: Member Posts: 8 Joined: Oct 2009 Member No: 749,288 ![]() |
the week after
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![]() Miss DIY ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,251 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,294 ![]() |
HALF THE AMOUNT OF TIME YOU DATED. If you watched SATC, you would know this.
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rawr? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 ![]() |
i always think it takes time to get over people. especially if it was a long one. you can't just go out with someone 1-3 months after.. that's just too short!
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