How men f*ck up relationships thread |
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 Apr 23 2009, 11:19 AM
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 Ley <3  Group: Member Posts: 579 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 664,894  |
QUOTE(synergy @ Apr 23 2009, 03:00 AM)  how men fuck up relationships: by acting like women. truth. QUOTE(WarMachine @ Apr 23 2009, 07:26 AM) Go make thread.  Good idea! Lets see...well im sorry if i dont wanna talk to you all day and night about everything and nothing. I mean shouldn't the guy be happy im not all on his nuts all time? |
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Apr 23 2009, 11:39 AM
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 I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
lmao what I love about this is that you guys are saying we (men) f*ck up relationships by acting like you. so therefore, women's actions f*ck up relationships.
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Apr 23 2009, 11:43 AM
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QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Apr 23 2009, 12:39 PM) lmao what I love about this is that you guys are saying we (men) f*ck up relationships by acting like you. so therefore, women's actions f*ck up relationships. This. 
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Apr 23 2009, 11:46 AM
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Ley <3 Group: Member Posts: 579 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 664,894 |
QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Apr 23 2009, 11:39 AM) lmao what I love about this is that you guys are saying we (men) f*ck up relationships by acting like you. so therefore, women's actions f*ck up relationships. True. Concidering i dont act like most women i really am not offended by this. I believe most women like pointless drama in their lives just to be entertained. Then again most (men) seem to imitate the actions that they hate so much. |
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Apr 23 2009, 11:46 AM
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 (′ ･ω･｀) Group: Official Designer Posts: 6,179 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,477 |
you suck at making topic titles
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Apr 23 2009, 11:48 AM
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QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Apr 23 2009, 12:39 PM) lmao what I love about this is that you guys are saying we (men) f*ck up relationships by acting like you. so therefore, women's actions f*ck up relationships. My name is Brandon Saunders, and I support this post. |
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Apr 23 2009, 11:58 AM
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Ley <3 Group: Member Posts: 579 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 664,894 |
QUOTE(doughnut @ Apr 23 2009, 11:46 AM) you suck at making topic titles are u talking about me or WarMachine or wait did u not catch the part where i quoted him? |
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Apr 23 2009, 12:00 PM
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(′ ･ω･｀) Group: Official Designer Posts: 6,179 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,477 |
How men f*ck up relationships by acting like women
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Apr 23 2009, 12:07 PM
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Ley <3 Group: Member Posts: 579 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 664,894 |
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Apr 23 2009, 12:37 PM
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lol well this thread crashed and burned.
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Apr 23 2009, 12:51 PM
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 Live long and prosper. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 5,525 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,024 |
men f*ck up relationships by not having jobs and not having any direction in life so that I can sit there and support them until i had enough and kicked you out of my house
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Apr 23 2009, 01:26 PM
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Ley <3 Group: Member Posts: 579 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 664,894 |
QUOTE(hypnotique @ Apr 23 2009, 12:51 PM) men f*ck up relationships by not having jobs and not having any direction in life so that I can sit there and support them until i had enough and kicked you out of my house Wow! |
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Apr 23 2009, 02:10 PM
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 Tick tock, Bill Group: Administrator Posts: 8,764 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,948 |
I edited/updated the title. ;)
As many times I hear of women f*cking up things because of jealousy issues, I've seen many men f*ck it up in the same fashion. |
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Apr 23 2009, 02:10 PM
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Live long and prosper. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 5,525 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,024 |
QUOTE(leyvacu @ Apr 23 2009, 01:26 PM) Wow! Heck yes. |
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Apr 23 2009, 02:13 PM
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Ley <3 Group: Member Posts: 579 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 664,894 |
I dont think i could ever support a guy..
then again most guys i date r the mexican macho man that has to pay for everything or else they feel less like a man. |
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Apr 23 2009, 02:23 PM
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QUOTE(Tori-Ann @ Apr 23 2009, 03:13 PM) Why can't men admit that they're wrong sometimes? Men are afraid that women will take that, run with it, and never let it go. Ex: Why were you such a jealous ass to that guy?! He doesn't even like me. Me: He was all over you! Ex: ***hole, he's my cousin!!! Me: Damn, I'm sorry, I really am. ... Me: Are we still hanging out with your friends from work? Ex: No because you might get all jealous like you did that one time? Me: What one time? Ex: That one time when I ran into my cousin at Club 210 and you freaked out because of him picking me up. Me: That was last year. |
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Apr 23 2009, 02:28 PM
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Ley <3 Group: Member Posts: 579 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 664,894 |
QUOTE(WarMachine @ Apr 23 2009, 02:23 PM) Men are afraid that women will take that, run with it, and never let it go. Ex: Why were you such a jealous ass to that guy?! He doesn't even like me. Me: He was all over you! Ex: ***hole, he's my cousin!!! Me: Damn, I'm sorry, I really am. ... Me: Are we still hanging out with your friends from work? Ex: No because you might get all jealous like you did that one time? Me: What one time? Ex: That one time when I ran into my cousin at Club 210 and you freaked out because of him picking me up. Me: That was last year. lmao! If i had a dollar for every one of my exs that thought one of my cousins was hitting on me..well lets say i could buy some new shoes :) |
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Apr 23 2009, 02:38 PM
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Tick tock, Bill Group: Administrator Posts: 8,764 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,948 |
You know, I'd rather see a thread that addresses how/why people, in general, ruin relationships:
QUOTE How to Ruin a Perfectly Good RelationshipBy psychscribe Several years ago Pat Love Ed.D. and Sunny Shulkin Ph.D., two Imago trainers and therapists, published a book titled How to Ruin a Perfectly Good Relationship. Below is part of their list of some behaviors they identify which can, indeed, ruin a relationship: Control everything and everyone Never take the blame yourself; instead, make your partner wrong Make it a habit to spend more money than you have Win every fight, even the ones you couldnt care less about Keep score Use threat often Find your partners weak spot and use it against him/her When your partner tries to please you, find fault with their efforts Hold fast to the belief: If you loved me you would know what I want Demand your partner remain faithful but refuse to meet his or her sexual needs Use silence as a weapon Pretend that you dont hear When your partner tries to apologize, bring up more complaints Refuse to give information When you realize you havent given your partner some important info, insist that you did Claim to be the only one interested in the relationship Never ask for help Confide only in friends Take it personally when your partner wants time alone Discount your partners physical complaints Give advice where it isnt welcome Never pick up after yourself Refuse to seek help for your depression Refuse to talk Focus on changing your partner Focus all your needs on sex Take all problems as further proof that the relationship will not work Put your friends before your partner Keep romantic gestures to a minimum Focus on your partners faults and deny your own Let days go by without a kind word or loving gesture Practice verbal abuse Do not listen to your partners ideas or suggestions Ask your partner to share feelings and when s/he does, EXPLODE Start conversations when your partner is busy, or better yet, exhausted Let disagreements fester Say what you think your partner wants to hear, then do as you please http://psychscribe.wordpress.com/2007/12/0...d-relationship/ f*cking up relationships isn't gender specific. Most of us have done things to f*ck up relationships and most of us have been in a relationship with someone who f*cks up relationships. |
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Apr 23 2009, 02:55 PM
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We cheat on you women... whether you like it or not.
 Except for me.. I'm not a primitive human. |
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Apr 23 2009, 03:18 PM
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Tick tock, Bill Group: Administrator Posts: 8,764 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,948 |
Utilizing JC's tool (no pun intended) to indicate which behaviors men execute far too often. To make it easier for men to read, I too have highlighted (in red) the identified areas of concern.
QUOTE How to Ruin a Perfectly Good RelationshipBy psychscribe
Several years ago Pat Love Ed.D. and Sunny Shulkin Ph.D., two Imago trainers and therapists, published a book titled How to Ruin a Perfectly Good Relationship. Below is part of their list of some behaviors they identify which can, indeed, ruin a relationship: Control everything and everyone Never take the blame yourself; instead, make your partner wrong Make it a habit to spend more money than you have Win every fight, even the ones you couldnt care less about Keep score Use threat often Find your partners weak spot and use it against him/her When your partner tries to please you, find fault with their efforts Hold fast to the belief: If you loved me you would know what I want Demand your partner remain faithful but refuse to meet his or her sexual needs Use silence as a weapon Pretend that you dont hear When your partner tries to apologize, bring up more complaints Refuse to give information When you realize you havent given your partner some important info, insist that you did Claim to be the only one interested in the relationship Never ask for help Confide only in friends Take it personally when your partner wants time alone Discount your partners physical complaints Give advice where it isnt welcome Never pick up after yourself Refuse to seek help for your depression Refuse to talk Focus on changing your partner Focus all your needs on sex Take all problems as further proof that the relationship will not work Put your friends before your partner Keep romantic gestures to a minimum Focus on your partners faults and deny your own Let days go by without a kind word or loving gesture Practice verbal abuse Do not listen to your partners ideas or suggestions Ask your partner to share feelings and when s/he does, EXPLODE Start conversations when your partner is busy, or better yet, exhausted Let disagreements fester Say what you think your partner wants to hear, then do as you please |
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Apr 23 2009, 03:20 PM
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Remember my battle of the male/female superiority threads? I think someone needs to bump them.
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Apr 23 2009, 03:22 PM
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I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
QUOTE(Tori-Ann @ Apr 23 2009, 03:22 PM) Why can't we all be friends?! cause that ruins the fun of these threads |
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Apr 23 2009, 03:22 PM
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QUOTE(Tori-Ann @ Apr 23 2009, 04:22 PM) Why can't we all be friends?! Because weed hasn't been legalized. |
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Apr 23 2009, 03:22 PM
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Tick tock, Bill Group: Administrator Posts: 8,764 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,948 |
QUOTE(Tori-Ann @ Apr 23 2009, 03:22 PM) Why can't we all be friends with benefits?! Fixed. |
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Apr 23 2009, 03:25 PM
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QUOTE(superstitious @ Apr 23 2009, 04:22 PM) Fixed. Because our society frowns upon promiscuity (that and I'm stingy; I don't want to share). |
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Apr 23 2009, 03:26 PM
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Tick tock, Bill Group: Administrator Posts: 8,764 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,948 |
QUOTE(WarMachine @ Apr 23 2009, 03:25 PM) Because our society frowns upon promiscuity (that and I'm stingy; I don't want to share). The sharing part I get, the society part, I don't. 
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Apr 23 2009, 03:35 PM
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Live long and prosper. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 5,525 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,024 |
QUOTE(WarMachine @ Apr 23 2009, 03:22 PM) Because weed hasn't been legalized. lolwin |
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Apr 23 2009, 06:11 PM
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 poison Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 |
when they are difficult
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Apr 23 2009, 06:27 PM
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QUOTE(WarMachine @ Apr 23 2009, 04:22 PM) Because weed hasn't been legalized. ROFLMAO Oh my God... this is so damn true. I can picture it npw: Have relationship problems, men? Don't see a counselor, instead smoke marijuana! |
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Apr 28 2009, 05:14 PM
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i hate when they don't have anything to do so they bug you to chill. like dammit i have a life. i have effin school and work!
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Apr 28 2009, 08:02 PM
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QUOTE(WarMachine @ Apr 23 2009, 01:22 PM) Because weed hasn't been legalized. 2 Years Max. |
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Apr 28 2009, 08:02 PM
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QUOTE(WarMachine @ Apr 23 2009, 01:22 PM) Because weed hasn't been legalized. 2 Years Max. |
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Apr 28 2009, 08:47 PM
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QUOTE(hypnotique @ Apr 23 2009, 01:51 PM) men f*ck up relationships by not having jobs and not having any direction in life so that I can sit there and support them until i had enough and kicked you out of my house Thats a fail on your part boo. Nobody told you to be dumb and be somebody's sugar mama |
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Apr 28 2009, 08:55 PM
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QUOTE(DoubleJ @ Apr 28 2009, 09:47 PM) Thats a fail on your part boo. Nobody told you to be dumb and be somebody's sugar mama ROFLMAO!!! |
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May 12 2009, 01:09 AM
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world of warcraft.
the end |
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May 12 2009, 01:23 PM
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QUOTE(transcendentalism @ May 12 2009, 02:09 AM) world of warcraft. the end Haha |
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May 12 2009, 09:08 PM
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Live long and prosper. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 5,525 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,024 |
QUOTE(DoubleJ @ Apr 28 2009, 08:47 PM) Thats a fail on your part boo. Nobody told you to be dumb and be somebody's sugar mama  I KNOW
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May 18 2009, 01:22 AM
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QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Apr 23 2009, 10:39 AM) lmao what I love about this is that you guys are saying we (men) f*ck up relationships by acting like you. so therefore, women's actions f*ck up relationships. that's not necessarily true. men and women each play a different role. so if the woman is acting like a woman and the man is acting like a woman, it won't work out. there's no balance. |
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May 18 2009, 02:57 AM
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QUOTE(rejakalu @ May 18 2009, 02:22 AM) that's not necessarily true. men and women each play a different role. so if the woman is acting like a woman and the man is acting like a woman, it won't work out. there's no balance. In other words, it's as JC said, a woman's action messes up relationships. 
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May 18 2009, 05:35 AM
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May 18 2009, 10:52 PM
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QUOTE(IamLegend @ May 18 2009, 02:57 AM) In other words, it's as JC said, a woman's action messes up relationships. No. It means a lack of balance messes up relationships. |
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May 18 2009, 10:58 PM
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 Sex, Blood, & RocknRoll Group: People Staff Posts: 5,305 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 596,480 |
The balance ended when women thought they could leave the damn kitchen.
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May 19 2009, 06:46 AM
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but who will do my laundry
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May 19 2009, 07:18 AM
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QUOTE(reupONtrees @ May 19 2009, 07:46 AM) but who will do my laundry mommy? |
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May 20 2009, 12:17 AM
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i dont live with my mommy
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May 20 2009, 10:35 AM
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Ley <3 Group: Member Posts: 579 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 664,894 |
Dont do laundry, just go shopping.
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May 20 2009, 11:08 AM
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QUOTE(ley @ May 20 2009, 11:35 AM) Dont do laundry, just go shopping. You posted in the wrong thread. You're looking for "How women f*ck up relationships" |
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May 20 2009, 11:17 AM
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Because they're either assholes or they're crazy!
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May 20 2009, 02:56 PM
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Ley <3 Group: Member Posts: 579 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 664,894 |
QUOTE(kryogenjx @ May 20 2009, 11:08 AM) You posted in the wrong thread. You're looking for "How women f*ck up relationships" We f*ck up relationships by shopping? hmmmmmm, that would explain a lot. |
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May 20 2009, 03:28 PM
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if anything, women mess up relationships. we talk too much, we're overly jealous, dependant, interfere in affairs which do not concern us.
then again, the sex overides our flaws, sooo... |
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May 20 2009, 03:51 PM
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QUOTE(DressYourEyelids @ May 20 2009, 04:28 PM) if anything, women mess up relationships. we talk too much, we're overly jealous, dependant, interfere in affairs which do not concern us. then again, the sex overide our flaws, sooo...
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May 22 2009, 04:23 PM
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QUOTE(DressYourEyelids @ May 20 2009, 01:28 PM) the sex overides our flaws haha...no |
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May 23 2009, 02:45 PM
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Ley <3 Group: Member Posts: 579 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 664,894 |
QUOTE(DressYourEyelids @ May 20 2009, 03:28 PM) if anything, women mess up relationships. we talk too much, we're overly jealous, dependant, interfere in affairs which do not concern us. then again, the sex overides our flaws, sooo... Whats all this we business? |
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May 24 2009, 05:28 PM
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THEY ARE AFRAID OF COMMITMENT AND THINGS GETTING SERIOUS!
QUOTE(DressYourEyelids @ May 20 2009, 04:28 PM) if anything, women mess up relationships. we talk too much, we're overly jealous, dependant, interfere in affairs which do not concern us. then again, the sex overides our flaws, sooo... Maybe that is you... The guy gets more jealous than I do majority of the time. |
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May 24 2009, 06:51 PM
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QUOTE(AimatmeRam @ May 24 2009, 06:28 PM) THEY ARE AFRAID OF COMMITMENT AND THINGS GETTING SERIOUS! Maybe that is you... The guy gets more jealous than I do majority of the time. sarcasm, babe. |
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May 24 2009, 06:53 PM
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QUOTE(IWontRapeYou @ May 18 2009, 11:58 PM) The balance ended when women thought they could leave the damn kitchen. ROFLMAO |
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Jun 3 2009, 10:01 AM
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Ley <3 Group: Member Posts: 579 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 664,894 |
I really hate when guys are bugging to go everywhere with me. Ok, you wanna go shopping with me even though you hate shopping be my guest, but must you stand outside of every store like a soldier.
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Jun 3 2009, 10:14 AM
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The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
QUOTE(ley @ Jun 3 2009, 11:01 AM) I really hate when guys are bugging to go everywhere with me. Ok, you wanna go shopping with me even though you hate shopping be my guest, but must you stand outside of every store like a soldier. are you good looking? |
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Jun 3 2009, 10:29 AM
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Ley <3 Group: Member Posts: 579 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 664,894 |
QUOTE(DoubleJ @ Jun 3 2009, 10:14 AM) are you good looking? Yes. He used to not mind the shopping but i am pretty high maintenance. I know it bugs him so i would rather just go with my girls. Since hes a jealous kinda guy he wants to be there. He says its a loose loose situation so hed rather be there bored. |
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Jun 12 2009, 10:00 PM
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QUOTE(leyvacu @ Apr 23 2009, 12:19 PM) Good idea! Lets see...well im sorry if i dont wanna talk to you all day and night about everything and nothing. I mean shouldn't the guy be happy im not all on his nuts all time? how do we act like women?? you might wanna elaborate on that |
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Jun 13 2009, 04:27 PM
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Some men try to read Cosmo (or other "chick" magazines) in order to "figure women out" and then use what it says against us. Those things are fun to read, guilty pleasures I guess, but that doesn't mean that we agree with everything written there so don't hold it against us. (Stupid, but I do know someone who did this.)
They think flowers or some showing of "romance" will make everything ok, instead of addressing the real problem. Men want to act all macho or chivalrous so they pay for everything even though we BOTH know they cannot afford it. Then they get mad when we offer to pay instead. Hello, I make money too! They play games. Wait to call us or act uninterested. Try to make us jealous. ETC. They lie to avoid "trouble," get caught, and blame it on us as if they were forced to lie. It's not my fault you're too scared to tell the truth. Grow some balls. They don't appreciate all that we do for them and take it for granted. I'm supposed to pick your clothes off the floor, clean the apartment, cook your food, do your laundry, and you're gonna what? Oh yea, SIT THERE. Great way to f*ck up a relationship. This is exactly what my ex did. |
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Jun 13 2009, 04:38 PM
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QUOTE(xTINAA @ Jun 13 2009, 04:27 PM) They don't appreciate all that we do for them and take it for granted. I'm supposed to pick your clothes off the floor, clean the apartment, cook your food, do your laundry, and you're gonna what? Oh yea, SIT THERE. Great way to f*ck up a relationship. This is exactly what my ex did.
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Jun 14 2009, 12:52 AM
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Drank wit your boy Group: Official Member Posts: 1,711 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 649,997 |
QUOTE(kryogenjx @ May 20 2009, 12:08 PM) You posted in the wrong thread. You're looking for "How women f*ck up relationships"
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Jun 14 2009, 12:54 AM
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Drank wit your boy Group: Official Member Posts: 1,711 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 649,997 |
QUOTE(ley @ May 20 2009, 03:56 PM) We f*ck up relationships by shopping? hmmmmmm, that would explain a lot. A woman should always do laundry. Unless she spending her own money shopping, she shouldn't be doing it. 
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Jun 15 2009, 02:51 PM
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Ley <3 Group: Member Posts: 579 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 664,894 |
QUOTE(IamLegend @ Jun 14 2009, 12:54 AM) A woman should always do laundry. Unless she spending her own money shopping, she shouldn't be doing it. She shouldn't be doing what? The laundry or the shopping. I hardly ever do laundry i just pay someone to do it. I shop alot and its usually with my money so i don't see the problem. |
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Jun 15 2009, 03:43 PM
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I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
QUOTE(ley @ Jun 15 2009, 02:51 PM) She shouldn't be doing what? The laundry or the shopping. I hardly ever do laundry i just pay someone to do it. I shop alot and its usually with my money so i don't see the problem. lol @ paying someone to do laundry |
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Jun 15 2009, 04:05 PM
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DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
QUOTE(IamLegend @ Jun 14 2009, 12:54 AM) A woman should always do laundry. Unless she spending her own money shopping, she shouldn't be doing it. What if it's your dedicates? Don't you want her to think that you have wonderful hygiene? Unless you don't wear any.
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Jun 15 2009, 04:43 PM
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Live long and prosper. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 5,525 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,024 |
QUOTE(IamLegend @ Jun 14 2009, 12:54 AM) A woman should always do laundry. Unless she spending her own money shopping, she shouldn't be doing it.  no thanks. |
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Jun 16 2009, 04:21 PM
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hmmm... relationship can be f by any one of the twos.
It depends upon the situation... Person ( man or woman ) is never wrong it's the time... We all do mistakes... we should learn from our mistakes and move on... |
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Jun 16 2009, 10:30 PM
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Drank wit your boy Group: Official Member Posts: 1,711 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 649,997 |
QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Jun 15 2009, 04:43 PM) lol @ paying someone to do laundry  QUOTE(karmakiller @ Jun 15 2009, 05:05 PM) What if it's your dedicates? Don't you want her to think that you have wonderful hygiene? Unless you don't wear any. Of course I want her to think I have nice hygiene, but if you don't want me to wear them then this can be arranged too.
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Jun 16 2009, 10:42 PM
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 f your couch Group: Official Member Posts: 3,089 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 491,301 |
not being upfront with me.
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Jun 17 2009, 01:24 AM
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Drank wit your boy Group: Official Member Posts: 1,711 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 649,997 |
QUOTE(smash @ Jun 16 2009, 11:42 PM) not being upfront with me. Are you serious? Women can't handle the truth. If I'm not upfront, she wants me to be honest and upfront. If I'm upfront, she gets upset saying I shouldn't have said that. It's a catch 22, either you lose or you lose.
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Jun 17 2009, 03:57 AM
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(′ ･ω･｀) Group: Official Designer Posts: 6,179 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,477 |
thats too bad kc
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Jun 17 2009, 09:19 AM
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Ley <3 Group: Member Posts: 579 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 664,894 |
QUOTE(IamLegend @ Jun 17 2009, 01:24 AM) Are you serious? Women can't handle the truth. If I'm not upfront, she wants me to be honest and upfront. If I'm upfront, she gets upset saying I shouldn't have said that. It's a catch 22, either you lose or you lose. Guys do the exact same thing. |
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Jun 17 2009, 02:27 PM
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f your couch Group: Official Member Posts: 3,089 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 491,301 |
QUOTE(IamLegend @ Jun 17 2009, 01:24 AM) Are you serious? Women can't handle the truth. If I'm not upfront, she wants me to be honest and upfront. If I'm upfront, she gets upset saying I shouldn't have said that. It's a catch 22, either you lose or you lose. yes i'm serious and i'm not that type of woman. i'm more than capable of handling the truth. whether a guy thinks it's gonna hurt my feelings or not i prefer to be told the truth. if my feelings get hurt i rationalize them and move on asap. i hate being lied to and getting the "brush off." that catch 22 sounds like crap to me right now. a guy loses credit with me when he choses to lie about something rather than just be honest. i'd take a "i don't wanna talk about it" over a lie any day. |
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Jun 17 2009, 02:35 PM
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Ley <3 Group: Member Posts: 579 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 664,894 |
QUOTE(smash @ Jun 17 2009, 02:27 PM) yes i'm serious and i'm not that type of woman. i'm more than capable of handling the truth. whether a guy thinks it's gonna hurt my feelings or not i prefer to be told the truth. if my feelings get hurt i rationalize them and move on asap. i hate being lied to and getting the "brush off." that catch 22 sounds like crap to me right now. a guy loses credit with me when he choses to lie about something rather than just be honest. i'd take a "i don't wanna talk about it" over a lie any day. What about when they lie because they didn't want to upset YOU? Men can be so considerate. |
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Jun 17 2009, 02:38 PM
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f your couch Group: Official Member Posts: 3,089 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 491,301 |
^lol. that's what they think.
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Jun 18 2009, 12:12 AM
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Drank wit your boy Group: Official Member Posts: 1,711 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 649,997 |
QUOTE(ley @ Jun 17 2009, 10:19 AM) Guys do the exact same thing. Yeah but we don't go into some emotional breakdown afterwards and if we do, we get over it much quicker. Kathy be like "OMFG why did he cheat on me!!! Is it something I did wrong? Am I not beautiful enough?" She be sitting up in her room like Brandy for 5 days straight with tissues in her hand crying and stuff. Tyrone on the other hand be like, "I can't believe this bitch cheated on me with Jaywon." He be up in his room for 2 days with his hand in his pants like that Usher video. Niggas be asking him to go out and party and he be sitting at home. Then all of a sudden that n*gga spirits get lifted and he on some U don't have to call, its okay girl, cuz imma be alright tonight type stuff. QUOTE(smash @ Jun 17 2009, 03:27 PM) yes i'm serious and i'm not that type of woman. i'm more than capable of handling the truth. whether a guy thinks it's gonna hurt my feelings or not i prefer to be told the truth. if my feelings get hurt i rationalize them and move on asap. i hate being lied to and getting the "brush off." that catch 22 sounds like crap to me right now. a guy loses credit with me when he choses to lie about something rather than just be honest. i'd take a "i don't wanna talk about it" over a lie any day. Girls be saying they can handle the truth until it actually happens. If girls could handle the truth, they wouldn't go all Jazmine Sullivan on us and bust the windows out a car. They say the truth shall set you free. That ain't true at all. Nobody ain't going to fix my windows for free now are they?  Yeah, thats what I thought.
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Jun 18 2009, 11:58 AM
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Ley <3 Group: Member Posts: 579 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 664,894 |
Men f*ck up relationships by being overly protective and jealous. I mean if you call me in the middle of the night and im not really talking to you its because i was asleep! Yet you automatically jump to the conclusion that its because there's someone else in the bed with me doing god knows what and distracting me from talking to you.
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Jun 18 2009, 04:09 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 6 Joined: Jun 2009 Member No: 732,685 |
i thnk the worst things they do are
1 lie to you about stuped things 2 look at other girls, adn not you 3 ignore you around their friends 4 refuse to talk about anythgin but sex 5 tell you you cnat have guy friends 6 scream and get mad over somethign little 7 push you away when you waht a kiss 8 chose to get drunk or stoned over you 9 forget something you jsut told them three times 10 (top reason) talk crap about you to all their friends and act like you mean nothign to them but i piece of ass |
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Jun 20 2009, 12:37 PM
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Ley <3 Group: Member Posts: 579 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 664,894 |
QUOTE(coolbutstressed @ Jun 18 2009, 04:09 PM) i thnk the worst things they do are 1 lie to you about stuped things 2 look at other girls, adn not you 3 ignore you around their friends 4 refuse to talk about anythgin but sex 5 tell you you cnat have guy friends 6 scream and get mad over somethign little 7 push you away when you waht a kiss 8 chose to get drunk or stoned over you 9 forget something you jsut told them three times 10 (top reason) talk crap about you to all their friends and act like you mean nothign to them but i piece of ass Well, I'm not trying to be a hater but most of those might be all you... 1.agree 2.Why cant they look at other girls? i look at other guys. 3.Are you one of those be clingy when his friends are around kind of girls? i hate that, i really really hate guys that do that too. 4.Doesn't everyone like to talk about sex? 5.agree thats pretty stupid 6.I'm about 95% sure girls do this more than guys. 7.has never happened to me, you must be clingy. 8.'' 9.Why would you even repeat yourself that much. Its obviously not important enough to remember. 10.You are saying that like it has happened to you alot. So maybe your the one confusing the bootycall for a relationship. |
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