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 Jul 5 2004, 10:09 PM
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my bf and i have been going out sience saturday. *i know only 2 days but please keep on reading* neways but before we started to go out and we both found out that we like each other, my best friend has been telling him. that she thinks he just wants to make out with me. but its so hard for me to believe. cause he says and everyone knows, that hes looking for the one. and he said that he would kiss me whenever i am ready too. so i dont know what i should do. i dont want to go out with a guy just to make out with him but . i want to believe him.>_<
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Jul 5 2004, 10:10 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 11 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,196 |
sorry i ment she told me *
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Jul 5 2004, 10:14 PM
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 Don't wake ghostie. Group: Official Member Posts: 3,546 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,405 |
relationships shouldnt be this hard when your so young, don't take everything so seriously. and i think you shouldconsider that your best frien is trying to warn you, she in't our best friend for no reason right? she is your best friend because she lovs you. but have fun and make out your young (and you shouldn't spam just push edit) you won't find "the one" until your older anyway.
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Jul 5 2004, 11:38 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,412 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,012 |
i think he just wants to use u.. i think he just wants ure body.. i mean.. its only 2 days? aniwaiz, that is wut i think..
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Jul 5 2004, 11:46 PM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
Well, if he says that he's willing to wait to kiss you, then he's not a bad guy is he? But then again, it is your best friend. So I'm not sure. I think you'll have to take things as they come and wait it out a bit.
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Jul 5 2004, 11:49 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 279 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,406 |
I would say.. jus wait longer.. cuz.. if he only wants to date u cuz he wants to kiss u.. then he wouldnt wait long.. so yah.. tell him your not ready and see what he does... if he is okay with it.. you'd know who to believe
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Jul 6 2004, 12:20 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 521 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,812 |
i don't know how old you are.. and i'm not experienced at these types of relationship issues, but i say friends before guys. yeah.. i guess you should just be patient. there might come a time when you'll have to choose between your friend and him, but hopefully, you'll know whom is the right choice. cheers.
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Jul 6 2004, 02:11 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,508 |
does your friend have anything to base her assumptions on? (i.e. rumors, something he did to a past gf, etc.)
anyways, if he is like that, maybe he's changed for the better? maybe you should give him a chance, just to see how things go. however, don't let your guard down. guys can be sneaky.  and tell your friend that you really appreciate her concern, but you kinda want to believe him. hopefully, she won't be offended. 
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Jul 6 2004, 02:31 PM
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 dance starrie dance! Group: Member Posts: 205 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,294 |
who have u known more ? who do you trust? if you really trust him, then go with him..but i think this friend could be right, i mean friends just dont lie
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Jul 6 2004, 02:34 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
I think you should trust whoever you know better .. nd talk to em .. nd yeah
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Jul 6 2004, 08:26 PM
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 lil azn supermodel... =] Group: Member Posts: 461 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,841 |
hmm she might b a lil protective of u which is good cuz shes lookin out fa u, since it hasnt been that long, i think u should feel out tha relationship, lyk b a lil more cautious wit him
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Jul 6 2004, 08:56 PM
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 lookitskait Group: Member Posts: 37 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,930 |
talk to your boi!! sounds like your friend is assuming stuff!!
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Jul 6 2004, 11:39 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,032 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,398 |
ask him bout it buh he prolly sai no...umm dun kiss him yet den nd wait longer
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Jul 7 2004, 03:19 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
erm i think that if he said that hes willing to wait till ur ready to kiss, then i guess hes not that bad. i think u should still go out with him and get to know him a bit better. if hes wat ur fren saes he is, then break up with him
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Jul 7 2004, 09:40 PM
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 Behbi_Simplicity Group: Member Posts: 94 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,411 |
Best Friend. Think about that word.
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Aug 6 2004, 04:49 PM
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 LynnhoOd bOi Group: Member Posts: 17 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,415 |
QUOTE(Behbi_Simplicity @ Jul 7 2004, 7:40 PM) Best Friend. Think about that word. Besfriend and so wat? Dink about tis word TRUST |
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Aug 6 2004, 04:50 PM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
Ask Comrade Beria. He is on the staff of Pravda. Pravda is always correct.
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Aug 6 2004, 05:25 PM
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Sometimes friends get jealous and say stuff that isnt true.
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Aug 6 2004, 09:37 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
hm.. i wouldnt believe anyone but ill take the best friends advice and keep it in mind.. jus dont fall too deep for him or u'll end up getting hurt
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Aug 7 2004, 04:00 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 39 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,286 |
ur friend might b joking w/ u but u can nevr tell for sure....jus don't make him c like ur easy and a piece of ass (not that u r)..and don't do anything that ur not ready to do
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Aug 7 2004, 08:25 PM
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Get to know him first. If like, for example, he tries to kiss you immediatly on the first date, he might be all about trouble. Otherwise, if he does give you time and doesn't pressure you to do anything you're uncomfortable with, then stay with him. Remember one thing though, if he does pressure you to do something you don't want to and says something like, I'll dump you if you don't do this, dump him immediatly. Hope I helped!
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| *RiC3xBoy* |
Aug 7 2004, 08:49 PM
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well, if he wanted to make out with someone, there musta been a reason he chose u, so ima go with the jealous bff thing
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Aug 7 2004, 09:30 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 875 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,841 |
since he did say hes going to wait for you until youre ready then dont rush youself and if he stops waiting that means your best friend was right i guess?
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Aug 7 2004, 09:41 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
There's an edit button so you don't have to double post.
 Well if your best friend is the only one who's told you he only wants you to make out, and everybody else is telling you he's looking for "the one" then I think that you should stay with this guy. If he tries to put a move on you, and seems to have lied about that "kissing you until you're ready" then break up with him. Reconsider this "best friend" of yours, if you find out she was lying to you about the making out thing. |
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Aug 25 2004, 05:47 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,831 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,324 |
TWO DAYS? Wow. You should give it time and see the real guy he is. See if he really likes you for you and not a make-out buddy. Consider your best friend's idea because after all, she is your best friend--but she can also be wrong.
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Aug 25 2004, 01:18 PM
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 Mmm..Meat :D Group: Member Posts: 326 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,086 |
Maybe you should continue for at least 2 weeks and try to get to know him better, because your friend might just be lying..or not.
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Aug 25 2004, 01:22 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Two words: edit button..
 Wowz0rz, only 2 days..? Uhm. Talk to him. |
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Aug 25 2004, 01:33 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 66 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,918 |
Just wait it out a bit, see how things go. You two haven't been together long and if he's willing to wait for that first kiss then you'd know to believe him over your friends. Just take things day by day and see how things go!
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Aug 25 2004, 02:58 PM
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 i'm lala. girly girl. Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,888 |
dont worry bout it. just go with the flow. just do what you think is the right thing.
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Aug 25 2004, 03:03 PM
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 Effing classic. Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,183 |
well, you've only been going out for two days, and if he says that he is willing to wait until your ready to kiss, you should thank him for that. if he tries to kiss you and he had said that he was going to wait...then he isn't worth your time, because he lied. so i would just test the waters for about a week or two and go from there. Also, you say your friend told you that he just wants to go out with you just so he can make out? how does your friend know that?
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