School Pressure, how to deal? |
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 Jul 10 2004, 03:03 AM
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 High Voltage!∞  Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157  |
This past school year was really pressuring...all the drama and fights and friends and boys...especially for me...1)people always say im "perfect" which really gets on my nerves (but i don't show it) because IM NOT! 2) my friend likes this boy and she was too shy to talk to him so I had to...and then theres friends who are leaving...it's so sad! and stressful...how do i deal with the pressure?
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Jul 10 2004, 03:22 PM
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ah, deal with it. its gonna be haunting you for a long time, maybe you should shout it to them, "Im not perfect, leave me the hell alone. im just like everyone else, dont treat me any different, blah blah blah!" don't let this stuff get you down. you'll get through it, it comes in the package of being an adolescent!
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Jul 10 2004, 03:32 PM
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Wow, I was in the exact same situation.
1. Eventually, teachers noticed how uncomfortable I was when people called me "genius" in class, and they threatened to put everyone in detention if they didn't stop. Naturally, they did stop, in class at least. 2. When someone tells me I'm "perfect", I ask them not to describe me like that. Sometimes I have to explain why, but most people have stopped. 3. Actually, eventually, I told the guy why I was talking to him. He started talking to my friend, so I got out of that situation. 4. You can always keep in touch with friends. My best friend moved 5 hours away, but we call regularly, email, use AIM, and visit. Sorry, I can't really help. [I handled the whole thing badly, at the time.] |
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Jul 10 2004, 03:33 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,032 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,398 |
dis year hab been like dat too...well i jus deal wid it..o wells...life is complicated so i jus smile nd dink bout happiee dings
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Jul 10 2004, 04:39 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
jus face it and look at it positively, always think that things coulda been worst
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Jul 10 2004, 09:11 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
QUOTE(Idyll @ Jul 10 2004, 3:32 PM) Wow, I was in the exact same situation. 1. Eventually, teachers noticed how uncomfortable I was when people called me "genius" in class, and they threatened to put everyone in detention if they didn't stop. Naturally, they did stop, in class at least. 2. When someone tells me I'm "perfect", I ask them not to describe me like that. Sometimes I have to explain why, but most people have stopped. 3. Actually, eventually, I told the guy why I was talking to him. He started talking to my friend, so I got out of that situation. 4. You can always keep in touch with friends. My best friend moved 5 hours away, but we call regularly, email, use AIM, and visit. Sorry, I can't really help. [I handled the whole thing badly, at the time.] that's exactly what I had in mind.. 
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Jul 11 2004, 02:19 PM
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Yeah. I got into a lot of fights too. But after a while, I ended most of them
I even made friends with some of my old sworn enemies!!  Scream into a pillow. It makes me feel great. Haha. |
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Jul 11 2004, 08:44 PM
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 --ALL EYEZ ON MEEH-- Group: Member Posts: 65 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,473 |
Ya just gotta move on in life.. Life isn't alwayz perfect...Gotta deal wit it..
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Jul 11 2004, 09:06 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
mayb u should just try to forget about it, nd think that you WILL make it throu. cuz when u look bac to all of it, u wunt believe wut lil stuff dey were compared to wut u hav to go throu in the future. dats just how i dink..
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Jul 11 2004, 09:59 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
for me i try to help my family and friends if they really needs it. if everything just piles up, as Frankie in Real World: San Diego says, I'd just run the f*ck away, just run the f*ck away. If everything is over flowing, i run to my bathroom, sit in the corner, and cry. cry cry cry thts wht i do but then again im a cry baby who runs away...dont be like me..
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