Should I gave a chance to him? |
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 Jul 12 2004, 03:15 PM
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What can you do when you liked this guy A for 8 months and then you already broke up him and then during the breakup you met a nice guy B but then I was also with him for about 2 months but then we brokeup because I cant forget about the guy A but now when I want to go back he already found a girlfriend. But all along there was guy C that also liked me, I think he is ok and pretty nice. Should I give him a chance? ? I am afraid to start a new relationship. Can someone give me some suggestions?
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Jul 12 2004, 03:17 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
Wow. That's confusing.
I say that you give the new guy a chance. It'll show if you can move on after your heart has been broken. Good luck!! 
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Jul 12 2004, 03:43 PM
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wait... this is confusing... so let me use letters to label the three guys (A, B, C):
so you broke up with guy A, went out with guy B. but guy B didnt work out, so you broke up with B, and u wanted to date guy A again. unfortunately, guy A found somebody new... Then you realize that guy C has liked you all along, and would like a chance to go out with you, and you are unsure whether or not you should go out with guy C? assuming that everything i said above is correct... why are you afraid to start a new relationship? is it because u cannot forget about guy A? remember, the relationship with guy B ended because you still had feelings for guy A, so it might happen again with guy C... maybe you should hold off on starting any new relationships until you figure out what you really want (do u still like guy A? or B? etc.) In the meanwhile, find out more about guy C- you said he was ok and nice. but what else do you know about him that would make you want to go out with him? when u can start saying guy C is great (not just ok. unless if ur talking about looks here) and can list many reasons why, that's when you know you are ready to be in a new relationship with guy C. remember, there is no need to rush things~ |
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Jul 12 2004, 10:57 PM
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 Feeel X Group: Member Posts: 2,814 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,498 |
yeah connie, it is a bit confusing...wana give them fake names or label them guy a guy b and guy c?
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Jul 12 2004, 11:11 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 228 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,737 |
give it some time and then see where things go. sure, give him a chance, but make sure ur over the others first.
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Jul 12 2004, 11:32 PM
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Feeel X Group: Member Posts: 2,814 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,498 |
go start a new relationship!! you were going fine with guy B until you left him *wink wink*
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Jul 12 2004, 11:38 PM
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 hi Group: Member Posts: 128 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,306 |
go ahead, give me a chance..u neva know til u tried...
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Jul 12 2004, 11:59 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Yeah..
D00d, new relationships can be fun. Go for it. |
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Jul 13 2004, 08:09 AM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
You know what...I think you should take sometime off and think of what you really need from a guy...or what you are specifically looking for! Don't just go out with a guy you think is cute...and he likes you. Consider other factors...(job, stability, humor, even a car)
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Jul 13 2004, 09:29 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,989 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,691 |
I guess you should give him a chance.
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Jul 13 2004, 12:24 PM
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 tag! you're it! ;D Group: Member Posts: 555 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,572 |
QUOTE(xsweetdreams12x @ Jul 12 2004, 3:17 PM) Wow. That's confusing. I say that you give the new guy a chance. It'll show if you can move on after your heart has been broken. Good luck!! i agree, you shouLd give the guy C a chance go0d LuCk ! |
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Jul 13 2004, 01:10 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
give him a chance, opportunities dont come often so mite as well take it while u see it
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Jul 14 2004, 11:25 AM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
I had to read that 5 times..
lol.. give him a chance. |
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Jul 14 2004, 11:54 AM
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WOW, this is really confusing. maybe you should just move on for guys A en B en maybe you should give guy C a chance `cohs maybe he might be true to you unlike tha` other guys..just follow your heart, you'll do fine
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Jul 14 2004, 12:59 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
yes u should if u like him. just dunt let a chance go by.
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