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 May 6 2009, 12:17 AM
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 And in that moment...I swear we were infinite  Group: Member Posts: 27 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 407,922  |
I was going to do this in the Girl's Locker, but I figured it can go out to both genders.
How do you feel about size differences in a relationship? Mainly the girl being bigger/taller than the guy. I have this guy who really likes me, and we've been on a few dates. & Everything is fine, except he's so much skinnier than me. & I'm by no means a big girl [5'6 and 120 pounds], but he wears his little sister's pants and shirts. Every time we cuddle, I feel like he's a baby and I'm coddling him or something. I'm really trying to get over it, but it's so awkward, and it makes me feel self-conscious. I'm just wondering if I'm completely shallow, or if anyone else feels like the guy should be taller/bigger than the girl. |
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May 6 2009, 12:21 AM
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YOURE THE BIG SPOON HOMESLICE
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May 6 2009, 12:25 AM
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 Live long and prosper. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 5,525 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,024 |
QUOTE(kryogenix @ May 6 2009, 12:21 AM)  YOURE THE BIG SPOON HOMESLICE 
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May 6 2009, 12:35 AM
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lol@cuddling with a baby
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May 6 2009, 02:28 AM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
ever try hitting the gym instead of bitching
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May 6 2009, 07:51 AM
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 Sarcastic Mr. Know-It-All Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2003 Member No: 29 |
lol be thankful your boyfriend is into BBW, fatty
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May 6 2009, 08:00 AM
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 Candy & Cookie Tester Group: Member Posts: 76 Joined: Apr 2009 Member No: 724,880 |
QUOTE(brthtkrsmlfkr @ May 6 2009, 01:17 AM) I was going to do this in the Girl's Locker, but I figured it can go out to both genders. How do you feel about size differences in a relationship? Mainly the girl being bigger/taller than the guy. I have this guy who really likes me, and we've been on a few dates. & Everything is fine, except he's so much skinnier than me. & I'm by no means a big girl [5'6 and 120 pounds], but he wears his little sister's pants and shirts. Every time we cuddle, I feel like he's a baby and I'm coddling him or something. I'm really trying to get over it, but it's so awkward, and it makes me feel self-conscious. I'm just wondering if I'm completely shallow, or if anyone else feels like the guy should be taller/bigger than the girl. You're being a little shallow. LOl at the baby coddling.  But anyways you could think about it like this, he's with you because maybe he likes you for you. You should just understand guys now seem to be really skinny.... 
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May 6 2009, 08:53 AM
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 fad3d Group: Member Posts: 62 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 483,080 |
if the guy makes you happy, any physical difference should not matter. right?
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May 6 2009, 06:58 PM
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thats the whole problem genius, the fact that hes tiny DOESN't make her happy
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May 6 2009, 09:46 PM
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I think the idea that the guy has to be taller/bigger is bullshit. I dated a girl for a year and a half who was almost 6 inches taller than me -- I'm 5'2", and she's about 5'8", and she weighed half again as much as me. There were never any problems. Neither of us felt self-conscious about it, and she was still "girly" when it came to cuddling and such (i.e., I held her
 ). She and I were both confident enough in ourselves that it wasn't a problem, and neither of us are shallow enough to believe that height/size matters -- and it doesn't.
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May 7 2009, 03:58 PM
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roflmao
5 star thread. Would read again! thanks for lulz |
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May 7 2009, 04:14 PM
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 Ley <3 Group: Member Posts: 579 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 664,894 |
I weigh about the same as u and im 5'11 It really has never felt awkward for me but i guess thats because most of my bfs have been pretty muscular so technically still bigger than me, just not taller.
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May 31 2009, 11:01 AM
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Havent you ever heard of "It's the inside that matters not the outside"?
Thats All. |
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May 31 2009, 11:04 AM
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 poison Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 |
Right now i'm about an inch taller than my boyfriend, so he's pretty close to my height but you can tell and people can usually tell that i'm taller.
about a year ago he was i think significantly shorter...like 3 inches...Anyways if height really mattered to me then i wouldn't be dating him. However it doesn't. If you truely like this guy then the difference between you two physically shouldn't matter |
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May 31 2009, 11:44 AM
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 Drank wit your boy Group: Official Member Posts: 1,711 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 649,997 |
QUOTE(brthtkrsmlfkr @ May 6 2009, 01:17 AM) I was going to do this in the Girl's Locker, but I figured it can go out to both genders. How do you feel about size differences in a relationship? Mainly the girl being bigger/taller than the guy. I have this guy who really likes me, and we've been on a few dates. & Everything is fine, except he's so much skinnier than me. & I'm by no means a big girl [5'6 and 120 pounds], but he wears his little sister's pants and shirts. Every time we cuddle, I feel like he's a baby and I'm coddling him or something. I'm really trying to get over it, but it's so awkward, and it makes me feel self-conscious. I'm just wondering if I'm completely shallow, or if anyone else feels like the guy should be taller/bigger than the girl. Do you mean that he is so small that he could possibly wear them or are you saying he actually wears her stuff? |
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May 31 2009, 11:50 AM
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 /人◕‿‿◕人\ Group: Official Member Posts: 8,283 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 602,927 |
QUOTE(IamLegend @ May 31 2009, 11:44 AM) Do you mean that he is so small that he could possibly wear them or are you saying he actually wears her stuff? 
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May 31 2009, 12:05 PM
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 kthxbai Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,832 Joined: Feb 2008 Member No: 621,203 |
Males lose weight much easier than women do. It's very common for the male to be skinnier than the woman.
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May 31 2009, 04:32 PM
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Live long and prosper. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 5,525 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,024 |
QUOTE(kryogenjx @ May 6 2009, 07:51 AM) lol be thankful your boyfriend is into BBW, fatty You'll have to excuse him as hes asian therefore anything 90lbs and above is obese |
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May 31 2009, 04:46 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
Hmm... I don't really have this problem since almost all the guys I know are taller (by a lot) than me, lol. And they are usually bigger than me. But I guess because I fit in the criteria that diana specified.. D;
Actually, my ex-boyfriend was realllly skinny, but he was still cute and nice, so that's what matters. I think he was like 5'4 and 98 lbs or something, lol. Of course this was back in 8th grade and we were all still pretty young, where we were like 13 years old. But then again I was like only 4'11 and 80 lbs, lol.  lol somehow I feel like someone's going to mention jcp (mập) after I've given these statistics. |
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