I don't mean to sound naive, but could he be lying? |
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 Jun 9 2009, 06:53 PM
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okay my crush danced with me at prom the other night, he was the one who approached me. I noticed that the whole night; him and his friends were staring at me. Even when i was dancing with other guys,i would look around to find him staring at me. While we were dancing; he took my hand and folded his into mine, he kept rubbing my back while slow dancing and rubbing my arms. I was getting the feeling that he liked me too since i was the only girl he danced with for the night. So it turns out that my friend spoke to him last night and he asked her if she did anything after prom then she said: No, i just went home and spoke to Shaelynn for a bit.(which is me) then he said: how did she say her night was? then she said: she had amaziiinggg night! i saw you guys dancing together, hot hot hot!! then he said: ahaha, i don't want to give the wrong intentions or anything, she's a cool person but yea...then later on in the convo he said that he just wanted to have fun. So i understand that he wanted to have fun...but i don't understand why he wanted to fold his hand into mine while dancing, rubbing my back, rubbing my arms and out of the whole room, he chose me to dance with...it's just weird...i mean we didn't just dance, it was more than that...i know that when i danced with the other guys, they weren't rubbing my back or folding their hand into mine. to me, that seems more personal, i mean if i dance with a guy, i wouldn't feel the need to fold my hand into theirs because were just dancing. i don't know, maybe i'm just naive.
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Jun 9 2009, 06:55 PM
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Don't sweat it honey! You're better than that! You have so much to live for, you don't need to give it all up because of some hoochie that lead you on! Be strong, and keep your head up!!!!
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Jun 9 2009, 07:01 PM
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 I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
QUOTE(cloudcandy @ Jun 9 2009, 06:53 PM)  So i understand that he wanted to have fun...but i don't understand why he wanted to fold his hand into mine while dancing, rubbing my back, rubbing my arms and out of the whole room, he chose me to dance with...it's just weird...i mean we didn't just dance, it was more than that...i know that when i danced with the other guys, they weren't rubbing my back or folding their hand into mine. i duno, seems you're implying that what he didn't wasn't "fun". he said he was wanting to have fun, dancing like that was probably his definition of fun. |
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Jun 9 2009, 07:54 PM
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 BBM: 310ED181 Group: Member Posts: 613 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 671,976 |
maybe he just doesn't like dancing. if your stressing about it so much, why no ask him?
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Jun 9 2009, 11:05 PM
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 Live long and prosper. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 5,525 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,024 |
Perhaps thats just his way of dancing.
Like maybe he thinks thats how one dances. |
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Jun 9 2009, 11:09 PM
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 /人◕‿‿◕人\ Group: Official Member Posts: 8,283 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 602,927 |
Maybe he was molesting you.
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Jun 9 2009, 11:11 PM
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 kthxbai Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,832 Joined: Feb 2008 Member No: 621,203 |
Maybe he felt sorry for you and was trying to comfort you by rubbing you to make you feel better.
or maybe he thought you were cold. |
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Jun 9 2009, 11:57 PM
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 Sarcastic Mr. Know-It-All Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2003 Member No: 29 |
he was checking for cancer
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Jun 10 2009, 11:16 AM
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 Ley <3 Group: Member Posts: 579 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 664,894 |
Maybe he was tryin to show u some affection, and since you didnt show any back. He is now forced to be cool and act like your nothing to him.
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Jun 10 2009, 04:30 PM
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 I'm cheap Group: Member Posts: 61 Joined: Jun 2009 Member No: 732,040 |
Maybe He wanted to check if you have a backbone.
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